TheOne

With me it all depends on the excitment of the girl i am with. The longest i have gone is a couple of hours and the shortest is about 1 minute. It all depends on the encounter.

repeater

I agree, I think it's also similar to asking "how many beers can you drink?" It depends on a lot of things.

I'm in college so my girlfriend and I spend time apart for months sometimes where we don't have sex. Generally the first time we do after a break it's not very long. But when we're together regularly then I can last a lot longer.

It's also a bit weird, I always thought it was supposed to be the opposite, but when I'm drunk I last a lot longer than if I'm sober. I've always heard it was supposed to be the other way around.

xxSquirtxx

If we're just talking about penetration, then probaby 10-20 min. Depends on how aroused we are. I say "we" because if I'm ready to cum before him, I try like hell to get him off with me. So much better! We cum together 99% of the time.

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Cheers!

4 me: 2 minutes to 1 hour

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scrooloose

if there is alcohol involved I can last along time if not between 5-15 minutes, it all bepends on the situation.

Kid_Karysma

Honestly,

masturbating - about an hour

sex - 30 minutes (not including foreplay) max....8 minutes min.

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I can't believe that this joke hasn't been made:

Title: How long before you BLOW??

answer: at least thee or four drinks

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mrbigdog

well if its been sometime sence the last time i had any not very long at all

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fhqwhgads

Depends on if I'm paying by the minute or if I've got her for the whole night.

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octopus

Well, that mostly sums it up for me.
My partner and I are very well connected with each others 'state' ,if that word describes it.
We are both acutely aware of the desire for a quickie or hours of pleasure.
How long I last before I blow my load depends upon so many factors.

One thing is for sure - the first one after her period is always a 30 second quickie where ever in the house she decides to do me at the time...

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Krycheck

1. Too long
2. If I care, I'll try as long as a can. If I don't I hurry up.
3. We all have the same answer for this one.
4. Same
5. Same
6. If she's on top it may not be too long. If I'm on top I have control.
7. Double the time with condom.
8. Quick, not quick.
9. The longer the foreplay the longer the time.
10. If she knows kegels forget it. 2 min tops

If im really into this person and the time we're having. We go second or third round. So overall answer? 30 to an hour.

45 min nooner today

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macmanmike6100

depends on the mean-time between sex. generally, the more time since the last session, the shorter I last.

thus, it's a win-win for my girlfriend and I: she gives me frequency, and I give her longevity!

Papageorgeo101

It all really depends on the guy and the girl he's having sex with. Generally, I've found that if it's with a girl that I really car about, I can go a long time (gone 45 minutes once, sore the next day , avg 10 - 30min), but if it's someone you don't really care about, it's shorter. It also depends on how much foreplay you do. If you do a LOT of foreplay, then you'll be a lot hornier than if you jumped right into it, making it last an even shorter amount of time.

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3-4 hours for me unless its been awhile then its 3-4 minutes haha

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davik

I tend to run on the long side; my first time lasted a little over 2 hours. That being said, it depends alot on the activity. When I'm really worked up and not really trying to control myself it can be as little as 15 minutes; if I'm really trying to control myself and keep going I'll eventually hit a point where I'll stay hard but won't get off no matter what I do.

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foscon

when she tells me to stop or when I'm ready to go back and watch tv...unless I'm feeling a bit randy and then about 20 minutes

CityOfAngels

It depends on how excited I am. If I'm just masterbating, I've clocked myself up to three hours. It usually takes me over an hour. If I'm having sex with a condom, I usually CAN'T cum unless I'm really REALLY excited. I've only finished in a condom once in my life. If I'm having sex without a condom, I usually last 45 minutes, but I've gone as long as an hour and a half, and as short as 15 minutes. It all depends on the excitement factor and the speed.

Edit: Forgot to add the main point: The more excited I am, and the faster the stroking/fucking, the faster I finish. The less excited I am, and the slower the stroking/fucking, the slower I cum (and sometimes I just don't cum).

GTI

Its a mental thing for me depends on how intgerested I am

Albion

I haven't read the entire thread so I am just going to respond to the original question.

The amount of time it takes me to cum is inversely proportional to the amount of time a) it's been since I have had sex, b) it's been since I have seen/had sex with my current girl friend, and c) how aroused the person I am having sex with makes me. I.E. if she's extraordinarily beautiful and it's been a while since I have gotten anything, I'll probably last about 30 or so seconds.

There is also the intoxication factor. I find the amount of time it takes me to cum to be proportional to the level of my intoxication. If I am hammered I really have to concentrate to get anywhere.

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vpbar73

been married 8 yrs. dating since 88. outcome is around 25 min.

Silex

Too many factors....but usually 30min or more......its all about mental discipline

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DJ Happy

Well, it depends. Sometimes 3, sometimes 6, up to maybe 10 on a good day. When drunk I've even been known to last 20 seconds.

aphroditeskiss1

My guy lasts as long as I need him to. He may orgasm before I'm done, but because he doesn't go soft afterwards, it usually doesn't matter. I love it.

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piano girl

It's really how important how long he lasts. I like to see how far I can make it shoot.

iblade

My record is half an hour, but I could probably last more. I have an awesome technique, if you want to last in one given position. I just count this way:

"1+1" 2
"2+2" 4
"4+4" 8
"8+8" 16

Once you get into higher numbers I guarantee that you really get concentrated on it.

HoneyPot

hmmm I guess I would have to find someone first... that suits my fancy.
Previous sexual encounters include the premature ejaculator most of the time. How unfortunate am I? Ugh.

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mandy

well my SO can last for long periods of time from up to half an hour to bout two hours.sometimes he maintains the erection after he orgasms sometimes not.

always ready for a second round...

Poppinjay

My SO doesn't like marathon sex, anything longer than 30 minutes.

That works for me most of the time. 7-20 minutes. About half the time, we preface it with 5 minutes of oral, unless we're trying to get pregnant.

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15 - 40 mins average

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Martian

5 mins to 2 hours in one session, if we're talking multiple sessions we've spent entire days having sex.

It's all in the technique. I know how to control myself and so if we're having a 5 minute quicky that's all I'll do, if we want a nice long, drawn-out love making session I can do that too.

Quickest we ever did was when we were at her parents' house with her friend in her bedroom and she called me into the bathroom (where she'd just finished taking a shower). She left the water on so it sounded like she was still in and we had sex right there on the bathroom floor. It was about 3 and a half minutes.

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sandiman

depends on many things, usually from 6-10 minute, sometimes longer and sometimes quicker.

snowy

After more than 20 minutes, I start getting sore. I've never had to struggle for orgasms, so after having more than a few in the first five minutes, I start getting kind of...bored. 10 minutes is perfect. Perfect.

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abaya

With my bf fucking me and playing with my clit: when it happens, 20 mins or so?
With my bf going down on me and nothing to hang on to: 20-25 mins.
Same as above, but with something to hold on to and clench my abs: 15-20 mins.
Same as above, but with a vibe involved: 10-15 mins.
With my vibe on the outside and a nice dildo inside: 5-10 mins.

That said, as nice as it is to "blow" fast with a vibe, I much prefer having my bf involved in whatever manner suits us and taking our time to bring me to orgasm, then having him blow as soon as possible afterwards, if not at the same time.

EDIT: These are all estimates. I've never sat with a stop watch or anything. So if ktspktsp thinks the times are different for us, I beg him to correct me... if I've been a bad girl. Yes, very bad....

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Update: Still about 4 hours.

klined

Depends, I spend a lot of time in front of the pc conditioning myself for lasting 2 minutes, but if you clean the snorkel a few hours before the deed, I can last days

Scrub0

usually about 40 mins. sometimes it just doesn't happen though, and i (or she) has to use the hand.

cellophanedeity

My love comes anywhere between two minutes to two hours.

Mystifying

Sometimes 5 minutes, sometimes hours.... sometimes it doesn't matter because one session leads to another.... I do wait until after my wife orgasms (preferably several).

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Herk

Wow, I have to be honest, anything more than, 15 to 30 minutes of actual penetration time starts to get annoying. Like, "Holy shit, I can't cum. Please, please! Lets do this... I'm a cashew."

In all reallity, though usually with my confortable partner of 8 years, the whole thing can take not long at all. There is little needed of trying to impress one another with big numbers on the clock.

On that same token, we both know what we both need, and give of sufficiently. Sometimes we'll spend 10 minutes just kissing, then I'll go down on her until she gets off twice, then yeah the sex doesn't need to take long, as she's already in cum over-and-over-again-mode.

for those that say multiple hours - You all must have some Krytox, high-capability, government only lube or something, because I know after 30 minutes at best of pumping my wife and I would be begging for it to stop. We tend to get raw, but maybe thats because my 3"x1/2" penis can't keep a good lube seal.

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