Sugar&Spice

I have two friends who both thought that the actual act of sex only was suppose to last about 5 minutes max or 2 minutes on a bad day for their guy. I always wondered why they said they could never have orgasms from sex. Now I know why. So my question is, guys how long can you go before blowing your load? Or girls..how long does your guy usually last?

Halx

cue the overstated, exaggerated and highly extended lap times...

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Craven Morehead

sometimes a long time
sometimes not

bermuDa

I can maintain my erection long after ejaculation, so it's not an issue for me. What's the point of sex when you're done after the first round?

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analog

about 4 hours.

fallenangel

My guy lasts as long as i needed him too... sometimes all i want is a raw hot quickie, other days i could just spend hours having sex.

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0nesh0tw0nder

If you don't count short breaks... then long enough to make my woman happy.

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hannukah harry

i don't know... it's weird, but 5 minutes of sex feels like a lot longer, at least to me.

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moonstrucksoul

are you kidding, I blow my wad just looking at my wife.

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telekinetic

That's like saying how long can you eat....it all depends on what exactly you're doing, and what you're going for. WIth good communication and two healthy people, I'd say anywhere from 2 minutes to not coming for hours, or even at all, would be possible, if desired.

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Derwood

Never as long as I like

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Shades

I'm all over the map- if it's been a while, or I'm really revved up, sometimes I'm just about done after 10 seconds. Other times, it can take as long as an hour, perhaps longer (obviously these are rare, and do not occur on the first session that day). I guess on average I'm somewhere in the 10-15 range, usually at which point she starts giving me the "wrap it up" signals.

crow_daw

Well, I'll be completely honest.

If I'm on top, I probably average about ten minutes. She never gets off, cause I blow too quick. Shit, ain't no shame in my game.

If she's on top, I don't get off, but she loves it. Its not that she's bad, I love how it feels, I just don't get off for some reason with her riding me. We have to switch for me to finish

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wombatman

Usual time....15 minutes if I've been teased or it's the first time in a way. 30 to 45 minutes if not. Longest time was 2 and a half hours (the second I ever had sex...about an hour after the first.)

yankeefatboy

What the hell are you guys timing "how long" for? I have a hard enough time taking care of the wife without trying to see how long I can last.

StickODynomite

lol usually takes me forever, or it doesn't happen AT ALL. sex when i was high was great ..even tho i didn't "blow" my load-haha!

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Tuffy_McGee

About 10-15 minutes. If I go twice (without stopping) It will be about 30 minutes, I think.
If I'm trying to make "her" happy then I'll always go twice if I can.

slimshaydee

it's all in the foreplay anyway. I used to be able to get my ex off pretty easily by going down on her

noahfor

When I was on effexor I could last forever. Now that I'm off 10 seconds.
In all seriousness though, I went over to my girlfriends, put it in, pulled it out, and came. Then 5 miniutes later we had sex again, and that time I lasted about a minute.

Polyphobic

Depends. If I remember to take care of business beforehand, hours. Sometimes 10 minutes for a quicky (we have a 9 month old son). If alcohol is involved, I can go on and on. Last time I was kicked off of her after several hrs.

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kel

Bingo.
It varies depending on how I feel, If I feel stressed/sick/tired I may collapse from exhaustion first. All other things being equal, about 10 minutes depending on what position we do and whether I concentrate on her pleasure or mine.

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World's King

How much time you got?

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tisonlyi

Sometimes i never blow the load.

Sometimes it blows by itself (which is usually not accompanied by an orgasm, not nice).

Mostly, I'm in control. i.e. as long as I bloody well like.

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SixEdxMia

Yea,well..I'm a girl.. so not much of a load : )

I am the girl that makes out with you and straddles your leg and sucks your face & cums in her pants and leaves you excited... so... less than fifteen seconds...What can I say,I dont get much.

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la petite moi

Usually he lasts about 5 minutes, but one time he lasted 20 minutes.

impulse03

speaking of timeing....

I'm an 18 yr old male.
Last night my gf and I had, if you can call it that, sex for the first time. It was kinda strange. It all just started with the foreplay and all, and we only had like an hour for everything to go down, unfortunately. The condom went on with me being fully hard. She was very tight and kinda tough to get into but as we got going, her roommate showed up and started knocking on the bedroom door and whatnot. She want away after we refused to let her in, but it kinda scared us both. We both like freaked out and i went somewhat soft. I didnt go limp or anything, but i was like half hard, half soft, and kept slipping out from then on.

I had no idea of the time passing, but I feel really weird about the whole situation. Nothing happened the way that it was supposed to, I suppose. We just had so much trouble getting started, and then when we finally did her roommate scared the shit out of us (not literally of course), and everythign just went downhill.

I need some help here, like I just feel weird. Should I?

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Blue93g20

With a Condom, its hit or miss sometimes i can't get off before shes tired or raw. I could have sex for hours or 20 minutes. My ex complained that we could never have quickies becuase it took me too long, we always had protected sex. Without Condoms its depends could be 1 hour or could be 2 minutes.

With me i think if I'm in it physically for the sex i don't enjoy it as much as if i actually care about the person. My last girlfirend i didn't care about, previous ones i did and the times change dramatically. But i've been able to achieve 40+ minutes more regular then 5 and under. Honestly sometimes its a pain in the ass.

saritonin

With my ex, he was always done in a few minutes, except for the one time he was sick and we fooled around anyway. Not that it really mattered because I'm quite an easy customer when it comes to the orgasms.

With the current beau, I haven't really bothered to time it but it's definitely a lot longer than 5 minutes. I honestly don't know if it would be physically possible to have a quickie with my current boyfriend. Not that I'm complaining....

impulse03 - Living with roommates sucks like that. If it's a viable option, save up a few bucks and find your way to a motel for a night. There will be less stress on you and your girl and you'll be able to relax and enjoy yourselves. Otherwise, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Trying new things is half the fun anyway. Don't be upset if it doesn't work quite the way you imagine the first time.

imkeen

impulse03, you may want to post that to a different thread, as it could derail the discussion here, but would ceratinly bring lots of advice on its own.

I think twistedmosaic had it right. It really depends on what you and you're partner are trying to do. If we're wanting to play around one night (while the kids are sleeping), using lots of positions, not in one for more than 5-10 minutes, we could go on for a couple of hours that way, if we wanted to. Normally, its a nice friendly love making session and not a sexathon, so we tend to go for about 30 minutes. First, I go down on her, typically to orgasm, then I get to choose my preferred position for her for cumming. :-) Usually it takes me 10-20 minutes because I enjoy the feeling of getting to the cumming part just as much as the actual cumming action. Because, of course, after that its 'silent flacidity' (to misquote an early 90's Queensryche song).

tisonlyi

No need to feel weird, young apprentice.

You were strong like bull, evil roomate scare shit from rutting couple, mood gone.

Big chief ShagsLikeADogOnHeat, he say:

"It Happens"

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doncalypso

I've had my moments where the penetrative intercourse lasted from 45 minutes to an hour.... but in general, I end up shooting my load between 15 and 30 minutes.

I think I'd last longer if I was in better physical shape though... and I'm sure it would help if I masturbated half an hour prior to having sex that way it would take me longer to "bust a nutt" but you can never predict when sex is gonna happen or when your woman is gonna be in the mood. Therefore I try to compensate for my lack of endurance with foreplay and manual stimulation of her clitoris prior to penetration.

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The.Lunatic

Umm, i'm going to assume that it was you're first time not just you and your g/f's first time, because if so don't worry about it, I lasted about.... 30 seconds my first time. Start doing it regularly at least once every other day and in a week you'll be a pro.

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hossified

3 minutes!!!

cas305

I last 2 seconds after my wife gets off, anything over is a waste of time and anything under could jeopardize future fun!

anti fishstick

orgasm isn't even an issue when we have sex. meaning, we don't have sex JUST for orgasm. far from it. we could go as long as we wanted. maybe a few pee breaks in between ;P

for us, sex isn't a means to an end.

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PredeconInferno

I can't actually give you a time measurement here...

When I blow is after my SO has. I try to keep it this way. On a bad day, I can't do this with my man-unit so I'll do it later with one of the other methods.

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absorbentishe

What does it matter? If both parties are satisified, then why should anyone care? If I go before she's happy, then I take care of it.

And for the record, every time is different. Some short, others longer. We've also been experimenting with oragel on the tip, and that allows me to go forever, but we also use toys, so it's become very satisfying all around.

rsl12

40 mins on average. i've had one girl that LOVED that, and another who was constantly frustrated and thought something was wrong with me or didn't find her attractive!!! Can't win

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Hrothgar

depends on amount of time ive gone without. the hotness of the person also plays a factor.

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