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blindawg 05-11-2004 11:31 AM

Anything less then 10 minutes, and I really have to put effort into cumming. After 10 minutes it's usualy when ever I choose. After about 45 minutes then I start to have a harder time keeping it up.. Then of course there is foreplay or not. It's really a matter of time and what we are both wanting that night.

Wax_off 05-11-2004 08:56 PM

For me it really has to do with two things.
1. How into the person I am.
2. How easy they come.
These two interact.

For girls I'm just fucking for the hell of it (booty calls and such) I can last just about as long as I want, usually until they come. For FB girls who come easily, I can last for as long as I want, usually until I get tired and decide to come, or someone gets sore.

With girls who I like a lot and don't come easily, I last until about 2 minutes before they come. Them getting excited gets me off and I blow. This SUCKS to say the least.

It is so fucking frustrating, to not be able to get off the girls that you like through intercourse, but be screw as long as needed for those I'm not into. It's like exactly the opposite of the way it should be. I guess it's good that I'm fairly skilled at giving head, but it's not the same.

Vaultboy 05-12-2004 10:56 PM

with a condom i can keep pounding countinuously (only breaking to change position) for well over an hour before I blow or lose my erection.

without a condom, and taking a girl from behind, i can blow inside a minute.

MageB420666 05-13-2004 02:03 PM

I have lasted from about 1o seconds to about 1 hour and 45 minutes. It would be longer but my gf gets tired after about that long.

iamweasel 05-13-2004 02:30 PM

It varies for me

My record so to speak is 3.5 hours with two cums but that isn't the norm as both parties tend to get bored before that.

Normally it will be 20-40 minutes, once she has come a few times I will flip her over and bang her hard to make me come.

Now if a girl gets vocal as she comes that will make me pop straight away, don't know why.

I do find if I get past the initial omg sensation then I can controll it well :)

Jim Kata 05-14-2004 09:22 AM

Are we talking hardcore fuckin' like *boom boom boom* or the slow grinding kind of fuckin'?

Either way its always too early for me.

Cozmo 05-14-2004 02:47 PM

for me, depends on how much alcohol I've had-it may never happen with too much booze. Also how much the sex has been anticipated/thought about beforehand. I don't know about the rest of you, but if I've been dying to get into some girls pants and it finally happens, I'd be lucky to last 2-3 minutes. I wish I had control over it-that would be an awesome thing to have but unfortunately it sort of has a mind of its own.

CanadianCommie 05-14-2004 07:59 PM

depends I guess. being so young I can kep an erection for well over an hour (about an hour and a half before it all wraps up) regardless of orgasms, but they come in 15-45 minute intervals, depending on a lot of factors, including masturbation, foreplay, and interest in the woman...

WarWagon 05-14-2004 08:39 PM

I'm not sure. The only stopwatch I ever owned could only start reading after 1/100th of a second, so I've never been able to figure it out.

Cbot-X 05-16-2004 11:25 PM

I find that with a condom I can go 30min-1hour, but without the condom its a total crapshoot, could be 2 minutes, could be 20. Depends how turned on she is on entry too.

Esco 05-16-2004 11:43 PM

As long as my gal needs to get off. She goes first, then me.

singledeuce 05-18-2004 08:02 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by impulse03
speaking of timeing....

I'm an 18 yr old male.
Last night my gf and I had, if you can call it that, sex for the first time. It was kinda strange. It all just started with the foreplay and all, and we only had like an hour for everything to go down, unfortunately. The condom went on with me being fully hard. She was very tight and kinda tough to get into but as we got going, her roommate showed up and started knocking on the bedroom door and whatnot. She want away after we refused to let her in, but it kinda scared us both. We both like freaked out and i went somewhat soft. I didnt go limp or anything, but i was like half hard, half soft, and kept slipping out from then on.

I had no idea of the time passing, but I feel really weird about the whole situation. Nothing happened the way that it was supposed to, I suppose. We just had so much trouble getting started, and then when we finally did her roommate scared the shit out of us (not literally of course), and everythign just went downhill.

I need some help here, like I just feel weird. Should I?

Fear not dude! I had a similiar situation behind a movie theatre, except her roomate didn't find us, the COPS did! Talk about going soft.

shroom 06-05-2004 09:02 AM

It depends when the last time I had sex was, sexual tensions and such, but on a good day, when we make love, not just fuck, so its slow and sensual, I can last up to 40 minutes or so (I think, memory isnt too good on that, may have been a break or something in the middle) and since I'm not in too good shape stamina wise, I find it a little difficult to get an erection after my first round, but my way around this is going down on my gf. Shes the first girl that I'v gone down on more than once, because I love doing it to her and, well, I love being down there on her, and its become an obsession of mine, so I find that going down on her not only makes her happy but it gets me ready for a second, third, fourth round :)

06-11-2004 10:31 AM

1 minute if she is really good. l0l

greyeyes 06-11-2004 11:17 AM

I used to have trouble in bed by blowing my load a little too early, but I have been taking siberian Gensing and I last soo much longer (like six to seven hours if needed). and yes it was a good few nights

31Friction 06-11-2004 11:22 AM

im with the wide span guys. from 1 minute to not at all. Depending on...

1. How tired I am
2. How much I care about the girl.
3. How long it's been since I got off
4. The amount of possible alcohol in my system.
5. My mood
6. Position (its usually better to let the girl ride top for the first round)
7. Condom
8. Fucking or making love
9. Amount of foreplay. (I actually tend to last longer with foreplay)
10. If the girl knows kegels.

rockzilla 06-11-2004 03:30 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by 31Friction
im with the wide span guys. from 1 minute to not at all. Depending on...

1. How tired I am
2. How much I care about the girl.
3. How long it's been since I got off
4. The amount of possible alcohol in my system.
5. My mood
6. Position (its usually better to let the girl ride top for the first round)
7. Condom
8. Fucking or making love
9. Amount of foreplay. (I actually tend to last longer with foreplay)
10. If the girl knows kegels.

Pretty much sums it up for me right there. Depending on various factors, I take anywhere from minutes to hours.

pules 06-11-2004 08:31 PM

as most people have said, it all depends on how i feel, how long its been since the last time i did anything. Usually the first round is very quickly for me, but after that, it can go for as long as she's had at least 4 Os

Sancho 06-12-2004 01:45 PM

with a condom, however long we can go before getting too tired, without probably a hour or a little more.

Slims 06-13-2004 01:36 PM

I last...Long enough.

sashime76 06-17-2004 05:55 AM

Between 15 mins to just over 2 hrs....not sure why??

ibis 06-21-2004 08:38 AM

With a condom I can last, well.... until I'm to physically tired to keep going.

Not sure about without a condom. Haven't got there yet ;)

I just started a thread about this actually:
http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthr...threadid=59880

omid 06-23-2004 11:16 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Vaultboy
with a condom i can keep pounding countinuously (only breaking to change position) for well over an hour before I blow or lose my erection.

without a condom, and taking a girl from behind, i can blow inside a minute.


were twins!

heh.

bing bing 06-24-2004 03:14 AM

antidepressants mean that i struggle to blow, even when i want to. It takes a lot of work and usually, she's worn out before i get there. so i just jerk off at the end.

DirtyVegas 06-24-2004 05:29 AM

usually 45 mins to an hour....


coke = 4-5 hrs.

bixx 06-24-2004 08:34 AM

its all about if you can go at it again after my friends :]

Jim Kata 06-24-2004 08:45 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bixx
its all about if you can go at it again after my friends :]
I don't want any sloppy seconds!!!:lol:

Keedo 06-25-2004 08:09 AM

As long as my girl friend needed me. :) I always try to make sure my girl friend is satisified first.


Panopticon 06-25-2004 07:58 PM

Not long enough...

I find I can last a long time when I first wake up though. Morning wood lasts a long time...

nofnway 06-27-2004 09:54 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by cas305
I last 2 seconds after my wife gets off, anything over is a waste of time and anything under could jeopardize future fun! :)

That is so true.......

toxic515 06-28-2004 02:36 PM

well, this thread makes me feel much better, and in spite of Halx queue of the music and exaggeration, I'm glad to see that 2-5 minutes of actual coitus really is mostly normal. Fact is I can go a good deal longer, but not all at once.. it's bump bump stop bump bump stop.... and the second and third times get progressively longer, sometimes to the point of I am unable to go a 3rd time. Trick for me is to ensure that she's reached "Ohio" a couple of times at least before I try to get mine... unless it's just a quick down and dirty, and then sometimes she doesn't get off... at least not then, but she's well rewarded later for it. <grin>

ajg199 06-28-2004 05:41 PM

i always wait for my girl to go first then i go after most of the time but sometimes i just can't hold it! lol. for example the other night i went in like a minute but then i just got it hard again in like 10 min so we went at it again until she came.

Lassus 06-29-2004 03:10 PM

my avarage is a hour or two.... which totally sux ass.... my longest was six hours.... I was in pain by the end. The times I get off in about 30 min are the ones I enjoy the most

Arsenic7 06-29-2004 08:50 PM

Hmm...my girlfriend has trouble orgasming from just intercourse but she still likes longer sex sessions. I'm also happy to see that the lower end is fairly normal. At first our sex lasted anywhere from 10 minutes to an hour and I thought that was terrible. I've gotten better but now I see that satisfaction with yourself timewise really depends just as much on the girl as on the guy.

Alyssa 07-01-2004 11:44 PM

I also don't orgasm easily from sex, but throw a vibrator into the mix...hehe! :lol:

mr sticky 07-03-2004 06:09 AM

For reference, the Merck Manual states that the average man *can* achieve orgasm in approximately two and a half minutes. Anything less than that can be ruled as premature ejaculation. The average women in about thirteen minutes, on average.

So girls, if you get yours, we're there ten minutes longer than we needed to be! :lol:

todd 07-03-2004 08:59 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bermuDa
I can maintain my erection long after ejaculation, so it's not an issue for me.
Me as well

Flyguy 07-03-2004 10:17 AM

My wife and I fucked for over an hour the other night. She says she came 9 times. I never came at all during the entire session. It was wierd. I think that's the first time that happened....

fearwall 07-03-2004 12:59 PM

Anywhere from a couple minutes to over an hour. If I've got a couple drinks in me it could almost never happen :\

My endurance greatly revolves around my physical condition more than anything. If I'm in decent shape I'm good for 20 minutes with a very short recover time between sessions. Like a few minutes...just perfect for more foreplay.

If I'm out of shape it's 5 minutes, and then roll over and fall asleep.

I'm getting back into shape again so my ability to keep going is improving quite a bit. Longer sessions, and better ability to get two or three goes out of it. When I'm in peak physical shape she'll get worn out before I do.

I always make sure to see to it that my wife is pleased through the ways of the tongue or fingers before we even engage in intercourse. That way if I'm in that "5 mintues and asleep" column she isn't disapointed.

kel 07-11-2004 12:26 PM

Interestingly enough my timing has changed. I see my girlfriend once a week now during the summer. I now come in around 4 minutes flat EVERY time, keep on going for another 15 minutes till she cums, and then go at it again till either we cum together or she cums and then I cum.
All told not longer then two hours right now. I'm exhausted at the end, I can't get it up at all. Might having something to do with always being at the end of an 8 hour workday and then a 6 hour bus ride at 3 AM


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