Oral sex technique, What do you ladies like?
 

This one is for the ladies to answer but guys feel free to share some of your ideas too.

I have never gone down on a girl before and I really want to. My girlfriend is ok with it but she has this weird thing about me not doing it untill she shaves. Like I care but whatever. I'm kinda scared that when I get down there I'm just gonna freeze up and just stare in amasement. So I'm asking for help from anyone I can get it from. I know the anatomy and the basics but I'd like to get a little more knowlege before the big day.

Thanks!

Every women is a little different. You should just have fun down there and watch her for signs of what feels the best. If she's communcative it'll be easy. If she's not, and many women aren't, you could tell her that you need her to let you know what's good.

The thing to remember is that you'll never know unless she tells you. You can't always tell by body language. She could be squirming in pleasure or you might just be tickling her.

Just experiment..ask her what amount of pressure is good, how fast or slow she likes it. Maybe switch it up...alternate between fast and slow. You could also insert a finger into her while going down on her.

Stick to the clit area, but make sure you don't over-do it. It is a sensative little nub and too much attention all at once can be painfull (so I am told). My method of choice is a gentle sucking between my lips and tounge rather than flat out licking. As mentioned above, go with whatever works. You will be able to tell by her reaction what is good and what is not.

When you get down there, use half as much pressure and take twice the time that you are inclined to. She'll love you for it.

There's so many ways for different girls. In general don't attack the clit. Work your way to it.

In short, I like to start with the softly kissing/licking the outer lips. As they open up, I move to the inner lips circling them, licking them, sucking on them seperately. Once the clit gets engourged I'll move to it and start out softly. As she gets closer to orgasm I'll go faster and use more pressure, but I'll still keep a light touch.

As the others say, you have to go by body language to tell if what you are doing is working or not!

go with the flow. I personally like to lick and suck for a while to get her worked up and then with steady pressure and a flat tounge work the clit with the hood being pulled back by my other hand. Just my technique. If its not working (back isn't arching hand isn't forcing you deep into her love puddle) then switch it up and do something else.

There's a combination between sucking and licking that works great. You can suck with your lips and lick with your toungue at the same time.

Get aroused first. The excitement will help you perform and she will finish off more easily, I say this because you may find it tiring if you're performing for too long.

going down on a chick (or a male i guess) is basically about reading your partner. Pay attention to their body language, if they moan, then keep doing what you're doing, if they go silent for a bit, then try something different, that's how i communicate with my partner. I normally have my hands running on his head though, through the hair, so if i pull him towards me, he goes faster and more intense.

Basically we've trained each other and know what we like and don't like, it's just about being comfortable with that person i guess.

Um, that is not always the case. Lots of girls that I have been with, get real quiet right before they climax.

My advise. If the moment is right, and you are both feeling it. You won't be "thinking" about what you are doing, you will just be doing it. Relax and have fun with it.

You should definitely use some finger action along with the tongue. Crook your finger in the "come here" motion and you'll stimulate her g-spot while your licking her clit. AWESOME!!

Personally if he does something too repetitively then I get oversensitive in that spot and suddenly it tickles and I involuntarily pull away. So I need a lot of variety to orgasm, but that could just be me. I've also heard lots of girls say they only want repetition.

It might also depend on what kind of orgasm's she usually has, clitoral or vaginal.

A good idea is to do every thing but actually go down on her for a while. Slowly torture her until she practically has to beg you to start. That way, you know she is in the mood and in the best possible mindframe. Good times. And yes, a good rule of thumb is to use less pressure than you'd expect. Guys seem to like it a little rougher than women do.

Love doing this.....can't wait for another opportunity. Would likely pay the girl for the chance. :D

i don't mean right before they climax, sorry i should've been more specific. Just in the pre-climaxing phases, when it's just casual oral lol, in the working up to it process. Hmm, i keep forgetting the spread of girls that are quiet to very loud. Con sarnit.

The one technique they want, is just to do it, period!

As stated above, watch, and listen to her reactions, try something different each time, every woman is different in what she wants.

This method works! (and also can get quite messy)

My technique for giving girls head (varies with each girl) is to stick one finger in the pussy, one finger in the ass and lick and suck the clit at the same time and also switch it up by licking the lips and inside. Also, while still fingering her take your mouth off the pussy and suckle on her nipples, gently biting them and rotating the tongue around them in a circular motion.
seems to work :)