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sillygirl

youch. well for one, how do you know there's no chance? And why give up if you don't even KNOW you're going to lose?

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Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken
....absence makes me miss him more...

Xsas

Like...you stop trying to get a girl because YOU think that she's not into you, without her directly telling you.

Or, you persist to try to get a girl even after she's told you that she just "wants to be friends" or if she has a bf.

Or any other scenario along those lines.

Averett

They're both shitty.

But I think it's worse to give up before you really should.

Then again it's pretty crappy to continue to chase somebody who has made it clear that they don't want to be chased.

I'm going with choice A for this one.

Well fuck. My idiot self clicked the wrong one. Grr.

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Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

Polyphobic

Um? That's like "would you like to be shot in your right foot or shot in your left foot?".
Both suck. I'm going with the first choice. It's better to get on with your life.

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<--The great infidel-->

herostar

oooh, I made it 50/50

deffinately trying if there's no chance

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Got time to chill?

troit

I firmly believe in the mantra -- "Never say never" because stranger things have happened to me in my lifetime.

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I've yet to dephile myself...

BigTruck1956

number one. I have done that so many fucking times i dont even wat to think about it. In hindsight, at least half of them would have worked out.

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so much to do, so little time.....at least i aint bored.

absorbentishe

For me, persisting even though you know there's no chance... I was stupid enough to keep trying. Dumb me...

tisonlyi

Trying when there is no chance...

after a time, doesnt that become a prosecutable offence?

Anything's better than being on bottom bunk, with Bubba upstairs.

*shakes in boots*

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"I do not agree that the dog in a manger has the final right to the manger even though he may have lain there for a very long time. I do not admit that right. I do not admit for instance, that a great wrong has been done to the Red Indians of America or the black people of Australia. I do not admit that a wrong has been done to these people by the fact that a stronger race, a higher-grade race, a more worldly wise race to put it that way, has come in and taken their place." - Winston Churchill, 1937 --{ORLY?}--

Schwan

Been there, done that. I'd have to say quitting before having a shot, though both of them are really tough.

Xsas

You still might be able to kick a soccer ball with your right foot if you shot your left

ruggerp11

shit, I am such a bad judge of the situation that it doesn't matter to me either way. I do both I am sure, because unless a girl is very forthright with her actions, I got nothing.

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Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it.
--Mark Twain
Do What makes you happy
--Me
BUT!
"Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu

Jolt

wow...tough choice. it sounds like someone has deconstructed my social life. This is a dichotomy of which I have played both sides regularly.

this is where I pause and reflect on the fortune on the Bazooka Joe comic that lives in my wallet...

"You don't get a hit if the bat stays on your shoulder."

WarWagon

If you give up before you've lost, then you don't really know what you may have been missing, it was a 50/50 shot. But if you're persisting where's there's no chance, there's just this prolonged period of misery where you'll feel worse and worse as the days go by. I had an even worse variation of this, where I tried persistently to get back with my ex, only to finally come to terms.

CheeseButtons

I've done #2 so many times I've lost count...I'm not a quitter.

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Sorrow is better than laughter,
because a sad face is good for the heart. -Ecclesiastes 7:3

MSD

"Sorry, I'm a lesbian, but if I was straight, you'd be at the top of the list of guys."

I think that's pretty definite.

Tuffy_McGee

A guy not watching the STOP signs is a looser, IMO.