can anyone explain what happened? (30 minute orgasm?)
 

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Either she's hella sensitive...
Or she's faking.

I think if I had a 30 minute orgasm, I'd think it was seizure. I'm a man though.

Yeah, I don't know much about Tantic practice either, but from what I understand it takes a lot of mental discipline and practice....not something that would just happen by accident.

hyper-stimulation.

the body reaches a stage where the senses in the genetalia reach a stage of complete overload. they have been stimulated so much that any further stimulation results in the sending of a huge pleasure signal to the brain.
it's basically the same as every nerve being permanently stuck in the full power position, and the slightest touch sends them scatty.

it's not that uncommon, especially among women, and if you can figure out exactly how you can do it with your woman, you'll be set for life...

Re: can anyone explain what happened? (30 minute orgasm?)
 

if so could you PM me coz I'd like to know as well! :lol:

Not to be a total ass, but i think shes faking it, and doing it to make you feel better. Either that, or shes never had an orgasm before, and just thinks that tingly feeling is an orgasm?

Possible that shes just rather sensitive too.

I've had this happen. I was not faking. At all. I agree with what Stevie said. It gets to the point where any touch sends you haywire. :D

no fair, I want to have a thirty minute orgasmic experience!

My fiance has experienced this. A few times. The first was just from an all out 5 hour sexathon. I was damn near dead after that myself. The last time she had one like that was when she was down here for a visit recently. I went down and gave her oral and didn't stop licking even after she came. She grabbed a pillow to bite down on and I didn't let up for somewhere between 15 and 30 minutes. She had multiple orgasms and I couldn't even touch her without her giggling. Even trying to kiss her didn't work. We both layed there laughing about it for the next hour :D ;)

After I have a long/big orgasm, I get really ticklish for some reason. Hm. I thought it was just me.... guess not?

yeah it's happened to my wife.. not 30 minutes.. but shes gotten to where I couldnt even touch her arm without her convulsing with pleasure... and I've heard of it happening to quite a few other people..

from what I understand your body self-creates a state similar to that which MDMA (ecstacy) produces. your body over stimulates and dumps too much serotonin, dopamine, epinephrine, and norepinephrine causing hypersensitivity.... These neurotransmitters are common to both sex (orgasm) and the effects of MDMA.

Either she had several back-to-back orgasms for 30 minutes (which is very likely) or else she was faking it in order to make you feel better.

In all honesty, I'd bet my money that she was faking it because for ages women have been perfecting that practice to begin with.

i'm almost offended that some of you think she's faking it. As in, who are you to judge my personal relationships and suggest that my relationship with my girlfriend is such that she would fake something like that.

but i don't mean any disprespect, no hard feelings, it's a perfectly natural reaction to think that way. But as far as i can tell (and i'd put a relatively large sum of money on this), she wasn't faking it. Thanks to the people who were able to confirm this. Fob_Magi, the whole MDMA-like experience sounds very plausible, and I really wonder what could trigger that. Hmm.... maybe with trial and error I'll find out! :-D

Yeah, the idea that she is faking it is just silly. I have never faked it (I am a guy, and I could be wrong, but I assume girls fake far more than guys do), but I would assume that one fakes it to make the other person feel better or to just get the sex over with. So if you are trying to get it over with, a 30 minute orgasm is somewhat counterproductive.

Actually i have been in somewhat of the same state myself, and it was pretty damn good - not for 30 minutes, but at least 5 or 10.

my longest orgasm is like 15 seconds, god ripped me off

some women do fake it.. it's a sad fact and it causes insecurity and doubt in alot of men both in thier own relationships and in the relationships of others...

theres prob another thread for this (or there should be) but men shouldnt have to worry about that, because women shouldnt fake it.. on the same note, men shouldnt pride themselves on making a woman come every single time... most women have a harder time reaching orgasm... strong communication about your sex lives, and checking your pride at the bedroom door should aleviate any doubts you have to rather she is really coming or not.....

My girlfriend has made me stop fingering her because she couldnt the exstacy anymore. She was going crazy.

Do you mean just in the short term or like permanantly? as in she never wants you to finger her again.. ever... if the latter is the case... hehe.. you've been lied to..

I think the suggestion that it could have been faked stems more from the personality of the poster then any fact basis. Fob_Magi's posts seem to be more insulting then helpfull. Why would you suggest to Captain Canada he has been lied too? because you have not experienced it, other men should not be able to acheive it? I just don't understand why you need to shine a negitive light on other peoples experiences when they will always have a better perception of it then you.

im not going to comment on fob_magi and captain canada's exchange, but actually, of all the posts pertaining to my original post, fob_magi was the most helpful. At least what he said about the MDMA like experience is (in my opinion) the most likely

Not to get medical but pleasure comes from two very specific chemicals being relesed in the brain. Studies on this have proven that women can create huge amounts and over stimulate, meaning the areas of the brain that were the inteded recipients are so flooded that it literally spills over to other parts. Hence, a touch on the arm causes triggers in the brain to open the corresponding area to produce tactile touch, but instead is flooded by these pleasure chemicals creating another orgasim.
Two issues or as we call it defeses that the brain has.
1 - it is able to sense an over flow and so it starts to naturally 'drain' for lack of a better word itself, a self preservation mechanism that we understand very well.
2 - there are only very specific states in which an over flow can happen, hence the Tantric teachings trying to get the body to respond in specific ways. Specific conditions must be meet in order for an over flow to even have a chance of happening.
Can an over flow happen? Yes.
Does it happen to everyone? No.
Can it last for 30 minutes or longer. Yes but that is exceptionally rare as the brain's natural defense starts to work once it is detected. 2-5 minutes is considered a long time in any over flow event.
Are there differences in the brain that allow certain women to experience this while other women cannot. Yes, each brain is unique therefore some women can produce more while some women have a hard time producing any.
Always remember the brain is the strongest sexual organ you have.

for realz, pigs have 30 minute orgasms.....
but i dunno about humans....
wish i could have long orgasms....or get to the ones i do have quicker! haha

I have experienced longer orgasms. One that I recall specifically lasted 15 minutes. I tend to have multiple and chain orgasms and I cum easily. Some women are the complete opposite. I have faked it VERY rarely and my reason was to get it done - NOT to have 15 min orgasm.

I believe she was telling the truth. She was obviously highly excited by you and you succeeded in hitting all the right buttons. Deplicating this may be a difficult task but since you've succeeded once you may have a better idea of how it is accomplished.

I don't know much about tantric sex. I do find that I get a different level of stimulation when I take it slow, focus on my partners breathing, and hold their hands or place the palm of one of my hands over their heart. It's a tender intimate gesture and I think that it raises the level of connection and lengthens my orgasms.

ditto. It's great but it gets crazy-intense after a while. It's hard not to make him stop....

i had a gf that hit that point a few times. Amazing isn't the word to describe it, but every single touch would send her into convulsions. Hair brushing over her chest, fingers on her butt, grabbing, clawing, still having sex, whatever, she would just keep convulsing and spraying my bedsheets...

funstuff

on the other hand, my first gf hit this point on me once while giving head. I came hte first time, she licked, came again, licked, again, licked, again, etc for 14 times in a few minute span. I coulnd't breathe.