Tuffy_McGee

Does anyone here use condoms with a numbing agent (to make you last longer?)

Usually if I want to go for 30 mins or so I'll have already had 1 orgasm w/out stopping which sometimes doesn't feel so good.

WarWagon

I tried it once and hated it. It literally takes all the feeling out of it. Have you ever used Orajel or anything like that on your teeth/gums for a toothache? Its the same exact feeling, only on your penis.

Otaku

just change positions....every time you feel you are getting close

makes it easy to go 30 mins or so......

tisonlyi

They use topical anaesthetic, lignocaine, as far as i know - same as stud spray.

Some folks apparently like to use it, don't know if that would include me.

For info on lasting longer without lotions or potions, you might want to buy a book:

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg...78415?v=glance

That book, in particular, I can personally vouch for... It's fantastic.

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qtpye4u84

WOW do they have those??? WHat brand????? I need some for my boyfriend he cums to fast!!!!!!!!!

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ratbastid

Stamina isn't something I have much problem with. This stuff sounds like a one way ticket to Noodledick Central for me. Generally speaking, I need pretty much constant stimulation or I go semi-soft and it's hard to get fully erect again. I don't imagine I'm the only guy like that, but I'm definitely at the other end of the spectrum from the "30-second wonder" who needs this sort of product.

tisonlyi

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Tuffy_McGee

Hey I said 30 MINUTES not 30 seconds.

Shit you'd think I said that I come when she looks at me or something.

Thanks for the book reference, tisonlyi

edit: OH! I've read her other book "How to make love all night and drive your woman wild"

It's really weird doing those exercises and trying to hold it in. I've had some success with it really.

ruggerp11

those condoms suck, hell I still have some if you want any more I'll ship em to ya. tried them because I was a one minute wonder but I learned I have other talents (can keep going without pause or pain) and learned to use those instead of going soft because my cock was fucking numb. Use your talents instead of worring about any shortcomings you might have.

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sevenoate

i'd certainly recommend those condoms... if you feel like going for 5 minutes and then going soft. it's like going to the dentist and having him put novacain in your dick -- it's not like when you take it off the effect goes away right away. oh no... you're done.

tisonlyi

And...

If you're interested in looking for numbing agent, you could try all manner of topical anaestheics - which is what these 'stud' creams and sprays actually are.

In the UK, you can get Xylocaine (Lidocaine) sprays or gels from any chemist pretty easily.

I just got hold of some to help me stretch out my tongue piercing.

Christ it's powerful.

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dabossy2k

Man it really kills the act I never use these things. I tried it once and once I lost feeling I went soft and wasn't able to do anything. FOr me I need the feeling even if it is though was plastic but hey to each his own.

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LiquidSquid

I can see a target demographic who might appreciate something like this, but I wasn't impressed at all. Imagine sex, minus all sensation of physical contact to your penis. Sound fun? No, I didn't think so.

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minyn

ahh! seems counterproductive! stimulation GOOD in this case or thats just me. its like my teeth going numb when im drunk, serves me no purpose other than to check occasionally to make sure they are still there.

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Radio Monk33

Wow the responses are pretty much ananymous. I wonder how this ever got released onto the shelves...

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haha, that's some funny stuff right there.

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ratbastid

Only when they've pissed me off.

Seriously, it's no picnic on the other end of the spectrum. I might well be able to fuck for hours, but who'd want to? I'd get bored or hungry or something. And it's not so hot having to manage an erection all the time, either.

Listen, my first time, do you know how long I lasted? Two strokes. Less than five seconds. So unless you can beat my record, you've got nothing to worry about.

JStrider

ive used that maintain stuff before... its wierd... cant feel it at all at first... then some feeling comes back... i stayed mostly hard for a real long time with it.... *shrug*
i dont really care for it... dont need it anyways...

another thing... if ya use it too much... i would think you would gradually start cuming really fast when you didnt use it...

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Tuffy_McGee

thanks for all of the replies.

It sounds like numbing is a messed up way to keep from coming. I guess stopping, pausing, etc is a better solution.

viejo gringo

Naw, just pop one of those little blue diamond cutters (viagra), and you will feel like the energizer bunny kicked you in the ass...

MSD

You can try a weaker numbing agent. Before putting on the condom, spray a bit of Vicks Choloroseptic on, and you'll maintain feeling while lasting longer.

This can also be used during regular sex, just wait for it to soak in and dry, and it won't rub off on her.

Menoman

I think they are very nice on certain occassions, when I want to give my g/f something special and last for like 2-3 hours. Not very often coz that gets pretty rough but when its our anniversary and shit. I can normally make her orgasm 20 some times while wearing one of the trojan extended pleasure condoms. When I think I'm about to pass out from exhaustion and dehydration and penis swelling. I take it off and it'll wear off in about 5 minutes then I can cum also.


_edit_ Ohh yeah I'm 20 years old so its not a problem keeping it up with it numb for that long, I can see how an older man could have problems with it being numb and going away. No offense of course.

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qtpye4u84

Yea, so trojan extended pleasure condoms work!?! I bought some and my boyfriend used them but it did not work for us cause he still got some really fast I guess Im to sexy lol
I think were going to have to go buy the spray.

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Menoman

If he has a problem with cumming too quickly have him put it on and do some foreplay for 5-10 minutes to let it take effect. That should work for you.

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crow_daw

Well I went through two boxes of those fucking things. And yeah, they take the feeling away, but I was doing it for her, not me, so I didn't mind. I stopped using them though, I generally don't have a problem with going for long periods of time now.

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Enka

I used a box of them before...theyre good if you want an hour of sex. Good for the gf, not too fun for me when i cant really feel anything! The trojan brand ones are really numbing! If you have a variety of condoms you use, mix a box of those in there for a surprise here and there for your SO.

tisonlyi

I like fucking for hours, its great.

Better orgasms, more time for experimenting, more and better everything as far as i'm concerned.

Its great to be able to fuck for hours.

I like when my missus describes a 45 minute mini-session as 'a quickie'... Makes me grin.

And if you get hungry, whats to stop you grabbing a bite 'on the go' so to speak?



tisonlyi - pulls out cock, waves it in front of the cripples.

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Eowyn_Vala

ACK! How in the HELL can someone not go for an hour or two if they try? If my boyfriend wants to be mean, he drags things out! Besides if you are focusing on your SO and not yourself things should last longer unless you don't want them too! We've gone for two hours before and i couldn't move afterwards but it was incredible and we didn't use those stupid "numbing" condoms! RAWR! i guess I just don't understand the point of those or why they would be needed! unless you have a "problem"! and then it is sort of understandable

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gabshu

No one in here seems to really like these things, I wonder how well they sell. A guy I was sleeping with used them once and it was the same reaction as the rest of you guys

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Tuffy_McGee

Hey Eowyn_Vala, I've gone for 8 hours before without viagra or a numbing comdom. Yes 8 solid hours without resting for 5 minutes.

So please spare me your shit.
Thank you.

Derwood

I may not have gone 8 hours total in my life! (he he he)

Can you get viagra over the counter yet, or is it still by prescription only?

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