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View Poll Results: Would you sleep with an attractive stranger?
I am a girl - YES 13 2.70%
I am a girl - NO 25 5.19%
I am a guy - YES 314 65.15%
I am a guy - NO 130 26.97%
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Old 04-23-2004, 08:22 PM   #41 (permalink)
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If she didn't have STDs, and I wasn't in a relationship, yes.
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Old 04-23-2004, 08:53 PM   #42 (permalink)
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Old 04-24-2004, 02:09 AM   #43 (permalink)
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No. I'm very paranoid about STDs and AIDS.
good thing there's a thing called CONDOMS eh?
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Old 04-24-2004, 09:17 AM   #44 (permalink)
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good thing there's a thing called CONDOMS eh?
Intimacy with another human can spread deseases that a condom won't stop. Simularly, condoms are only high 90% effective in practice. (perfect condom use for 1 year gives a 5% pregnancy rate, compared to 85% without a condom. 14% for a more real-world rate (ie, allowing for mistakes)).


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Condoms also provide protection against STIs—such as genital herpes, syphilis, chancroid, and human papillomavirus (HPV)—which are transmitted primarily through contact with infected skin or with mucosal surfaces. Because these STIs may be transmitted by contact with surfaces not covered or protected by the condom, condoms provide a lesser degree of protection against them.
http://www.advocatesforyouth.org/pub...t/fscondom.htm

(random google website on the topic).

The risks are low, but not ignoreable.
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Old 04-24-2004, 09:34 AM   #45 (permalink)
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I remember years ago hearing a female comedian tell this story to demonstrate the difference between how men and women think:

Imagine you're leaving a bar after last call. You're walking to your car - alone; it's dark, and the parking lot is unlit and mostly empty. Before you get your key into the lock, a stranger of the opposite sex, obviously drunk, who was making lewd remarks to you across the bar earlier, runs up behind you, puts their arms around you, and describes - in great detail - what sexual acts they would like to perform on you right there; right now - in a dark parked car, in the now-empty parking lot.

To most men - this is a nightly fantasy; a dream come true.
To most women - it's a frightening nightmare.

/questions the relevance; just sharing.
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Old 04-24-2004, 09:51 AM   #46 (permalink)
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My SO was a late shift bartender & oh my - yes, I've done that scenario before, knowing full well that it was totally safe from disease...wore the trench coat and bare skin and yes, I was the aggresser. Said I was the best attack girl he ever trysted with in a car.

but now I seriously doubt that I'd say "yes" if it were me in that dark lot, since things have changed so much over the years. I miss those safe sexy nights at the Park!
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Old 04-24-2004, 11:28 AM   #47 (permalink)
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condom usage would be mandatory though
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Old 04-24-2004, 04:40 PM   #48 (permalink)
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i gots a fiance yo, so that would be a negative
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Old 04-24-2004, 07:13 PM   #49 (permalink)
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If she was clean, in a heartbeat.
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Old 04-25-2004, 07:13 AM   #50 (permalink)
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Absolutely no.
I've never accepted a one night stand proposal from guys that I have partied with and "know" on some level. I certainly wouldn't accept it from a complete stranger. I don't care how "hot" they are.
I'm one of those people that has to have an emotional connection with someone when I am sharing my body and my bed.
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Old 04-25-2004, 12:26 PM   #51 (permalink)
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I was honest and I voted yes.
I would use a condom and I might even ask if she has any stds! LOL that would be funny but necessary.
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Old 04-25-2004, 05:24 PM   #52 (permalink)
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If an extremely attractive woman came up to me and asked for sex I would do two things before taking any action. I'd ask if she'd be willing to come to a clinic with me and get tested for STD's WITH me. If she was willing to do that, then I would. But I imagine some stranger who comes up and asks for sex wants it then and now... nope, sorry.
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Old 04-25-2004, 09:33 PM   #53 (permalink)
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This is definately one of those tricky question that if a woman asker her SO, he would never give the right answer!

I want to say no, but when it came down to it, in the passion of a moment, I don't know how I would react. Unfortunately as a man, I just might end up saying yes, and I'm not sure if that is a behavior based on the social structure that men grow up in or just the libido of a man rising to the occasion. (no pun intended)
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Old 04-26-2004, 04:48 PM   #54 (permalink)
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I can't answer because I would say MAYBE. What kind of mood am I in? Where do I meet this stranger? Do I meet her through friends? How does she ask? Does she say in an alien voice that she "wants my seed"?

In short: NOT ENOUGH INFORMATION.
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Old 04-29-2004, 12:07 PM   #55 (permalink)
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Bag it and Tag it. Sex is beautiful, share it.
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Old 04-29-2004, 12:18 PM   #56 (permalink)
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I'm a guy, and I definitely wouldn't.

Not worth the risk, and I'd find it a little disrespectful honestly.
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Old 04-29-2004, 12:31 PM   #57 (permalink)
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Completely aside from the infidelity issue (since you want to discount it), NO!!!

Sure, it's a nice Penthouse Letter type of fantasy, but let's get realistic:

- Why does this person want to sleep with you? Is it for sex or are they psycho?

- Will they cry "rape!"??

- One word: AIDS.


So no, no and NO!
That about sums it up right there.
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Old 04-29-2004, 02:52 PM   #58 (permalink)
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Remember my words I posted earlier in this forum....

If it seems too good to be true, then it is too good to be true...
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Old 04-29-2004, 05:09 PM   #59 (permalink)
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I answered yes, but it would only be in the situation where I didn't have a wife.
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Old 04-29-2004, 09:02 PM   #60 (permalink)
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I'm male and a Sailor. What do you think?
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Old 04-30-2004, 10:05 AM   #61 (permalink)
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Sure why not, if I've got a few hours to kill and all it's just sex, no stalking, phone calls, letters...unless she was really good looking.
Why not is the big question.
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Old 04-30-2004, 10:10 AM   #62 (permalink)
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Completely aside from the infidelity issue (since you want to discount it), NO!!!

Sure, it's a nice Penthouse Letter type of fantasy, but let's get realistic:

- Why does this person want to sleep with you? Is it for sex or are they psycho?

- Will they cry "rape!"??

- One word: AIDS.





I agree, but I still said yes.
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Old 05-04-2004, 09:56 AM   #63 (permalink)
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I am female and I find that I cannot do that kind of thing with a stranger, the lack of trust bothers me. I find that when I think about this I am mostly turned off by the blunt fact that I have no emotional link to a stranger.

And I must agree with MrFlux on the risks, I'm not interested in getting sick or pregnant. It just isn't worth it.
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Old 05-05-2004, 05:49 AM   #64 (permalink)
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I am a guy, I say no...
I am married and couldnt do that to my wife...
of course it might be very hard to say no in a RL situation... but I think I have the self-restraint...
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Old 05-05-2004, 01:32 PM   #65 (permalink)
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Single male here. Yes, with protection. I'm no stranger to the stranger fantasy.
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Old 05-05-2004, 10:09 PM   #66 (permalink)
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im a female obviously and i dont have a bf currently, so assuming proper protection was used and the person/situation didnt seem creepy and i didnt get bad vibes, and assuming there would be no committment or even contact after the fact, HELL YES.
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Old 05-06-2004, 09:11 PM   #67 (permalink)
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I'm a guy, and I'd never sleep with a random attractive stranger. Because they're STRANGERS. You know nothing about them.
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Old 05-07-2004, 03:43 AM   #68 (permalink)
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If I were single and the girl seemed nice enough as well as hot, sure.
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Old 05-17-2004, 12:05 PM   #69 (permalink)
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Hell yeah I would. I have done it before and until I get married, I will prolly do it again. Always use protection though.
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Old 05-17-2004, 09:38 PM   #70 (permalink)
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im a dude and hell yes i would
its been that damn long
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Old 05-18-2004, 07:51 AM   #71 (permalink)
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Old 05-20-2004, 09:15 PM   #72 (permalink)
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Cool poll, it would be a little better if girl/guys were separate categories that both add up to 100% Oh, by the way Guy/Yes. This is under the assumption that "no strings attached" applies in the situation. For example, hot girl that I never have to see, talk to, carry as baggage, no one finds out, Yes. If other people will find out, she calls all the time, etc, then NO!!!
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Old 05-22-2004, 03:45 PM   #73 (permalink)
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I'm male and a Sailor. What do you think?
hahaha

I'm a guy and I have been in that situation. I guess now I am more interested in a long term as I think things get better with familiarity.

but.... if she were really hot I might try it and hope it dosen't turn into a one night and maybe something that could be more promising like a friend with explicit benifits.
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Old 05-22-2004, 06:12 PM   #74 (permalink)
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as a male and former sailor myself my answer is never have and never will under such circumstances. Still waiting for the marriage and wife scenario.
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Old 05-22-2004, 08:18 PM   #75 (permalink)
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Not while I'm in a relationship. Otherwise, of course.
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Old 05-22-2004, 08:31 PM   #76 (permalink)
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and why would I want to fuck that up.
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Old 05-22-2004, 10:04 PM   #77 (permalink)
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Even if I was single I wouldnt think about it, never a stranger, and if they are attractive and ask me to sleep with him, chances are hes asked many girls before
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Old 05-24-2004, 01:06 AM   #78 (permalink)
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i think i saw that documentary and it was more like 98% of men would when asked by a hot chick, and i think 0% of the women would when asked by a hot dude. wasn't it on a college campus?
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Old 05-25-2004, 01:28 AM   #79 (permalink)
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Re: If an attractive stranger asked...

Quote:
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I was having a bit of a disscussion about this yesterday and it was pretty much unanimous (probably cause it was 4 guys and 1 girl). Anyway, if an attractive stranger or person asked you to sleep with them, would you?

This was done on some human body or human instincts dicumentary, where an attractive guy and girl went around asking people if they'd sleep with them (it was pretty much all heterosexual though). Of course, 90 plus percent of guys said yes and the guy got a fraction of that response, which i guess could be anticipated. But i thought this may be a curious excercise/poll?

basically just state your sex/gender and your response, the poll is independant of sexuality as well
Dude, that's a CLASSIC female response, despite what you see on "Sex and the City" the concept of the anonymous one night stand is, for women, not at all that appealing.
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Old 05-25-2004, 04:08 AM   #80 (permalink)
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Seems like alot more guys would do it.. Hmmm
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