mirevolver

There is a conversation I had with the girl I'm dating that has been replaying in my mind ever since we had that conversation. It was on the topic of crossdressing.

During the conversation she made the comment that she thinks it's sexy when guys dress up in women's clothing. And she also took it a step further by saying that she wanted to dress me up in a miniskirt and fishnet stockings.

I know she's much more open sexually than I am, and her sister tells me it runs in the family, that they got it from their mother. Even though she quickly dismissed the crosdressing idea, probably because she thought I was getting uncomfortable by the idea, I have still found myself entertaining the idea. So I've been wondering, do you ladies find it sexy when guys dress up in either your clothes or women's clothes in general?

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la petite moi

Welllll...

I do think it's DAMN sexy when boys wear black makeup. And tight clothing. No skirts or anything though.

However, I have now quickly dismissed the idea (like your girlfriend) because my boyfriend is totally against it.

phredgreen

i'm hoping my girlfriend will answer the same question.

<img src=http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/attachment.php?s=&postid=749851></img>

this was halloween, so it wasn't anything too terribly scandalous.

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la petite moi

Phred, that's nice. I like Beatrix Potter poster too! =)

ForgottenKnight

! That's great Phred!

revovler- let her dress you however she wants to for a "reward"
But be sure to get pics for us!

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Lebell

There are definitely women out that that dig it and straight guys who make good cross-dressers.

In the end, it's up to you.

Heck, give it a try once.

Not like you would have to do it again if you really didn't like it.



(Great Photo, Phred )

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Averett

This one doesn't.... But whatever floats your boat.

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mr sticky

As for the cross dressing, nothing inherently wrong with that...you are trying to turn her on.

As for phred, I don't want to think about what this place would be like without you!!!
You're on of my favorite posters!!!

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Untitled

ditto Averett, but, that being said, I have a small fancy for all things Scottish, and that includes men in kilts.......

iccky

I have done this on a couple of occassions (most relating to theater), and found out that I have killer legs. All of my girlfriends told me to stop because they were getting jelous.

Eugeni

I am a guy and I reckon girls find crossdressing sexy because of thier lesbian side.

Just an idea, though.

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seretogis

I think that's a bit off the mark.

If it's for Haloween or something, cross-dressing can be funny. I don't consider it to be at all attractive or sexually intriguing in a serious manner, though. I'm a big fan of the large bold line between the two genders.

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onodrim

Yes, yes it is. Guys with the black eyeliner look can be incredibly sexy. However, that's very different from actually dressing in women's clothing, I don't really find that sexy.

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mirevolver

It was certaintly interesting to ge a more general feel about the issue.

Though I really think that in the end it really comes down to me and her. I know she's much more sexually open than I am and I think I should try to open up a little more, or at least be open to her openess otherwise she may come to find me a little dull.

So I think if she brings it up again, I'll agree to give it a try at least once. Plus she's already said that it turns her on, and with a woman as sexy as she is, keeping her turned on is a good thing. If she's turned on, that will certaintly bring about good things to me.

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fallenangel

I went through a phase for a while when i really really wanted to know what my SO would look like in a pair of MY panties, butttt that phase is gone...

However, I must confess, the thought of him in black eyeliner all rugged is a bit of a turn on...

If your SO goes for you crossdressing and you yourself are comfortable doing it, then giver!

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raeanna74

I haven't really encountered cross dressing much actually. I do remember in 6th grade one of the boys dressed up as a woman for Halloween. He actually did a good job of it - not just looking like a granny and all goofy. The other guys kindof teased him about it some but he was easy going about it and everyone had fun. I hadn't really noticed him much before that but I reconized the courage it took for him to do it and I found that part of it attractive. I don't find the look sexually exciting in itself but the I find that their courage to experiment is extremely attractive.

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Munku

Lol! Phred, that is TOO funny.

BlueBongo

Actually a guy in my clothing doesn't do anything for me.. as well as clothing in general doesn't do a whole lot for me. I enjoy dressing up and looking nice when I can, as I do when my s/o does it.... but sexually, mentally, and emotionally; it doesn't bother me. Phred could start wearing my underwear for all I care.. and it wouldn't bother me, I wear his all the time

In fact, my first b/f is now an awesome drag queen. He doesn't appeal to me at all... but he is damn good at putting on a show for people... but I think that is just because he has ALWAYS liked to be in the spot light...

One would've thought that I, as a young freshman in H/S would've picked up on the red flags... he wanted to be in the cheer squad, he played the lead in all the plays, he was the prez of the Thespian group AND prez of the Drama Club at school.... but being the young virgin I was at the time... it was he who enlightened me to many many things... though we never kissed. Only went to all the dances and held hands, I suppose all first relationships are like that though.

But he still puts on a damn good drag show.

And I don't know if Phred would make a good female in my clothes though.. and I don't think that the blonde is quite his color. Maybe if he dyed the goatee and his whole body it might work out... but I love him for trying anyway

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minyn

thats definitely on the list of trying it once if anything. if you like wohoo, if you dont, dont do it again.

but she SHOULD give you some incentive..... rar.....

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i8one2

Having been a crossdresser for well over 24 years, I wear what I like, don't flaunt the fact and have the abilty to wear whatever under garments I feel like without any shame attached to it. Womens undies as a rule are more fun, feel great on Mr. Johnson. And when I really feel like dolling it up, which once or twice a year, I have no problem with it. Its a great pass time when bored, it has a streak of the forbidden, and most of all, I can share my undies with my girlfreind/subby anytime...

It has taught me about the hidden world of style, and how many dominates that cross dress do you run into.. I'm one of them.

Bottom line it for me, every real relationship I have been in, they knew about it being part of a minute part of my daily life... No drag queen hear, just a guy who happened to have found some virtue in the part of Crossdressing..

And as for the question of sexual identification, I'm about as hetro as they come.

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SabrinaFair

I don't know how I feel about crossdressing males and it's effects on me...but I do know I make one DAMN fine man. My ex and I went in drag for Halloween, and we were a big hit because we both pulled it off really well.

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sexymama

Him wearing my panties during the day and thinking about me -- big turn on! Much more then that, I'm not sure. If he wanted to, I would probably try it -- but it is no big turn on -- just acceptable.

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mirevolver

Minyn: Knowing her, I'll get the incentive without even asking for it.

Sexymama: I agree, if I were wearing her panties throughout the day, that would definatly be the #1 thing on my mind, and as a result I would be thinking about her all day long.

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gnom

a girl dressing as a guy is fine, in fact i think it's kinda hot - so long as she doesn't continue doing it all the time. as for a guy dressing as a female ... totally against it. that's not to say i'll go ape crazy if i see someone doing it, it'll just get a weird look from me