1. You have already slept with her

OWNED!

i actually kinda like this list...

Once they pass out, they're all easy.

/had to make a joke.. sorry.


Seriously though... I've seen girls who dress a certain way, act a certain way, have tats or piercings, and be as close-minded to sex as possible. I've also seen the pretty little straight-A student in her designer clothes with no body art or piercings (other than earrings) who is a whore. Part of the problem is that tattoos and piercings have become so mainstream they are now "chic" and no longer taboo or only for the derelict or rebel. When high school girls by the handful are walking around the mall in clothing that hookers 15 years ago couldn't legally wear on the street and with more tattoos and piercings than a biker from the 80s, I mean.... it's hard to use external appearances at all.

I just don't think you can make a generalization that always fits. It's not possible.

I will however say that after getting to know someone, you can get a better idea for sure.

I have two good quotes though. I once was talking to a girl that basically blurted out, "I hear if you use ice cubes when you give head it helps to neutralize the taste and it enhances the pleasure for the guy." .... something about this girl ... hmmm

another great line my buddy told me was about girl's who smoked. He said, "My dad used to always tell me: If she's willing to put that filthy thing in her mouth, think what else she'll put in there."

sillygirl, you sound a lot like me. crazy!

:crazy:

I have to disagree with you there, well in my case at least. I deliberately go to meat markets in the sluttest clothes I can find, I have never picked up, but I enjoy all the attention, especially after a bad day.

I think we could have fun out on the town. ;)

if she is at a bar alone and is showing skin, its safe to assume she is there to pick up a guy.

Re: The "Is she easy?" Checklist
 

1. No (Ex-smoker)
2. Beer, hnngghhh! Cider, please.
3. No facial piercings
4. No tattoos
5. I do curse, but not with strangers around
6. Depends on the company I am with - so 50/50 chances it's yes.
7. Most of my girl friends are hotties. So yes. But it's kinda hard to evaluate yourself? :)

I consider myself easy. ...Provided the man or woman hitting on me is academic or otherwise smart, looks good and my instinct tells me the sex would be great. That list might hold true, but it's not absolutely correct. Many men think lots of make-up or short skirt means "easy", which I find generally untrue.

what if she was there to pick up a chick? ;)

Depends if she's bi or lesbian. Make eye contact & flirt subtly, if she starts looking at you or replies, go over to have a chat or dance with her. :)

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A few weeks ago I was at a bar with mixed sex group of friends, but only 3 girls went dancing. Two boys from our party also followed, but the floor was crowded and they were not facing us directly while they were dancing eys closed trance style on their own and us girls were dancing more disco/MTV style and chatting & flirting at each other. Three unknown men appeared dancing next to us. I saw them looking at us, but after short while I decided they don't know any of us, they're just being intrested.

If I am to judge, the blonde of us is best dancer and prettiest, having a party make-up & clothes to match it. She just dumped her bf but being clothes designing student, her standards for male looks are really high.

The second most attractive of us is petite intelligent & flirty brunette. She is cute and looks younger than 22, but is minx in bed and while she is really sweet, some men might think she's a man eater. She was dancing hips swaying in jeans & t-shirt.

I didn't make eye contact with the men cos *tadah* my bf was in the same bar and I wasn't in mood for someone trying pseudo witty pickup lines on me. Both girls from my crew went to get something to drink. One of the strangers dancing next to us followed em. And went straight to the brunette. Good call! The next day brunette explained he saw the boy looking at her. The more she swinged her hips & booty, more he stared. She calculated that "now he's looking at me all the time" and then went to the counter. :)

Finding some chick who's likely to be an easy lay, is a whole heckuva lot harder than finding a cool chick and then convincing her to be your easy lay.

1. She smokes.....Used to
2. She is drinking beer/doing shots.....Used to do shooters
3. Pierced tongue.....Nope
4. Tattoo in the small of her back.....Nope
5. Curses more than you.....Meh, used to, not much now.
6. Dancing on the bar....Does a table count? I did that a couple of times back in the day.
7. She's the least attractive girl in her group of girlfriends....Nope

Well, a lot of "used to's" in my list. And yet I am no more or less easy now than I was then. I'm still the same person sexually. Although I have an extremely high sex drive, I have never been easy. It isn't in my makeup to sleep with who ever comes along. There has to be an emotional connection there for me. *shrugs*