Finding a date for your partner.... - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

Banginblaz · 03-15-2004, 06:08 PM

I, and my-soon-to-be wife, have a fantastic open relationship. We have had a few "parties" with as many as 3 other people. We are both allowed to do what we want, as long as its known.

The problem is, I'm a guy, I cant possibly have the stamina (health reasons added [non-communicable]) a woman does, and I feel she deserves a good fuck.

I want to find her annother woman, who would be willing, but at least allow me to watch, joining is a bonus.

My GF is verrrry shy, and wont do this for herself, yet. She has no interest in other men, unless its swapping in an orgy fashion, but has taken a liking to a womans touch.

My question is (as the title says) I want to find someone for her, but how the hell do you START to look???!??!?!!

I tried personals (online) and we found a great couple we have fun with, but so far, no single female has replied. I am horrible at meeting people in bar type situations, but am willing to try.

Any thoughts?

motdakasha · 03-15-2004, 06:33 PM

There are online personals... then there are online adult personals. It makes a big difference which sites you look at and how you advertise yourself. I would list several, but I'd probably get banned or something.

Another way would be to go to alternative lifestyle events. Again, online adult sites would be a good place to get event listings. I live near the nerve center of all that is alternative (i.e. San Francisco) so there's pretty always something going on here. However, most states have something going on near their metropolitan areas, so you're bound to find something within a reasonable drive. Going there to meet new people and make friends is the best thing to do. Once you've been networked, you can find out from friends which girls a single and etc.

skysooner · 03-15-2004, 07:02 PM

Try adultfriendfinder.com. There are some bogus ads on there, but some of our friends who are into the threesome thing have met really nice people through it.

03-15-2004, 06:08 PM	#1 (permalink)
Banginblaz Dont stop here; This is bat country! Location: North East	Finding a date for your partner.... I, and my-soon-to-be wife, have a fantastic open relationship. We have had a few "parties" with as many as 3 other people. We are both allowed to do what we want, as long as its known. The problem is, I'm a guy, I cant possibly have the stamina (health reasons added [non-communicable]) a woman does, and I feel she deserves a good fuck. I want to find her annother woman, who would be willing, but at least allow me to watch, joining is a bonus. My GF is verrrry shy, and wont do this for herself, yet. She has no interest in other men, unless its swapping in an orgy fashion, but has taken a liking to a womans touch. My question is (as the title says) I want to find someone for her, but how the hell do you START to look???!??!?!! I tried personals (online) and we found a great couple we have fun with, but so far, no single female has replied. I am horrible at meeting people in bar type situations, but am willing to try. Any thoughts?

03-15-2004, 06:33 PM	#2 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	There are online personals... then there are online adult personals. It makes a big difference which sites you look at and how you advertise yourself. I would list several, but I'd probably get banned or something. Another way would be to go to alternative lifestyle events. Again, online adult sites would be a good place to get event listings. I live near the nerve center of all that is alternative (i.e. San Francisco) so there's pretty always something going on here. However, most states have something going on near their metropolitan areas, so you're bound to find something within a reasonable drive. Going there to meet new people and make friends is the best thing to do. Once you've been networked, you can find out from friends which girls a single and etc. __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)

03-15-2004, 07:02 PM	#3 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	Try adultfriendfinder.com. There are some bogus ads on there, but some of our friends who are into the threesome thing have met really nice people through it.