Strange Famous

I mean, I would have to agree with most people, the etiquette of it is pretty much that you arent supposed to do it.

I guess if you do do it, the only thing I could really say is try and keep it on the dl

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Angel

Can you say slut, lack of dignity & self respect and respect for her bf? That is how many people will see her when she is on YOUR arm. Not to mention the lack of respect they will have for you for fucking another guys chick. I don't care if they are married, engaged, dating, living together what ever...you don't fuck someone elses girl.
Well, you DID ask for opinions. *shrugs*

OMG! Thank you BOR! THAT was classic!
*wipes tears from eyes*

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MSD

If she wants to break up with him, she should do it before she starts fucking you. If she doesn't want to break up, it's a problem between them and you should stay out of it. Either way, you're not doing the right thing.

If it's OK with him, then go ahead and keep doing it.

S2KBobby

Hey Jizz-Fritter
I like your Pre Booty Call Agreement. Think it's really funny. I printed it out to give to a couple of young ladies who do this quite a bit. They should find it a laugh.

Jizz-Fritter

I must say, I was not the original author; I found it on one of the many bisexual groups I subscribe to on yahoo.

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Nitrox

People, please. I never realized that the "boyfriend/girlfriend" situation carried such high moral standards. How many times have any of us been the "other person" in this type of situation? Hell, if I hadn't interceded in a situation like this, I wouldn't have my wife now. And it has absolutely nothing to do with "once a cheater, always a cheater". Her ex-boyfriend was a dick, and yes he did confront me, and I very calmly told him that he lost and to move on.

Oh well, call me a callous bastard, but I go home to her at night.

cameroncrazy822

That's the truth. B very miindful of what you chose to do..... things do come back around and usually with more impact. Call it Kharma or whatever, it usually holds true.

lovelycuteme

i am with somebody.. who has a g/f.. i knew that from the day #1.. we are both into each other.. he almost broke up because of me and tried to leave, but 10 (!) of relationship (not marriage) with the same girl won over..

i told myself many time to forget it and move on.. but can't now.. i am attracted mentally & physically..

any opinions on that issue.. thanks..

portwineboy

Move on now before it gets too hard to split. He did it to her, he'd do it to you. Unfortunate but true.

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Slauncha Man

Analog brings up a good point in that there's a difference whether or not she's happy. If they're unmarried and she's unhappy, go for it. Just don't ruin a GOOD relationship.

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braindamage351

You mixed up your terms. You aren't a fuck buddy, you're a dipshit.

Seriously, I hope that if you get married, your wife fucks someone else the entire time, and then divorces you.

Stompy

I know most people are saying "Leave her alone, she has someone else", and are taking it too seriously, but I see it from a different perspective.

1. She's not married. Boyfriend/girlfriend relationships aren't serious in the least bit, nor are they set in stone if there's no rings. Like someone before said, no rings, no strings.

2. SHE is the one cheating. It's her problem, not his. Everyone's giving the poster a hard time saying "I hope your wife cheats on you", but he's not really doin anything wrong. Don't forget, the girl could've said no. There's two sides to this. To go along with #1, if she's going out of bounds, then the relationship isn't that serious or doesn't mean much to her. Her problem.

3. I don't think he plans on staying with her. Rightfully so, she can't be trusted. Just a person to have sex and fool around with.

To the poster: take some karate classes. That way if someone's boyfriend finds out, he won't be able to touch ya

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Speaking of which, boyfriends, unless your woman was FORCED, don't get angry at the other man. Instead, redirect your anger toward your girlfriend. Ultimately it was her decision to cheat.. or better yet, just walk away from the relationship! Quick, easy, clean!

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StephenSa

If the girl continues to see the other guy in what he thinks is an exclusive relationship but has sex with you in the meantime then she has no sense of honor or integrity. Personally I couldn't be any kind of friend with her. What you choose to do is of course your own business but I don't see the value of continuing to court a liar.

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pinkie

I couldn't have said it better myself, and I have an asshole!

Does that count?

fro2020

A little late?

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Blackthorn

Humping someone else S/O is definitely bad karma. In fact it might be bad karma running over bad dogma. It's just not a good idea when there are so many other choices in this world that don't come with such strings.

A fuck buddie....now that's a different story! I'll take applications in the form of the above posted agreement with the following stipulations:

1) must be female
2) must have a pulse

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NotMinus

I totally agree that anyone is open game before marriage. Does her current boyfreind own her? Is it his decision who she sees and when? No. She can make choices for herself.