i think the most fundamental thing I can think of is respect for the other party. that kind of applies to my actions in general, so it serves as a strong personal base for "sex morals".

i got this mentality from my parents, most definitely.

the thing I like about my personal "fundamentals" is that they are vague. they're vague because I'm a strong believer that most situations are unique and should be treated that way.

very good question!

I get flak for this and probably will on here, but I will not have sex until I get married. I do all the other fun stuff, but thats where I draw the line.

The only reason for this is because now a days, sex seems like its just and everyday, fuck whoever you want kinda thing. It doesnt seem like its held at any higher regard, and call me old fashioned, but I really want to share it with the person Im going to spend the rest of my life with.

Well let's put it this way my best friend, whose father was a cocaine addict and beat her mother and when high threatened to kill both of them more than once, is in a normal relationship with someone she loves and doesn't blame her parents for any problems she has in that area.

SO QUIT BEING SO DAMN SENSITIVE AND WORRY ABOUT SOMETHING ELSE. PEOPLE HAVE A LOT MORE SERIOUS PROBLEMS THAN DIVORCED PARENTS AND TURN OUT FINE

Well, I can't say I agree with anything you've said so far, but I do apologize for losing my cool earlier and making a statement that may have been of insulting nature. You've a right to your opinion same as I've one to mine.

Anyway, that's all, back on topic.

if this would be considered a moral, I always use contraceptive, and I haven't had sex without a condom yet dont plan on doing otherwise anytime soon.

Fair enough Prince