Relax, just relax dude. You'll meet a girl when you least expect it. I didn't start dating till I was 18. I met an older woman. She was really hot and dug my geekiness. I consider myself an average looking guy and didn't think I would ever get any but it did. It totally changed my life.

I'm 21 and solitude is a familiar state for me. In time's past, I've been at parties - in the middle of a crowd- and felt alone and isolated.

I'm working to get better and be more sociable. I'm a funny guy, but everyone has their dualalities. Naturally, I’m shy and quiet.

No girlfriend. Never been kissed. (insert other standard wining here :) )

I have no answers. I used to be good advice and helped a lot of people, but then I realized how fucked up my own life was and still is.

For all the people, who have not been in any or many relationships, you are all a precious commodity! People you haven't been around the block six million times are my favorite kind of people to date!

They don't have as many hang-ups about dating as more "experienced' or jaded seasoned daters. Also newbees, as I like to say, are super lovable and don't always talk about their ex's! Also they appreciate you in a way that other "experienced" daters don't and don't play mind games with you. Also their is nothing more fun than the look of surprised shock during a sexy make out session guys get that aren't used to it! What a turn on!

I believe in asking guys out and being the persuer(is that a word)? that's how me and my current bf met! So don't lose hope, you always end up finding someone when you least expect it.

Trust me all girls really want a guy like you ReLax, my bf was the same way until we met and i love him to bits! I would say all girls should date a guy that hasn't screwed around, so they can actually date a guy who will know how to treat them right!

Serious hugs to all you, who think no one likes you, someone does, you just might not know who they are yet!

DON'T FROWN BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHO COULD FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOUR SMILE!:D :icare:

I agree with all who say that love gets those who are not expecting it.

I haven't been in many relationships, and the few I have been in never really got that serious. And it was probably because I was looking too hard for a relationship.

As for the girl I'm dating now, I was still looking for love when I found her, but I happened to be looking in the wrong direction. Fortunatly she made it obvious that she was interested, otherwise I might have passed her over and still be looking. Even though we've only been dating for a month, she is the most wonderful person I have met.

When you see an opportunity, take it. If you keep waiting for "the perfect opportunity" to come along, it will never come along because it doesn't exist, and you will miss some of the best opportunities ever presented to you.

I'm 20 years old and had a few truth or dare kisses in 8th grade. That's about it. The rest is masturbation.

Nice guys of the world unite!