A strange and sad story
 

I dont know if this belongs in sports, sexuality, living... so please any moderator feel free to move it if it doesnt belong here...

I dont really know how to feel about this, I feel sorry for the girl, but then I think "if she has been upset and traumatised by this, why is she selling her story - and putting pictures of herself (if you follow the link) into a major national newspaper?

And they go on about it being an outrage, and disgusting.. but nowhere in the story does it say the girl ever told them "no" or to stop... maybe she was just drunk or overawed, or she didnt quite no how - I just think its kind of sad that people live like this - her, and the soccer players who are living this fast life with different girls all the time.


http://www.newsoftheworld.co.uk/stor...ws/news4.shtml

Exactly. She never said no or stop. She's right, she has herself to blame for not standing up for herself. She's guilty of one thing: sacrificing her self worth. No wonder she felt like shit afterwards.

Yeah, I don't understand. It would be one thing if there was something about her that was being taken advantage of like her age or mental capacity but REGRET seems to be the only harm done here. Since when can you sue someone for REGRETING what you did with them. That's ridiculous.

Yup, from what I saw she never once said that she told the men no.

...and she went on to a SECOND group orgy after the first?

Fuck that. Attention whore. She makes legitimate rape cases harder to convict by pulling shit like this. Disgraceful on her part.

That was probably the most confusing thing I have ever read in my entire life.

All I got out of it was that she fucked a bunch of people and now regrets it.

If at least she'd said "no" or tried to fight them off then I'd be more enclined to believe it was rape.

The way I see it, she probably got into the sex orgies willingly at first and then realized the negative consequences it would have on her reputation and decided to feel shame then.

But I could be wrong.

I don't understand how a story like this gets into a newspaper. She doesn't seem to have filed charges, she just feels bad. So the story gets published with all sorts of detail. Sounds like a national inquirer sort of thing.

i dunno dude, that's a tough one, but it sounds pretty damn harsh to me. tabloid journalism and all, who knows what she really said that got left out of the story.

i guess i read into the story that she probably has low self esteem to begin with, and although she may have wanted to say no or resist, she just didn't know how. maybe coming forward with a story like this takes more guts than she's ever used before.

Regret it, fine. We all have regrets in life. If you do not say no or stop in a situation like this, you have no case for rape.