Sexual activity while your partner is asleep?
 

What do you guys think about being woken up to your partner playing with you or giving you oral, mabey even riding you ;) I think its awesome, i love to wake up to it...

Well, legally, it can constitute rape as far as I understand. But assuming your partner doesnt hate you... I dont know, for me, there is an element of it I would find disquieting, just personally.

I think, for me, I would rather be woken up first!

I would definitely love it, but I think I'll need to find a partner first

I've been woken up with a blowjob twice by two different women during the salespitch phase of the relationship. It was a wonderful thing but soon after commitment it never happened again. :(

no quarrels with it - because im a light sleeper, and as soon as she touches me, i'm awake. she knows that, and will usually just latch onto it, and when i wake up, 'its 4am.. you know the drill'

I doubt it would happen with my gf since my sexdrive is so much stronger than her own. I'd kind of like to waker HER up that way but I doubt she'd find it sexy.

It's happened a few time, none recently. I woke her up while "touching" her, and she was cool as can be about it.

sweet awakening...

kinda funny, all the little changes they make when the relationship is finalized.

I think it would be awesome.........but it's never happened to me. It'd be sort of a weird thing to initiate. I mean, you can either talk about it first (over a bottle of champagne and candlelit dinner? Heh. "Hey baby, how would you feel if I molested you in your sleep?"), or be ballsy and just do it and see if she smacks you out of bed or actually likes it.

hehehe... yeah... happened quite a few times.... woke up with my GF riding me.... ahhhh.

only problem is that i always have to pee when i wake up. but there isnt anything better that you could wake up to

Chewy is way too much of a light sleeper... so it doesn't have the effect that I want... but I still do it :)

Yeah definitly be careful with the whole having sex while your partner is sleeping. It can be considered rape, and even if your partners doesnt hate you, some could certainly feel violated.

Hubby and I love doing that to each other. We have discussed it already though and we both know where the other stands on that subject. Also we try to be sensitive to the other's needs. For example if the sleeping partner has been battling a cold, has to be up for work early etc. It's a sweet thing to be wakened by your sweetheart making love to you. It's the gentle intimate kind of lovin. Also we have to take advantage of every opportunity too - we have a kid and when she's awake sex just doesn't happen much. Bedtime is our time.

I like waking up to it... but would never dare do it to someone else. I guess for the most part as a guy, my stuff is more open access.

I don't like being woken up for anything.

yea, same here rockzilla. it makes me horribly cranky

Just out of curiousity, for all those involved in relationships in which this actually happens, how was it initiated? My guess would be:

(1) female does it to the male, works out well, talk about it later and incorporate it into their sex life.

(2) either says to the SO "You know, it would be a huge turn-on if..." at some appropriate point in some conversation that might possible lead to that being said... whatever that conversation might be.

I'd love to be woken up with some gentle kissing, or him just stroking my face and admiring me...and then initiating sexual activity.

I'd be pretty pissed to wake up and find out that I was having sex without my consent.

Hell, my girl's gone after me in her sleep. I guess she was just particularily randy that night. :P

indeed

Heh. I've been heard singing in my sleep before, but that takes the cakes.

It's been so long since first started but if I remember right it was discussed as something that would be enjoyed before it even occured. We have talked about many things and had phone sex when we were apart while engaged so once we got back together we were well aware of the other's sexual tastes and fantacies. I think it first occured with hubby waking me though. Don't quote me on that though. He already knew I would like that and woke me slowly and quietly. It was sweet.

It's both her and my favorite to be awaken.

And in response to raenna74 question, I belive it was she who started it. With a mice wake up blow job.. Than another statement aobut how it would be nice tobe woken up to the feeling me sliding into her..

This has come up a few times in my past. The most memorable being waking up to her riding me, loved it.

If I wake up first, I'll do small things, and depending how she responds is where it goes from there. When she is sleeping, if I gently brush my hand between her legs and she tries spooning me harder, it's usually a good indication that she's okay with it.

Can't think of anything better to do with morning wood. I mean, it makes it kind of tough to just roll over and sleep again.

On numerous occasions I have awakened to finding my girlfriend on top of me riding my dick like there's no tomorrow.


Nothing beats the feeling of waking up to my girlfriend either riding me or giving me a good blowjob.

You know, I've always wanted this to happen, and my wife has only done it... maybe once in the 3+ years we've been together.

If she only knew... :)

Now, on the reverse, I've woken her up going down on her MANY MANY times.

You'd think she'd get the idea.. :)

....and to think they say that men are the ones who are too dense and unable to read subtle hints.

:hmm:

This happened to me recently. I went to bed early and was awoken by a blowjob. I stayed "asleep" to see what would happen. it went on for a little while, then stopped. I opened my eyes and she was gone. Almost hought i was dreaming. But she came back and i closed my eyes to feel her hop on and start to ride me. It was incredible and hope it will happen again. I will do it to her one day soon and im sure the reaction will be favourable

Absolutely- plus, I finish really fast with the "morning wood" for some reason, which is awesome- fast BJ in the morning, no better way to wake up.

Did it to my xbf once..it was fun...apparently he had the best O ever...(not to self:do it with next bf..and more often...)

What a depressing way to look at it :-(

Had my gf do it to me once, it was the middle of a day on a sunday, lazy afternoon, home alone woke up to her on top of me, kinda felt it when I was sleeping and faked being asleep see how much she would, she woke me up and told me she was tired of doing all the work and to fuck her, and fuck her I did. One of the best times I'd say we had. She had just gotten off her period so she was happy of that and also horny because we hadn't got to because she was extra sore during that one, so it was well diserved.

To avert any of the "rape" issues, discuss it first. My gf and I talked about it and she said it would be a cool idea. So that there was an element of surprise to it, we agreed that she would do it when I was not expecting it.

All I can say is that it's great. It just adds another dimension to the "sex" part of the relationship.

I had a long day and was passed out asleep. My boyfriend at the time was licking and fingering me awake. I felt slightly violated and at the same time I was anxious to have sex with him.

This is something I'd be willing to do again, except this time I want to be the waker not the wakee.

I think guys are more open to it than girls but i dunno for sure.

I always thought it would be a nice thing to happen to two people who want each other. Then last weekend, whadya know!

I remember being half awake, but all she has to do is put her hand somewhere near Little Fatboss and he's standing to attention awaitin' inspection!

Usually that's as far as it goes but this time she jumps on top and rides me to within an inch of my life! She gets a knee-buckling orgasm, I get that feelin I get when I actually give her one of those, then we both drifted back off to sleep.

Beautiful Times.

I wouldn't want to wake up to actual sex...but some foreplay type stuff, that would be a wonderful way to wake up :D

I brought it up once (me waking him up, that is), and he didn't seem into it, so that was pretty much the end of that. Plus he's so grumpy in the morning. :rolleyes:

I had it happen once. During the first year of my 4 year-soon-to-be-married relationship. I woke up to a really awesome hand job. I would love to wake up to something like that or more again.

We don't do this in particular just because she is too grouchy or sleepy if I awake her in the middle of the night. We do have morning sex quite frequently when we are both just waking up and still kind of sleepy.

I read in article in Playboy, I think it was, about a girl who used to screw her boyfriend when he was sleeping because he would never "satisfy" her when he was awake...

She said every woman should do it.

Originally posted by CinnamonGirl
I wouldn't want to wake up to actual sex...but some foreplay type stuff, that would be a wonderful way to wake up :D

Stroking is so different than groping. Once that concept is grasped, it's an awesome awakening. I've had it happen before where I felt like I was being raped. It can be so nice, especially when it happens early enough in the morning that you can curl back up with each other and sleep for another few hours. Haven't had this happen in a while... would be fun. Although if I were to initiate I might get accidentally smacked - would definitely take away all fun whatsoever.:hmm:

I've mentioned this to my wife on occasion, but she's never done it to me.

I know better than to try it on her; even waking her up with a kiss on the lips is a bad move. She startles and is disoriented when she is woken up. The safest way I've found to wake her up is to press down on her upper arm.

I know my boyfriend would like me to wake him up by giving him a blowjob, he has mentioned that a couple of times, so i got the message :p

Problem is, I am a real sleepy-head, and I wake up not always in the best of moods... (to say the least!!!)
So... normally when I wake up, and he is still sleeping, I'm just glad that he is still asleep so i can sleep too for a bit longer... http://users.pandora.be/eforum/emoti...ep/schla05.gif

And when he wakes me up... i'm normally not that nice during the first hour ... so I can't really imagine having sex with him, let alone giving him a blowjob, while he is still asleep... Which is a shame, I would really like to see what his reaction would be if I would... Just hope his first reaction won't be to start punching and kicking me... I mean, if i would wake up in a similar way like that, it would scare the hell out of me at first! Bet I'd be awake in no time!!! :p

My wife has done it to me, and its the best thing in the world.

HOWEVER,

My wife was sexually molested as a child. She has made it clear that she would completely freak out if I did the same to her. Under no circumstances should I ever believe its OK.

And that's cool with me.

My gf and i always wake eachother up with little foreplay and stuff, but we make sure eachother are awake before we go for intercourse...Yeh, i wouldnt want to wake up to sex, well mabey, but more like foreplay kinda stuff, not actual intercourse.

I have always said to my girlfriends that if they wanted to they could but they have never done it. Quite a few of my ex's gave me the same permission but I could never do it. I assume it is for the same reason. It just feels wrong. I would be using my girlfriend as a fuckhole. She would be like the outside of a sausage roll. Im not comfortable with doing that.

I would really like to be woken up to a blowjob or some sex.

Unfortunately, my girlfriendis not one for midnight lovin or early morning lovin.

I tried to initiate in the middle of the night once, and it turned into a big fight :(

yeah it sounds really awesome. i would do it to a guy if he slept on his back.

I love waking up to a hand job or blow job. I've had it done a few times and it's just great. Some females get annoyed as fuck by it though so you gotta pick your person well. And just because they don't want it done, doesn't mean they won't do it. Communication is key just tell them, it would be great to awakened by you...... Fun stuff!

I've experienced it both ways (giving or recieving) in a past relationship, but we had a very healthy open relationship. It can be very a very enjoyable alarm clock, or a nice way to roll into a lazy Saturday!

Far and away my favorite way to wake up =P Nothing beats it.

We talked about it early on, and I've given FULL consent to awakened by any means she desires...but it has yet to happen.

I actually have an incredibly long and funny story along the lines of this topic, but I'm just gonna throw out the short side of it.

My first anal experience was with a girl who was asleep. The sad part is, there was no real way to tell as she talked to me. It wasn't just random as we were pretty hot and heavy up to that point. I've since learned intensely about her sleeping disorders, and while shes not as bad as she used to be, it would still be possible. I didn't keep it from her, we laught about it to this day. (I even came in her mouth :O !!!)