Sexual activity while your partner is asleep?
 

What do you guys think about being woken up to your partner playing with you or giving you oral, mabey even riding you ;) I think its awesome, i love to wake up to it...

Well, legally, it can constitute rape as far as I understand. But assuming your partner doesnt hate you... I dont know, for me, there is an element of it I would find disquieting, just personally.

I think, for me, I would rather be woken up first!

I would definitely love it, but I think I'll need to find a partner first

I've been woken up with a blowjob twice by two different women during the salespitch phase of the relationship. It was a wonderful thing but soon after commitment it never happened again. :(

no quarrels with it - because im a light sleeper, and as soon as she touches me, i'm awake. she knows that, and will usually just latch onto it, and when i wake up, 'its 4am.. you know the drill'

I doubt it would happen with my gf since my sexdrive is so much stronger than her own. I'd kind of like to waker HER up that way but I doubt she'd find it sexy.

It's happened a few time, none recently. I woke her up while "touching" her, and she was cool as can be about it.

sweet awakening...

kinda funny, all the little changes they make when the relationship is finalized.

I think it would be awesome.........but it's never happened to me. It'd be sort of a weird thing to initiate. I mean, you can either talk about it first (over a bottle of champagne and candlelit dinner? Heh. "Hey baby, how would you feel if I molested you in your sleep?"), or be ballsy and just do it and see if she smacks you out of bed or actually likes it.

hehehe... yeah... happened quite a few times.... woke up with my GF riding me.... ahhhh.

only problem is that i always have to pee when i wake up. but there isnt anything better that you could wake up to

Chewy is way too much of a light sleeper... so it doesn't have the effect that I want... but I still do it :)

Yeah definitly be careful with the whole having sex while your partner is sleeping. It can be considered rape, and even if your partners doesnt hate you, some could certainly feel violated.

Hubby and I love doing that to each other. We have discussed it already though and we both know where the other stands on that subject. Also we try to be sensitive to the other's needs. For example if the sleeping partner has been battling a cold, has to be up for work early etc. It's a sweet thing to be wakened by your sweetheart making love to you. It's the gentle intimate kind of lovin. Also we have to take advantage of every opportunity too - we have a kid and when she's awake sex just doesn't happen much. Bedtime is our time.

I like waking up to it... but would never dare do it to someone else. I guess for the most part as a guy, my stuff is more open access.

I don't like being woken up for anything.

yea, same here rockzilla. it makes me horribly cranky

Just out of curiousity, for all those involved in relationships in which this actually happens, how was it initiated? My guess would be:

(1) female does it to the male, works out well, talk about it later and incorporate it into their sex life.

(2) either says to the SO "You know, it would be a huge turn-on if..." at some appropriate point in some conversation that might possible lead to that being said... whatever that conversation might be.

I'd love to be woken up with some gentle kissing, or him just stroking my face and admiring me...and then initiating sexual activity.

I'd be pretty pissed to wake up and find out that I was having sex without my consent.

Hell, my girl's gone after me in her sleep. I guess she was just particularily randy that night. :P

indeed

Heh. I've been heard singing in my sleep before, but that takes the cakes.

It's been so long since first started but if I remember right it was discussed as something that would be enjoyed before it even occured. We have talked about many things and had phone sex when we were apart while engaged so once we got back together we were well aware of the other's sexual tastes and fantacies. I think it first occured with hubby waking me though. Don't quote me on that though. He already knew I would like that and woke me slowly and quietly. It was sweet.

It's both her and my favorite to be awaken.

And in response to raenna74 question, I belive it was she who started it. With a mice wake up blow job.. Than another statement aobut how it would be nice tobe woken up to the feeling me sliding into her..

This has come up a few times in my past. The most memorable being waking up to her riding me, loved it.

If I wake up first, I'll do small things, and depending how she responds is where it goes from there. When she is sleeping, if I gently brush my hand between her legs and she tries spooning me harder, it's usually a good indication that she's okay with it.

Can't think of anything better to do with morning wood. I mean, it makes it kind of tough to just roll over and sleep again.

On numerous occasions I have awakened to finding my girlfriend on top of me riding my dick like there's no tomorrow.


Nothing beats the feeling of waking up to my girlfriend either riding me or giving me a good blowjob.

You know, I've always wanted this to happen, and my wife has only done it... maybe once in the 3+ years we've been together.

If she only knew... :)

Now, on the reverse, I've woken her up going down on her MANY MANY times.

You'd think she'd get the idea.. :)

....and to think they say that men are the ones who are too dense and unable to read subtle hints.

:hmm:

This happened to me recently. I went to bed early and was awoken by a blowjob. I stayed "asleep" to see what would happen. it went on for a little while, then stopped. I opened my eyes and she was gone. Almost hought i was dreaming. But she came back and i closed my eyes to feel her hop on and start to ride me. It was incredible and hope it will happen again. I will do it to her one day soon and im sure the reaction will be favourable

Absolutely- plus, I finish really fast with the "morning wood" for some reason, which is awesome- fast BJ in the morning, no better way to wake up.

Did it to my xbf once..it was fun...apparently he had the best O ever...(not to self:do it with next bf..and more often...)

What a depressing way to look at it :-(

Had my gf do it to me once, it was the middle of a day on a sunday, lazy afternoon, home alone woke up to her on top of me, kinda felt it when I was sleeping and faked being asleep see how much she would, she woke me up and told me she was tired of doing all the work and to fuck her, and fuck her I did. One of the best times I'd say we had. She had just gotten off her period so she was happy of that and also horny because we hadn't got to because she was extra sore during that one, so it was well diserved.

To avert any of the "rape" issues, discuss it first. My gf and I talked about it and she said it would be a cool idea. So that there was an element of surprise to it, we agreed that she would do it when I was not expecting it.

All I can say is that it's great. It just adds another dimension to the "sex" part of the relationship.

I had a long day and was passed out asleep. My boyfriend at the time was licking and fingering me awake. I felt slightly violated and at the same time I was anxious to have sex with him.

This is something I'd be willing to do again, except this time I want to be the waker not the wakee.

I think guys are more open to it than girls but i dunno for sure.

I always thought it would be a nice thing to happen to two people who want each other. Then last weekend, whadya know!

I remember being half awake, but all she has to do is put her hand somewhere near Little Fatboss and he's standing to attention awaitin' inspection!

Usually that's as far as it goes but this time she jumps on top and rides me to within an inch of my life! She gets a knee-buckling orgasm, I get that feelin I get when I actually give her one of those, then we both drifted back off to sleep.

Beautiful Times.

I wouldn't want to wake up to actual sex...but some foreplay type stuff, that would be a wonderful way to wake up :D

I brought it up once (me waking him up, that is), and he didn't seem into it, so that was pretty much the end of that. Plus he's so grumpy in the morning. :rolleyes: