no birth control is 100%. i think the pill tricks the woman's body into believing it's already pregnant, which reduces the chances of a fertilized ovary attaching to the uterine wall. but there are no guarantees.

the pill does not prevent the transmission of STI's.

i think the lack of pleasure is outweighed by the idea that your going to be safe from getting the hiv or someother disease, or even a dam kid. if anything the best birth control is to do it in the butt ;-)

When I used to use a condom years ago, it sucked. there was hardly any feeling and she didn't enjoy it either. But now there are better condoms that are stronger and thinner where it feels almost as natural as it would with no condom. Check the different brands to find out which would be the best for you and your girl.

Buy large condoms. They aren't so tight and for some reason they feel better.

That said, condoms suck, but it's better latex than never.

Yah it's better without a condom but I would rather have less pleasure then herpes or worse.

If your GF says it feels uncomfortable then she is probably allergic to the spermicide, lubricant or latex. Ribbed condoms can also cause agitation for some girls.

in a condom....... I lose a hardon... dunno why... just reminds me of the feeling you get from walking around in sogy shoes... except its a soggy penis sock... its disturbing...

I'd rather go without than use one personally..

and I get std tested regularly... nothing so far..
if I get one... oh well... you only live once right.. I wouldn't mind living life even if it means living the bad sides of it too....

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I would have to agree with the above statement!!!!

Phantom...haven't you ever heard the saying that the first stuff out of the pipes is the most potent!!!! If you are aiming not to get her pregnant (even if she is on the pill) That method is again called the hope method, it will do absolutely nothing but make clean up easier.

Tell that to the pregnant teenage girls who are still technically virgins because they had anal sex. An outreach speaker from Planned Parenthood said there are quite a few teenagers who think they can't get pregnant if they have anal sex... then they're proven wrong the hard way.

The pill caused my fiance' problems so for the last six months it has been condom city. I hate the things but its better that than the side effects she had to deal with. I find Trojan ultra thin to be the best for sensation but its still a drag. Maybe in a few years should we opt out of having kids I'll get snipped.

use a lubricated condom, and some astroglide, its the way to go, let me tell ya..........i know from experience

hmm....

I also lose a hardon in a condom. The lack of sensation further aggravates this. I also rarely cum when using a condom.

And condomless sex is great.

I'd also rather go without one than use it, but I'm hyper-paranoid. The insanity caused by worrying and waiting for my next HIV test (not to mention her next period) wouldn't be worth it.

cockring

Isn't that an old victorian method to keep you flaccid?

fixed that for ya

No such thing as a stupid question first of all. Secondly, when a woman is on the pill, and takes it precisley as prescribed, it "greatly reduces" the chance of pregnancy. However, it is not 100%. If you cum inside her, you are increasing the odds of pregnancy. The one thing that can really sway the odds, is how she takes the pill...does she take it everyday? Or does she miss a day here and there. Basically if you really want to reduce the chance of pregnancy, don't get off inside her. Does that answer your question? I tend to write very randomly...

I fully endorse protection, but i too dislike using a condom. I do use one though when a "one night stand" occurs (hey i'm a college guy i'm allowed too ;) ).

Don't know if its just psychological, but i just can't get the same satifaction using one.


Oh and regarding the pill, I still pull out even with the gf on the pill. Plus nothing beats a facial hehe :cool:

if all you do is use condoms, you will never notice the difference--that's my case. Quite frankly, i'm very curious what it will feel like without one, since I don't know any better and I can't even feel it when it's on and i'm going at it like crazy.

i know i must sound really stupid, but i can't understand how this is possible. :confused:

A lot of people don't use protection (Birth control like the pill doesn't count. I'm talking condoms and latex etc). If you ejaculate into a girl anally and without protection, some of it does come out despite popular belief that an anus has a watertight seal. This can happen when you are pulling out, since your penis will no doubt be covered in ejaculate, or if she goes to the bathroom afterward, or many other various possibilities.

The point is this: As long as there is ejaculate near the entrance of a vagina (and the anus is a very close neighbor), there is always going to be the chance of a pregnancy.

As long as she's getting hers, too.