question about my S.O. orgasm... she passes out sometimes
 

my girl friend, whenever she has an orgasm, she will pass out after a minute. she will be loving it, and all of a sudden shes out of it. she passes out, and cuddles into a ball and sleeps for like 2 minutes. its the cutest damn thing ive ever seen. by the way, this only happens when im fingering her.

but one time, i was just slowely fingering her, then out of nowhere i just started fingering really fast, and she took two gasps of air and then was out cold. she woke up like 5 minutes later and she didnt have an orgasm yet, just the sudden extreme pleasure took her right out.

is this a bad thing? it only happens when fingering her. should i not all of a sudden go really fast like i did??

p.s. it sucks when she goes out cold, and your sitting there with the biggest hard on, and you just want some so so bad, but you cant. it sucks so bad.


thanks for the advice or whatever you want to call it

Well, you "could" do something about ur hardon, but I guess that might break a few laws.
Anyway, that's an f'd up but interesting happening.
Not nearly the same thing, but I always though it was wierd how my ex-gf slept with her eyes partially open.

le petit mort.

tis a well documented phenomenon.

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&l...=Google+Search

should provide a few good startouts for thee.

Never heard of this, but it is interesting.

Wow, better than hearing "is that all?"

I never heard of that before. It happened to my girlfriend once, but I never thought anything about it. Thanks for the info.

wow... "le petit mort"

thats crazy. i dont know about the heart condition... i mean shes XX, and shes a long distance runner, never has fainted after a race. but its crazy

I can' t speak to potential health concerns, but all that aside:

You should be asking HER these questions. Might be a bad thing. Might be a really really GOOD thing.

Interesting, never heard of it. Incidentally, did anyone read the x-files fanfiction that come up at the top of the google search. It was both informative AND erotic. ;)

hahah, she said she passes out because of the overwhelming pleasure, so it is a very GOOD thing. but is it like harming her when she passes out?

My wife used to pass out all the time. Her's was due to breath holding during orgas. Worked all ways, fingering, oral sex and then penetration. Talk about an ego booster! :thumbsup:

Seriously though, I don't think there's anything to be concerned about. Just be there for her when she wakes up and go from there. Good luck and have fun!

I was a good friend with a girl that this happened to. Through talking we came to the conclusion it was from practice that it happened. She used to masterbate late at night in Jr. High through High School, and would always go to sleep immediately after it. Her body just started to associate orgasm with sleep and the instant she would orgasm the body would send out the sleep hormones.

Body-Association is a very powerful thing, this happens more with guys if you imagine... rubbing one out before bed is a common occurance.

Naturally for males the sleep hormones are released after coitus, it is rare for women but does occur. Try to keep conversation with her after she O's, or keep her active other ways (you know what I mean), if you keep the enjoyment going her body will associate sex with... more sex. Enjoy.

That's so fucking cute. :crazy: ;)

It doesnt sound too good to me, maybe she should see a doctor about this?

XX yrs old huh???? :eek:

sounds like she's just not breathing when she's having intense pleasure. and i think not breathing is different from le petit mort.
le petit mort used to be the term for orgasm during the Victorian era and probably earlier. they found that the dilation of your eyes when you have an orgasm is the same as when you die. so they thought that you were dying every time you orgasmed. this is why i get a kick out of reading Victorian literature. any reference to a woman thinking she's dying is an erotic scene (read The Awakening). now it's reversed: they think that when you die you have a huge orgasm. something they look forward to. :)

anyways, it could be a problem if she goes out cold for too long *and* is not breathing. brain damage due to asphyxiation=not good. this is not a big concern like autoerotic asphyxiation is because she's not forcibly suffocating herself. if you had said, she asks you to strangle her until she blacks out, then i would be worried. people with this fetish build a tolerancy to how much air they can cut off and then they sometimes go too far and suffocate. for a long time, they thought autoerotic asphyxiation was just a bizarre way to commit suicide. then they discovered it was actually a dangerous fetish that sometimes led to death.

thankfully, though, your body won't let you suffocate yourself. try holding your breath until you suffocate--it just doesn't happen. the only thing that will come of that is maybe passing out. so, if she blacks out for only a little, it's probably not a health concern and you should just pat yourself on the back.

that is a interesting problem


she does not do this while your having sex?

she is only out for like a minute. well, we havent had real sex in a while and, i mean this is only a recent occurance. she never used to do this. she also used to not be a screamer, and now she is. so i think slowely one by one she isnt holding anything back. next she will probably squirt. hahahaha

I skimmed 1/2 way down and read "Mulder's pants crumpled on the ground" *emergency back button*

i suppose as long as she doesn't get all dry in the two minutes she is asleep, then you can still rock it when she wakes up.

if this is true then i should be dead from masturbation

this has kind of happened to me--girls do tend to hold their breath while getting fingered--but after a while you realize you need to breathe or you won't be conscious long enough to enjoy it fully! but like others said, ask her how it feels, if she could control passing out or if she even wants to. OR just wait for her to wake up, the anticipation is worth it i'm sure! :)

that is interesting

almost as weird as this lady I read about the other day who sneezes every time she thinks of sex! :lol:

I know that when I have a gspot orgasm, normally-not ALL the time- but normally only brought about when fingered the orgasm is SO much more intense that a clitoral one that I tend to lose it for a minute or so...its like my brain completely shuts down for a few....I wouldnt trade that feeling for the world

I don't know if its funny, hot, cute, or weird. I've never heard of it before either. She must be having one hell of an orgasm.