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roger that · 12-16-2003, 08:15 PM

I just had sex the first time the other night. Well I got caught up and we didnt use protection (I know dummy) She asked if I wanted to try it, so we did for like 10 seconds then pulled out. Then I got confused later on and decided I wasnt ready for a relationship. The thing is she said she only had protected sex with the guys shes been with. But my conscious was feeling that she wasnt telling me the truth about those 2 guys. I dunno I feel weird and scared just wondering what the chances were of getting a STD from our 10 seconds.

12-16-2003, 08:20 PM

go get a test. can't worry until you do that. and, gosh darnit- don't go unprotected!

OFKU0 · 12-16-2003, 09:01 PM

You are fucked. Heh heh. But can you just imagine some poor bastard somewhere stuck it in for 10 seconds and got aids or something.

Hopefully you are lucky.

Rlyss · 12-16-2003, 10:02 PM

I know it's easier said than done, but don't sit there just fretting about it. Go to your doctor or clinic and get a test done, it's the only thing you can do, and it's the BEST thing you can do, and it's what you should do.

And please, don't be embarassed about getting an STD test done. I think that's one of the things people are most frightened about, they're humiliated that they're going to get tested. Just keep in mind that the doctors there aren't going to judge you, they won't criticize you, they won't laugh and they certainly won't scold. They'll give you helpful advice and they'll be there for you when you need it.

Never mind what this girl said, if you have any doubt in your mind whatsoever, go and get yourself tested and you'll know for sure.

analog · 12-16-2003, 10:26 PM

I'd also be worried about whether or not you impregnated her. Sure, it's a small chance, but that's how it happens. No condom means no protection, and it doesn't matter that you didn't ejaculate. Your precum has plenty of those wonderful little swimmers in it to do the job. Go get tested, and don't be embarassed, it's what you need to do. Also, wear a fucking condom next time. Hell- BEFORE you get the test, go out and buy a pack of condoms OR go to a planned parenthood/health clinic and they might just GIVE you some. Keep them on you at all times. If you don't have one, then don't do it, it's as simple as that. And don't give us "i know, dummy"... if you knew what you were doing, then why did you do it? You have plenty of years in your life to get yourself a big 'ole piece of that wonderful pie, so play it safe, ok?

Best of luck.

roger that · 12-16-2003, 10:58 PM

Thanks for the info guys

Yeah I'll get some incase and put them in my glove compartment. I acted like a idiot and I'm feeling the backlash heavily. I'll get tested soon.

wry1 · 12-16-2003, 11:49 PM

Hey, it's never easy when your hormones are raging and she's more than willing....but like everybody's said so far: use a condom, man!

It's the responsible thing to do, and unless you know your partner exceptionally well, you're a fool not to keep a "love glove" or two handy....

cheerios · 12-17-2003, 12:09 AM

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Originally posted by roger that
Thanks for the info guys Yeah I'll get some incase and put them in my glove compartment. I acted like a idiot and I'm feeling the backlash heavily. I'll get tested soon.

HEAT DEGRADES CONDOMS! glove compartment== not good spot for condoms.

roger that · 12-17-2003, 12:47 AM

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Originally posted by cheerios
HEAT DEGRADES CONDOMS! glove compartment== not good spot for condoms.

Damn good point, your wallet does the same thing.

Averett · 12-17-2003, 04:10 AM

Well, your wallet is better than the glove compartment

Chances are you'll be fine, but for piece of mind just get tested. Sounds like youve got a decent head on your shoulders for even worrying about it, and for stopping because you werent ready. Good luck

bing bing · 12-17-2003, 05:55 AM

Don't fret about getting an STD test either, doctors look at penis' and vaginas everyday so it's not like your request will be anything out of the ordinary.

absorbentishe · 12-17-2003, 06:06 AM

It was your first time, and you lasted past 10 seconds?? That's got to be a record, I don't think I lasted that long. No, seriously, you'll be fine, your mind will be at ease after you see the doctor, and once she starts.

Sho Nuff · 12-17-2003, 12:27 PM

I can understand your excitement it being your first time and all but in the future the lack of condoms is the number 1 excuse for getting head.

roger that · 12-17-2003, 05:07 PM

Thanks for all the support guys, I'll do my best

ickma · 12-17-2003, 07:50 PM

No one has mentioned so far, congratulations on getting laid.

roger that · 12-18-2003, 01:10 PM

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Originally posted by ickma
No one has mentioned so far, congratulations on getting laid.

<3 hehe

BigTruck1956 · 12-19-2003, 08:04 PM

just be more prepared next time, bro! congrats!!!

moonstrucksoul · 12-19-2003, 08:18 PM

i don't know if ten seconds qualifies as getting laid, but

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Mr. T says"I pity the fool, who don't wrap his tool!"

12-16-2003, 08:15 PM	#1 (permalink)
roger that Crazy Location: World	First time I just had sex the first time the other night. Well I got caught up and we didnt use protection (I know dummy) She asked if I wanted to try it, so we did for like 10 seconds then pulled out. Then I got confused later on and decided I wasnt ready for a relationship. The thing is she said she only had protected sex with the guys shes been with. But my conscious was feeling that she wasnt telling me the truth about those 2 guys. I dunno I feel weird and scared just wondering what the chances were of getting a STD from our 10 seconds. __________________ hi

12-16-2003, 09:01 PM	#3 (permalink)
OFKU0 Junk	You are fucked. Heh heh. But can you just imagine some poor bastard somewhere stuck it in for 10 seconds and got aids or something. Hopefully you are lucky. __________________ " In Canada, you can tell the most blatant lie in a calm voice, and people will believe you over someone who's a little passionate about the truth." David Warren, Western Standard.

12-16-2003, 10:58 PM	#6 (permalink)
roger that Crazy Location: World	Thanks for the info guys Yeah I'll get some incase and put them in my glove compartment. I acted like a idiot and I'm feeling the backlash heavily. I'll get tested soon. __________________ hi

12-17-2003, 04:10 AM	#10 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	Well, your wallet is better than the glove compartment Chances are you'll be fine, but for piece of mind just get tested. Sounds like youve got a decent head on your shoulders for even worrying about it, and for stopping because you werent ready. Good luck __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

12-17-2003, 12:27 PM	#13 (permalink)
Sho Nuff Addict Location: Harlem	I can understand your excitement it being your first time and all but in the future the lack of condoms is the number 1 excuse for getting head. __________________ I know Nietzsche doesnt rhyme with peachy, but you sound like a pretentious prick when you correct me.

12-16-2003, 08:20 PM	#2 (permalink)
:::OshnSoul::: Guest	go get a test. can't worry until you do that. and, gosh darnit- don't go unprotected!

12-16-2003, 10:02 PM	#4 (permalink)
Rlyss The Pusher Location: Edinburgh	I know it's easier said than done, but don't sit there just fretting about it. Go to your doctor or clinic and get a test done, it's the only thing you can do, and it's the BEST thing you can do, and it's what you should do. And please, don't be embarassed about getting an STD test done. I think that's one of the things people are most frightened about, they're humiliated that they're going to get tested. Just keep in mind that the doctors there aren't going to judge you, they won't criticize you, they won't laugh and they certainly won't scold. They'll give you helpful advice and they'll be there for you when you need it. Never mind what this girl said, if you have any doubt in your mind whatsoever, go and get yourself tested and you'll know for sure.

12-16-2003, 10:26 PM	#5 (permalink)
analog Banned	I'd also be worried about whether or not you impregnated her. Sure, it's a small chance, but that's how it happens. No condom means no protection, and it doesn't matter that you didn't ejaculate. Your precum has plenty of those wonderful little swimmers in it to do the job. Go get tested, and don't be embarassed, it's what you need to do. Also, wear a fucking condom next time. Hell- BEFORE you get the test, go out and buy a pack of condoms OR go to a planned parenthood/health clinic and they might just GIVE you some. Keep them on you at all times. If you don't have one, then don't do it, it's as simple as that. And don't give us "i know, dummy"... if you knew what you were doing, then why did you do it? You have plenty of years in your life to get yourself a big 'ole piece of that wonderful pie, so play it safe, ok? Best of luck.

12-16-2003, 11:49 PM	#7 (permalink)
wry1 Loser Location: Far too far from my Angel....	Hey, it's never easy when your hormones are raging and she's more than willing....but like everybody's said so far: use a condom, man! It's the responsible thing to do, and unless you know your partner exceptionally well, you're a fool not to keep a "love glove" or two handy....

12-17-2003, 05:55 AM	#11 (permalink)
bing bing Addict Location: Melbourne, Australia	Don't fret about getting an STD test either, doctors look at penis' and vaginas everyday so it's not like your request will be anything out of the ordinary.

12-17-2003, 06:06 AM	#12 (permalink)
absorbentishe Boy am I horny today Location: T O L E D O, Toledo!!	It was your first time, and you lasted past 10 seconds?? That's got to be a record, I don't think I lasted that long. No, seriously, you'll be fine, your mind will be at ease after you see the doctor, and once she starts.

12-17-2003, 05:07 PM	#14 (permalink)
roger that Crazy Location: World	Thanks for all the support guys, I'll do my best __________________ hi

12-17-2003, 07:50 PM	#15 (permalink)
ickma Insane Location: Toronto	No one has mentioned so far, congratulations on getting laid.

12-19-2003, 08:04 PM	#17 (permalink)
BigTruck1956 Psycho Location: norcal	just be more prepared next time, bro! congrats!!! __________________ so much to do, so little time.....at least i aint bored.