Thread on giving head
 

I'm sorry, I know there was one, but search is disabled and I even looked through the pages and couldn't find it. Could someone please post the thread or give advice.

*edit* Sorry, I guess I should explain a little at least. My girlfriend has trouble getting me to blow and it is starting to frustrate us both. She wants to finish and I do, too. Just any tips on the matter would be very helpful.

Relax, don't worry about it, and just let things happen. When you think about it too much it leads to problems. Also, communicate let her know what feels good.
I'm sure it will be fine, be happy you both have the patience to want to satisfy each other.

squeeze and relax your PC muscles....sometimes if we dont have much time left...i just start to squeeze and relax the muscles down there, and it usually speeds things up.

men are a lot harder to please orally than women, on average.

I can barely really enjoy recieving oral, even though its great, sometimes it just doesnt work.

A great way to finish off, and have a great session is just to take an hour or few (yes, he said few) and explore what you like and what doesnt work. Work it up slow, and once you find a few things that work (yes, dont stop after youve found one) then work on 'em.

Everyone seems to have different preferences as to what they like positionwise, so you'll really need to work it out with your partner together sometime.

Take some time. Took my lady and I 6 months after we started having sex to get it so we knew -exactly- what the other wanted and how.

Of course, now, its to the point where she can hit O without even taking her clothes off or putting anything inside... oh what a wonderful achievement :D

what kind of tips would you give the woman? I always seem to get an aching jaw afterwards, and I can't finish....it's hard for me to last a long time without getting unconfortable, but I want to please him...........

Ok this will sound crazy, but if instead of sliding it in and out she GENTLY bites down it and back up, I get really close very fast. Try it.

You should elaborate on that a bit.. Bites down it and up, do you mean like a soft chomp chomp (I dunno about that but it's what it sounds like :\) or put her teeth behind the head and going over the back ridge.. Or something else?

er.. any teeth I find to be very painful...

like has been mentioned before, its trial and error - try different things, use your hands while you use your mouth, try applying pressure with your tongue, press the head into the roof of your mouth as you pump to rub it, theres all sorts of different things you can try.. just watch his reaction.

Take the time, dont get too vigorous until youve found something that works, so you wont be too tired out to finish off.

Some porn is good as a "guide" to oral sex... my gf still uses her teeth *ouch* but trying to teach her... but she does great DT ;o)

I believe that *Nikki* started a thread about this awhile back, but with the search options disabled it'll be hard to find :(

I dunno about that... In my experience it's been a lot easier for the guy to get off from oral than women.

Ok, here's *Nikki*'s famous

The Ultimate Blow Job Guide

(Although search is out - there are other ways to find the information)

Thanks for the link. I knew it was around somewhere.

:) :crazy: :) :crazy: ;)

yeah, that's the ticket. Have her start slowly. I know it sound crazy, but trust me.

Oh, and spit, lots of spit.