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legolas · 12-10-2003, 02:25 PM

I'm sorry, I know there was one, but search is disabled and I even looked through the pages and couldn't find it. Could someone please post the thread or give advice.

*edit* Sorry, I guess I should explain a little at least. My girlfriend has trouble getting me to blow and it is starting to frustrate us both. She wants to finish and I do, too. Just any tips on the matter would be very helpful.

Woody182 · 12-10-2003, 02:30 PM

Relax, don't worry about it, and just let things happen. When you think about it too much it leads to problems. Also, communicate let her know what feels good.
I'm sure it will be fine, be happy you both have the patience to want to satisfy each other.

blade02 · 12-10-2003, 03:00 PM

squeeze and relax your PC muscles....sometimes if we dont have much time left...i just start to squeeze and relax the muscles down there, and it usually speeds things up.

numist · 12-10-2003, 04:21 PM

men are a lot harder to please orally than women, on average.

I can barely really enjoy recieving oral, even though its great, sometimes it just doesnt work.

A great way to finish off, and have a great session is just to take an hour or few (yes, he said few) and explore what you like and what doesnt work. Work it up slow, and once you find a few things that work (yes, dont stop after youve found one) then work on 'em.

Everyone seems to have different preferences as to what they like positionwise, so you'll really need to work it out with your partner together sometime.

Take some time. Took my lady and I 6 months after we started having sex to get it so we knew -exactly- what the other wanted and how.

Of course, now, its to the point where she can hit O without even taking her clothes off or putting anything inside... oh what a wonderful achievement

12-10-2003, 04:50 PM

what kind of tips would you give the woman? I always seem to get an aching jaw afterwards, and I can't finish....it's hard for me to last a long time without getting unconfortable, but I want to please him...........

soopadoopa · 12-10-2003, 04:54 PM

Ok this will sound crazy, but if instead of sliding it in and out she GENTLY bites down it and back up, I get really close very fast. Try it.

passthru · 12-10-2003, 11:51 PM

You should elaborate on that a bit.. Bites down it and up, do you mean like a soft chomp chomp (I dunno about that but it's what it sounds like :\) or put her teeth behind the head and going over the back ridge.. Or something else?

numist · 12-11-2003, 12:02 AM

er.. any teeth I find to be very painful...

like has been mentioned before, its trial and error - try different things, use your hands while you use your mouth, try applying pressure with your tongue, press the head into the roof of your mouth as you pump to rub it, theres all sorts of different things you can try.. just watch his reaction.

Take the time, dont get too vigorous until youve found something that works, so you wont be too tired out to finish off.

h45e · 12-11-2003, 02:26 AM

Some porn is good as a "guide" to oral sex... my gf still uses her teeth *ouch* but trying to teach her... but she does great DT ;o)

Averett · 12-11-2003, 05:15 AM

I believe that *Nikki* started a thread about this awhile back, but with the search options disabled it'll be hard to find

lady · 12-11-2003, 05:24 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by numist
men are a lot harder to please orally than women, on average.

I dunno about that... In my experience it's been a lot easier for the guy to get off from oral than women.

Loup · 12-11-2003, 05:36 AM

Ok, here's *Nikki*'s famous

The Ultimate Blow Job Guide

(Although search is out - there are other ways to find the information)

legolas · 12-11-2003, 08:03 AM

Thanks for the link. I knew it was around somewhere.

moonstrucksoul · 12-11-2003, 04:35 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by :::OshnSoul:::
what kind of tips would you give the woman? I always seem to get an aching jaw afterwards, and I can't finish....it's hard for me to last a long time without getting unconfortable, but I want to please him...........

soopadoopa · 12-11-2003, 04:38 PM

Quote:

soft chomp chomp

yeah, that's the ticket. Have her start slowly. I know it sound crazy, but trust me.

Oh, and spit, lots of spit.

12-10-2003, 02:25 PM	#1 (permalink)
legolas shit faced cockmaster Location: CT	Thread on giving head I'm sorry, I know there was one, but search is disabled and I even looked through the pages and couldn't find it. Could someone please post the thread or give advice. edit Sorry, I guess I should explain a little at least. My girlfriend has trouble getting me to blow and it is starting to frustrate us both. She wants to finish and I do, too. Just any tips on the matter would be very helpful. __________________ "To alcohol! The cause of, and solution to, all of life's problems." Last edited by legolas; 12-10-2003 at 02:27 PM..

12-10-2003, 02:30 PM	#2 (permalink)
Woody182 Crazy Location: Near Chicago, IL	Relax, don't worry about it, and just let things happen. When you think about it too much it leads to problems. Also, communicate let her know what feels good. I'm sure it will be fine, be happy you both have the patience to want to satisfy each other. __________________ If I fall in love, will you forgive me? If I lose my way, will you choose me? If I change my mind, will you change me? -Smashing Pumpkins

12-11-2003, 05:15 AM	#10 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	I believe that Nikki started a thread about this awhile back, but with the search options disabled it'll be hard to find __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

12-11-2003, 05:36 AM	#12 (permalink)
Loup Pup no More Location: Voted the Best	Ok, here's Nikki's famous The Ultimate Blow Job Guide (Although search is out - there are other ways to find the information) __________________ "If you cannot lift the load off another's back, do not walk away. Try to lighten it." ~ Frank Tyger

12-11-2003, 08:03 AM	#13 (permalink)
legolas shit faced cockmaster Location: CT	Thanks for the link. I knew it was around somewhere. __________________ "To alcohol! The cause of, and solution to, all of life's problems."

12-10-2003, 03:00 PM	#3 (permalink)
blade02 Insane	squeeze and relax your PC muscles....sometimes if we dont have much time left...i just start to squeeze and relax the muscles down there, and it usually speeds things up.

12-10-2003, 04:21 PM	#4 (permalink)
numist Banned Location: UCSD, 510.49 miles from my love	men are a lot harder to please orally than women, on average. I can barely really enjoy recieving oral, even though its great, sometimes it just doesnt work. A great way to finish off, and have a great session is just to take an hour or few (yes, he said few) and explore what you like and what doesnt work. Work it up slow, and once you find a few things that work (yes, dont stop after youve found one) then work on 'em. Everyone seems to have different preferences as to what they like positionwise, so you'll really need to work it out with your partner together sometime. Take some time. Took my lady and I 6 months after we started having sex to get it so we knew -exactly- what the other wanted and how. Of course, now, its to the point where she can hit O without even taking her clothes off or putting anything inside... oh what a wonderful achievement

12-10-2003, 04:50 PM	#5 (permalink)
:::OshnSoul::: Guest	what kind of tips would you give the woman? I always seem to get an aching jaw afterwards, and I can't finish....it's hard for me to last a long time without getting unconfortable, but I want to please him...........

12-10-2003, 04:54 PM	#6 (permalink)
soopadoopa Crazy	Ok this will sound crazy, but if instead of sliding it in and out she GENTLY bites down it and back up, I get really close very fast. Try it.

12-10-2003, 11:51 PM	#7 (permalink)
passthru Addict Location: Portland, OR	You should elaborate on that a bit.. Bites down it and up, do you mean like a soft chomp chomp (I dunno about that but it's what it sounds like :\) or put her teeth behind the head and going over the back ridge.. Or something else?

12-11-2003, 12:02 AM	#8 (permalink)
numist Banned Location: UCSD, 510.49 miles from my love	er.. any teeth I find to be very painful... like has been mentioned before, its trial and error - try different things, use your hands while you use your mouth, try applying pressure with your tongue, press the head into the roof of your mouth as you pump to rub it, theres all sorts of different things you can try.. just watch his reaction. Take the time, dont get too vigorous until youve found something that works, so you wont be too tired out to finish off.

12-11-2003, 02:26 AM	#9 (permalink)
h45e Tilted	Some porn is good as a "guide" to oral sex... my gf still uses her teeth ouch but trying to teach her... but she does great DT ;o)