who1022

i usually cum too quickly (5 min) maybe? how do you last longer?

Zorvox

Sometimes I would last like 30 seconds, which was quite bloody annoying... just think of other shit, if your really into bringing your girl some pleasure, just don't look at her and go for it, go at a speed that you are comfortable with.. and just slowly increase..

It's hard to describe really, think of other things... a thing that I did with my ex was on the couch, I dunno why but it helped some how lol, she'd just lay down i'd get inbetween her legs and woot off we go, I also found that leaning on my right arm and grabbing the back of her head with my left arm helped too some how, I just didn't look at her face, I just looked up and picked a spot on the wall

juanvaldes

First off. Just. Dont. Think. About. It.

Dont.

Go down on her, make sure she's happy and it will not matter how long you last. Just as long as you both have fun.

Eventually you will learn how to get her off real well and how to control yourself in the process.

Practice makes perfect

Pellaz

Kiegles(sp) are your friend. Some also find it benificial to masterbate before the act. Thinking of other things can work, but really, it takes a bit of fun out of sex. If your using a condom (lecture) which, with a few notable exceptions, you should be (/lecture) You can use either thicker condoms, or ones with a numbing "prolong" cream also.

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Zorvox

When your about to blow, take it out for a bit.. kiss her etc, get a lil more kissing into the act blah blah, then put it back in ... you'll last longer, and you'll get a suprise too

ziadel

you could ask her to gently pull on your balls a little, I've um, heard, that works.....

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Charlatan

I just blow my load and then go for round two... and while "getting ready" for round two use the time to pleasure you partner.

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visotech

Ive had sex a total of 16 times (yes i count) with my girl friend, and i still havent been able to blow my load, well i havent even been able to blow my load in front of her at all not even during bjs or handjobs. We usualy keep going until either of us is wayy too tired...lol...at times we just both give up. Im hoping im able to let go soon lol.

Zorvox

Try beating off to some porn, get almost there, then run into the bedroom and give it to your lady then see if it works

My mate had the same problem lol..

vveronica

MORE FOREPLAY.. heheheheh there is always a reason for more foreplay.. If its reall bad baby masturbate before you two hook up it will relieve the pressure heheheh

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Iliftrocks

I had a chick in college that would tease me mercilessly, during oral. After a while of that, I could last for hours, sometimes. Practice, practice, practice...

Now I lick em stick em and try not to worry about how long..... gettin old

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iamjero

try to concentrate on breathing. it sometimes works for me, but everytime is different.

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Arrion

if you want something easy, get your mind off it, I usually just think about sports or a video game, as long as you don't lose your wood

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Nikilidstrom

Relax, dont do it, when ya wanna sock it too it.
Relax, dont do it, when ya wanna come.

Seriously though, I always masturbate if I know I'm going to see my baby that day. After I get the first one outta the way, the second (hopefully during sex if Ive been good)usually takes 20-30 minutes because I'm hard as Chinese Algebra. If we get an unexpected chance to get with the lovin, I just make sure I'm at the top of my oral game that night, and everything else just works itself out.

I think to many people fall for the Skinemax porn image of the guy lasting for 2-3 hours at a time while humping at Flash-like speeds. I've got one word for those people: editing. Besides, the one time I lasted over an hour, my gf hated me for it because she was so raw.

zildjian

I certainly would agree with Nikilidstrom's view of porn. Don't let it fool you.

Best of luck friend.

Xirax

Have sex a lot in one day. Towards the end, you'll be lasting too long...

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moonstrucksoul

ahhhh, now that's passion, lol.
i usually get close then bust off a liitle pressure then go back at it.

Amarth

Have sex with another girl and then let the guilt take care of it.

dieter

Positioning. Seriously. If you experiment a little, you should be able to find a position or two where she's really enjoying it, but you just don't feel much sensation. When you're getting too close, switch to that position (or movement, etc) until the urge passes.

Note, it might not help a lot if she's a multiple orgasmer, as the feel of her cumming can send ya over.

Note2: I've found that if you try all the way in, and don't move in and out so much as grind your hips (slowly) in circles around on hers, the chicks love it and it just doesn't have that much sensation on the penis.

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Deathstalker

Quote my friend:
"Use more than one condom".

I'm not sure if this works too well, but I guess it worked well for him. Try putting on one or two more condoms on top of the original one. I haven't tried it yet, but I think it would take out too much fun out of it.

If you use condoms, that is.

Zorvox

Condoms do break, well for me anyway..

Pill + Glove or no love.

starbum

Baseball. Think of baseball.

..or at least thats the stereotypical approach...

If you cant last longer, make her cum as fast as you do. Once I felt I was going to explode rather easily, so I reached down and fingered/rubbed her while I was doing it with her, and we climaxed within a couple seconds of each other. Concider that an alternative

macro

So many suggestions here of lots of foreplay? Yes she will be happy but surely you find if it's good foreplay then it can have the complete opposite effect? The effect about as far away as possible as that of taking your mind off it!

wubbawubba

I can usually last for however long I want...

Maybe it's because when I masterbate I usually do it for a long time, and I will come two or three times in a sitting. It could be like training for sex. But I don't know if that will actually help you out or not. But it couldn't hurt nothin.

bukaki22

i uesd a "tuxedo" its thick black latex and i could not blow a load for the life of me

kingal

One of the best ways to last long is to not be so damn excited you're gettin' some. Kick back, take it easy, relax and just enjoy. Part of this means taking your time, part of it is breathing deeply, part of it is position, part of it is pace and distraction (like stopping and kissing for a few), moving around, etc.

Lately, I've been so in that mode, lasting 1-1.5 hours hasn't been a problem. Then she gets concerned that I can't get off...nothing to be concerned about...I'm loving every second of it. Its not about blowing the load, its about being with someone. Once you get in that space, controlling orgasm is much easier for us guys.

RemyLebeau97

I can usually last for about 4-6 hours, I haven't figured out the secret yet but I hope I can still do it when Im 60.

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rsl12

my gf orgasms in about 30 seconds. it takes me much much longer--when trying to go fast, i can do it in 30 minutes or so. i blame it on masturbating waay too often!

we compromise just fine...i go down on her and take my sweet little time and prolong getting her off until she's pushing my face into her and bucking like crazy. even then i try to slow it down

then we have sex and we go until i finish (rare) or she gets tired (common). then i thank her and either go to sleep or finish off myself personally.

probably none of this information helps you though

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Boo

Last longer by:

More lube, less friction.

Swapping positions when the nuts begin to gurgle.

Music.

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classique75

DO NOT use more than one condom. Multiple condoms increase the chances of the condom breaking. That's bad.

tritium

I find that if I totally relax everything from head to toe that I last longer.

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Vaultboy

To last longer:

1. change position often.
2. Breathe easy.
3. Dont squeeze with your ass when you thrust forward. use your hips instead. and relax.

If this doesnt help, then jack off more often. its not a good thing to do, since you effectively teach your body to only respond to that type of simulus, but it'll improve your sustain.

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The.Lunatic

that jacking off thing is bullshit. I whack it constanly, and i don't think i've ever not been turned on by a girl or the thought of sex.

However changin position is good. when i come close and she hasn't yet. I make her go ontop i can't do it when girls are on top. Yet! i imagine there are more experienced girls who really know what their doing, but i've been with a virgin and girls at parties so....

Also sometimes it just takes a while, so what if you blow your load first just go down on her.

Not to brag, but for some reason every girl i've been with has either came first, then sometimes again, and once four times before me. Or we come at the same time. Which is so great because when your done your both done.

if thats what your looking for i recommend this

www.ogoplex.com makes your orgasm last a lot longer which usally triggers her. Expensive though but oh so awesome

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kwoodmex

I totally agree with these two things. If I get to the point where I'm just way to excited to quick, then I just think of Ed Asner in a man bikini, if that won't slow you down, I don't know what will.

ducatiboy

If i'm going out on a date, or a woman is coming to visit, I always jack off before, or have sex before I go out. Never go out with a loaded gun! Your other brain will get you in trouble.

frozenstellar

concentrate on her breathing - because its all over the place, its distracting in a sense, and for some odd reason its worked the last few times in stamina.

either that, or as your getting close - swap positions. i still cant come when she's on top, and she loves it

gr8-4pla

same for me, it takes me much longer to cum when she's on top...but if you cum too fast, just spend more time going down on her, trust me she won't mind

Ilow

Ron Jeremy always reccommended changing the pace, fast slow medium, deep, shallow whatever. Also relax and don't think about it. The masturbating is really best for learning your "point of no return" and not for a physical practice benefit or something.

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tritium

Full 100% head to toe relaxation ... that's the only way I've found. Feel the feeling and focus on your breathing -- do nothing else. Clear your mind.

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Mupwah

Practice practice practice. When you get used to it you will start lasting longer.

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