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insidious_machinae · 01-27-2004, 10:51 AM

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PaulDenton · 01-03-2005, 09:45 PM

Men's Health magazine recently ran a story on premature ejaculation that I found quite interesting. Too interesting, really - it far too close to home for my tastes.

Here's the article:
http://www.menshealth.com/cda/articl...0-2023,00.html

Quite a bit of Halx' paper's topics also appeared in the article, so those familiar with this thread won't see much that is new and earth-shattering. The author did mention a book I plan to investigate; perhaps others will find it interesting, too: "How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation" by Helen Singer Kaplan, M.D., Ph.D. (ISBN: 0876305427)

Barnes & Noble has this and a number of other PE-related books, as well.

Off to do some homework...

HockeyGuy · 01-04-2005, 06:28 AM

Excellent post HAlx, very informative! tx, and hope the grade is good!

Ramallah · 01-04-2005, 09:34 AM

Don't think you think that wearing two condoms would remove all the fun from sex, just as thinking about something else would?

Vincentt · 01-04-2005, 01:23 PM

"Three more methods of preventing premature ejaculation should be taken at face-value "

I found that very amusing, even if it wasn't ment to be.

cavu · 01-04-2005, 04:42 PM

yeah wearing two condoms.... very bad idea! Good besides that.

doncalypso · 01-04-2005, 06:45 PM

I've been doing my Kegel exercises to strengthen my PC muscle more or less regularly, but it hasn't translated into much of an improvement in my sexual performance. However, when I started to workout on a regular basis I did gain a bit more control over my ejaculatory response.

DewMan · 01-05-2005, 10:08 AM

I have an interesting method.

Usually, when it happens to me, it's just because it's been a while and I'm so amped up, there's nothing that can stop it.

So, when faced with lemons, make lemonade I say.

The upside to this is that I'm usually so wired I can go 2-3 times, each time taking quite a bit longer than the last.

My personal record, when I was much younger, was a porn enhanced 6 times in a span of about 6 hours. My GF of the time (now my wife) fell asleep after my third trip to O-town. I wasn't tired and had a few more movies to watch.

Bauer_Power · 01-07-2005, 03:07 AM

Believe me when I tell you that masturbating at least twice that day before you have sex, coupled with a 12 pack of Miller High Life will take care of any and all premature ejaculation problems you may experience.

ironmaiden7o7 · 02-13-2005, 08:51 PM

Hmm, you have no idea how much I just learned, great read. :-p

tman17m · 03-05-2005, 01:10 PM

okay...so ive read through this thread and im in serious need of help...ive tried a few of these methods but nothing is working it all....i bought desentizing condoms and tried them once. i didnt get off too soon, instead i got limp....so...i tried two condoms, that didnt work either. i masturbate a lot so i dont know if thats helping or hurting. this is a very frustrating problem for myself and my s/o becuase i cant get her off and she get mad and then i get upset becuase i feel like a failure.

doncalypso · 03-05-2005, 08:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tman17m

okay...so ive read through this thread and im in serious need of help...ive tried a few of these methods but nothing is working it all....i bought desentizing condoms and tried them once. i didnt get off too soon, instead i got limp....so...i tried two condoms, that didnt work either. i masturbate a lot so i dont know if thats helping or hurting. this is a very frustrating problem for myself and my s/o becuase i cant get her off and she get mad and then i get upset becuase i feel like a failure.

If you go to the gym and start doing regular cardiovascular workouts you will find that the level and quality of your ejaculatory and erectile control will improve. Also, you will have more stamina to recuperate and go for round #2.

Roark · 03-06-2005, 05:04 AM

Thank Hal very informative! I found for me the only time it ever happens is if she's on top (can only last usually 3-5 minutes if it's the first time for the evening, after that it's not a problem) other positions I can go forever.

Thank God for this forum and kagel exercises

tman17m · 03-07-2005, 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by doncalypso

If you go to the gym and start doing regular cardiovascular workouts you will find that the level and quality of your ejaculatory and erectile control will improve. Also, you will have more stamina to recuperate and go for round #2.

hmmm its unfortunate you say that because i run 10-15 miles a week spread out over 4 days and i lift weights the other 3...

03-10-2005, 05:15 AM

i don't think it should even be that big a deal. you can orgasm more than once, and i don't think penetration is always so important to females anyways; it's not even the vaginal passage that is thier most sensitive sexual part, i think it's just a luxury to have the standard type of sex. i think a series of sexual things and different methods would pay off more for both partners anyways. if you know how to be romantic and feel open during sex i don't really think it matters how long you can last.

zinter · 07-03-2005, 09:34 AM

Premature ejaculation is defined as persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, upon, or shortly after penetration. Retarded ejaculation is the oposite fenomenon, man ejaculates after a long time.

There are some hopes for PE. Studies show that Levitra may help sufferers. In 2006 FDA will approve the first drug aiming to treat PE, Dapoxetine with good results.

Retarded ejaculation is still a new frontier to break, until now no certain hopes.

HoneyPot · 09-20-2005, 12:15 PM

Hey Hal, great paper. Very informative. Structure was awesome, as well as the information. I really liked how you put some humor in there also. I knew about the PC thing, but didn't about Prozac. Very interesting. Let me know what kind of grade you get!

diggerg56 · 09-21-2005, 04:59 PM

I was on a fairly stout does of Prozac for what turned out to be a mis-diagnosed psychological condition. The delaying effects were very noticable, however there were times I simply couldn't have an orgasm. While that may sound somewhat appealing it did turn out to be somewhat painful and frustrating.

If you're considering using Prozac or another SSRI type drug use caution. Too much of a good thing isn't necessarily a good thing, if you understand what I'm saying.

air45 · 09-23-2005, 01:44 PM

i cum three time just looking at you post!!!

(ok, i am only joke.)

gilbert- · 09-28-2005, 03:52 AM

Top read Hal, cheers for the info.
Might I add that it was very well written, which makes reading it far easier

SpikeQX99 · 09-29-2005, 09:39 PM

I wish I could spill my milk, I want to spill the milk, I must spill the milk..

Just a note: It's frustrating the other way around too. To not be able to have an orgasm with a partner.

shine_t · 02-05-2007, 11:28 PM

great post but tell me...
two condoms sounds tight and painful

Mike_Anderson · 03-08-2007, 01:06 PM

An interesting read. I have differing thoughts regarding the affirmations, "I don't want to spill my milk." When you say this your subconscious mind picks up, "...spill my milk!" That is very disempowering. Use positive, powerful words like, "I am an amazing love and I control my ejaculation easily and effortlessly!"

This WILL produce a huge difference.

If you want to find out how I cured my Premature Ejaculation problem go to www.premature-ejaculation-solution.com

Enjoy and I hope you found this useful.

macmara · 06-15-2007, 11:44 AM

Next link- premature ejaculation: http://www.help4men.com

SSJTWIZTA · 01-27-2008, 09:59 PM

Big, big help, Halx. i love that magnificent brain of yours.

I've been doing PC exercises for a while now, but just the other day i read that they were actually bad for a PE problem. I would like some clarification on this from someone.

I think ill take dons advice with the cardio thing. i do push up, stretch out, and lift weights. But as far as cardio goes, nothing. actually i just pretty much sit around all day and smoke when im not working. so i definitely need to work on this.

maybe my problem is psychological. maybe i just need more confidence. i dont know.

biznatch · 02-12-2009, 08:42 AM

Was about to say something about the two condoms, because recommending that in a medical-ish paper can't be good. I mean, it'd be fine with a couple who's ready or doesn't care if they have children, or women on BC. But still, a warning parentheses wouldn't hurt.

Other than that, a good read. I liked the funny bits; sex can often turn into something funny.
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Quote:

Originally Posted by nuggyboy

Hello everyone,

Just a quick post to say that many of the problems mentioned above can be approached from a different point of view which is better illustrated at the following blog.

This blog seems to focus more on the Premature Ejaculation that occurs as a result of psychological conditioning and performance anxiety, as well as other mental conditions as opposed to physical conditions.

Take a look at this blog at least for the free techniques that it offers, as well as the free ebooks given away on some of the posts. There are 3 paid products which are advertised at the top of the blog, but the free techniques and free ebooks can be found in the posts following these first few advertisement posts.

It is worth taking a look at, it helped me as a PE sufferer to understand that my problem was created by a psychological self conditioning that I was able to manipulate once I could recognize it. Powerful stuff and very easy to understand, this blog is a worthwhile resource for anyone suffering PE!

Don't advertise for your blog here, please. It's like people coming to your house and trying to sell you crap, it's annoying.

Iliftrocks · 02-12-2009, 12:04 PM

Yeah, I was on Paxil for a short time. I would last pretty long, but the truth was I didn't care one way or the other.....

Plan9 · 02-12-2009, 03:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Iliftrocks

I would last pretty long, but the truth was I didn't care one way or the other.....

Hah, you mean like a college girl?

ASU2003 · 02-12-2009, 04:29 PM

If I were on a SSRI and took Viagra, I could go all night. Actually, I would get exhausted before my penis would be done.

01-27-2004, 10:51 AM	#41 (permalink)
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01-04-2005, 06:45 PM	#47 (permalink)
doncalypso TFP Mad Scientist Location: Philadelphia, PA	I've been doing my Kegel exercises to strengthen my PC muscle more or less regularly, but it hasn't translated into much of an improvement in my sexual performance. However, when I started to workout on a regular basis I did gain a bit more control over my ejaculatory response. __________________ Doncalypso... the one and only Haitian Sensation

03-06-2005, 05:04 AM	#53 (permalink)
Roark Insane	Thank Hal very informative! I found for me the only time it ever happens is if she's on top (can only last usually 3-5 minutes if it's the first time for the evening, after that it's not a problem) other positions I can go forever. Thank God for this forum and kagel exercises Last edited by Roark; 03-06-2005 at 05:10 AM..

09-20-2005, 12:15 PM	#57 (permalink)
HoneyPot Crazy Location: Nunya	Hey Hal, great paper. Very informative. Structure was awesome, as well as the information. I really liked how you put some humor in there also. I knew about the PC thing, but didn't about Prozac. Very interesting. Let me know what kind of grade you get! __________________ Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder.

09-21-2005, 04:59 PM	#58 (permalink)
diggerg56 Upright Location: North of Mexico, South of Canada	I was on a fairly stout does of Prozac for what turned out to be a mis-diagnosed psychological condition. The delaying effects were very noticable, however there were times I simply couldn't have an orgasm. While that may sound somewhat appealing it did turn out to be somewhat painful and frustrating. If you're considering using Prozac or another SSRI type drug use caution. Too much of a good thing isn't necessarily a good thing, if you understand what I'm saying. __________________ "Heavily Medicated For Your Safety"

01-03-2005, 09:45 PM	#42 (permalink)
PaulDenton Upright Location: Dallas	Men's Health magazine recently ran a story on premature ejaculation that I found quite interesting. Too interesting, really - it far too close to home for my tastes. Here's the article: http://www.menshealth.com/cda/articl...0-2023,00.html Quite a bit of Halx' paper's topics also appeared in the article, so those familiar with this thread won't see much that is new and earth-shattering. The author did mention a book I plan to investigate; perhaps others will find it interesting, too: "How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation" by Helen Singer Kaplan, M.D., Ph.D. (ISBN: 0876305427) Barnes & Noble has this and a number of other PE-related books, as well. Off to do some homework...

01-04-2005, 06:28 AM	#43 (permalink)
HockeyGuy Psycho Location: London, England	Excellent post HAlx, very informative! tx, and hope the grade is good!

01-04-2005, 09:34 AM	#44 (permalink)
Ramallah Tilted Location: Louisiana	Don't think you think that wearing two condoms would remove all the fun from sex, just as thinking about something else would?

01-04-2005, 01:23 PM	#45 (permalink)
Vincentt Addict Location: Tokyo, Japan	"Three more methods of preventing premature ejaculation should be taken at face-value " I found that very amusing, even if it wasn't ment to be.

01-04-2005, 04:42 PM	#46 (permalink)
cavu Upright	yeah wearing two condoms.... very bad idea! Good besides that.

01-05-2005, 10:08 AM	#48 (permalink)
DewMan Upright Location: Salt Lake City	I have an interesting method. Usually, when it happens to me, it's just because it's been a while and I'm so amped up, there's nothing that can stop it. So, when faced with lemons, make lemonade I say. The upside to this is that I'm usually so wired I can go 2-3 times, each time taking quite a bit longer than the last. My personal record, when I was much younger, was a porn enhanced 6 times in a span of about 6 hours. My GF of the time (now my wife) fell asleep after my third trip to O-town. I wasn't tired and had a few more movies to watch.

01-07-2005, 03:07 AM	#49 (permalink)
Bauer_Power Tilted Location: Nebraska	Believe me when I tell you that masturbating at least twice that day before you have sex, coupled with a 12 pack of Miller High Life will take care of any and all premature ejaculation problems you may experience.

02-13-2005, 08:51 PM	#50 (permalink)
ironmaiden7o7 Insane Location: NYC	Hmm, you have no idea how much I just learned, great read. :-p

03-05-2005, 01:10 PM	#51 (permalink)
tman17m Psycho Location: my cubicle	okay...so ive read through this thread and im in serious need of help...ive tried a few of these methods but nothing is working it all....i bought desentizing condoms and tried them once. i didnt get off too soon, instead i got limp....so...i tried two condoms, that didnt work either. i masturbate a lot so i dont know if thats helping or hurting. this is a very frustrating problem for myself and my s/o becuase i cant get her off and she get mad and then i get upset becuase i feel like a failure.

03-10-2005, 05:15 AM	#55 (permalink)
kitsune Guest	i don't think it should even be that big a deal. you can orgasm more than once, and i don't think penetration is always so important to females anyways; it's not even the vaginal passage that is thier most sensitive sexual part, i think it's just a luxury to have the standard type of sex. i think a series of sexual things and different methods would pay off more for both partners anyways. if you know how to be romantic and feel open during sex i don't really think it matters how long you can last.

07-03-2005, 09:34 AM	#56 (permalink)
zinter Upright Location: Danmark	Premature ejaculation is defined as persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, upon, or shortly after penetration. Retarded ejaculation is the oposite fenomenon, man ejaculates after a long time. There are some hopes for PE. Studies show that Levitra may help sufferers. In 2006 FDA will approve the first drug aiming to treat PE, Dapoxetine with good results. Retarded ejaculation is still a new frontier to break, until now no certain hopes.

09-23-2005, 01:44 PM	#59 (permalink)
air45 Loser Location: Midwest	i cum three time just looking at you post!!! (ok, i am only joke.)

09-28-2005, 03:52 AM	#60 (permalink)
gilbert- Tilted	Top read Hal, cheers for the info. Might I add that it was very well written, which makes reading it far easier

09-29-2005, 09:39 PM	#61 (permalink)
SpikeQX99 The Best thing that never happened to you Location: Silverdale, WA	I wish I could spill my milk, I want to spill the milk, I must spill the milk.. Just a note: It's frustrating the other way around too. To not be able to have an orgasm with a partner. __________________ I'm so in love with a girl... she is my everything

02-05-2007, 11:28 PM	#62 (permalink)
shine_t Upright	great post but tell me... two condoms sounds tight and painful

03-08-2007, 01:06 PM	#63 (permalink)
Mike_Anderson Upright	An interesting read. I have differing thoughts regarding the affirmations, "I don't want to spill my milk." When you say this your subconscious mind picks up, "...spill my milk!" That is very disempowering. Use positive, powerful words like, "I am an amazing love and I control my ejaculation easily and effortlessly!" This WILL produce a huge difference. If you want to find out how I cured my Premature Ejaculation problem go to www.premature-ejaculation-solution.com Enjoy and I hope you found this useful.

06-15-2007, 11:44 AM	#64 (permalink)
macmara Upright	Next link- premature ejaculation: http://www.help4men.com

01-27-2008, 09:59 PM	#65 (permalink)
SSJTWIZTA Master Thief. Master Criminal. Masturbator. Location: Windiwana	Big, big help, Halx. i love that magnificent brain of yours. I've been doing PC exercises for a while now, but just the other day i read that they were actually bad for a PE problem. I would like some clarification on this from someone. I think ill take dons advice with the cardio thing. i do push up, stretch out, and lift weights. But as far as cardio goes, nothing. actually i just pretty much sit around all day and smoke when im not working. so i definitely need to work on this. maybe my problem is psychological. maybe i just need more confidence. i dont know. __________________ First they came for the Jews and I did not speak out because I was not a Jew. Then they came for the communists and I did not speak out because I was not a communist. Then they came for the trade unionists and I did not speak out because I was not a trade unionist Then they came for me And there was no one left to speak out for me. -Pastor Martin Niemoller

02-12-2009, 12:04 PM	#67 (permalink)
Iliftrocks Junkie Location: Near Raleigh, NC	Yeah, I was on Paxil for a short time. I would last pretty long, but the truth was I didn't care one way or the other..... __________________ bill hicks - "I don't mean to sound bitter, cold, or cruel, but I am, so that's how it comes out."

02-12-2009, 04:29 PM	#69 (permalink)
ASU2003 immoral minority Location: Back in Ohio	If I were on a SSRI and took Viagra, I could go all night. Actually, I would get exhausted before my penis would be done.