Wingless

I had sex with my girlfriend earlier today and it took me an hour and a half to get off... A good and bad thing, since I was getting tired, but she was still enjoying the act. Before I've taken as little time as 20 minutes and as much as 45 minutes. And now I've doubled my time...

Anyways, I guess I'm just trying to find the "average" time, and how long it takes a guy, on the average, to get off.

monstermash

i've had quickies that lasted a few minutes and sessions that lasted around an hour.

OFKU0

Depends on the woman. Depends on my mood.

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rogue49

As long as I want.
I can get off many times, or last forever.

To be honest, there have been a few times where I've gotten off several times beforehand,
and it turns out I can't cum with penetration...and she's tired or dry,
but then she just assists me while I get myself off.

And there was one time where I masturbated so much ahead of time,
that when it happened for real...it just wouldn't keep hard.

It really doesn't matter, as long as you are willing to continue the act,
and make sure she is pleasured,
don't be selfish about it.

jarsh

absolutely, i'm in the same boat as rouge here. some call it anorgasmia, i call it a blessing. i can have as much sex/love as i want without ending it too soon. however, i would like to maybe one day get off from JUST penetration.

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Dilbert1234567

all depends, some times not that long, and others i can go for 2 hours

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slimshaydee

when im masturbating I can get off in as little as 3 minutes, if i try. For some reason it takes me alot longer to get off with sex, and I need a bit of priming beforehand aswell. I usually can last for about 15-60 minutes depending on mood. Thing I dont like is it hurts after about 30-40 minutes so I have to stop and finish myself sometimes.

mistered

Been anywhere from a couple of minutes to an hour. It all depends on how she feels and what else is happening around us.

Arrion

After 15 minutes, it feels like a chore

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rogue49

Don't get me wrong...I am able to get off with penetration,
and usually whenever I want...I like to try to time it with her orgasm.
And as many times as I want.

It's just that there have been a few times over the years that this is happened.
And usually it's AFTER I've cum a few times with her.
Sometimes it's because of over-masturbastion (maybe about 10 times beforehand)

If you cannot come ever with penetration,
then you might want to consider holding off masturbastion for a bit.
Let the build-up increase and sensation become more sensitive.
Sometimes the pressure of your hand are more significant that the woman can attain,
your penis becomes a bit desensitized.

But it's your choice how you get your pleasure...
but if you DO want to cum from penetration then try not to pleasure yourself too much,
especially right before the act.

BTW...this advice is not for everyone, everyone is different.

orangeaidcow

i'm just a long guy i had one go for 20 and that was my shortest. usually around an hour or until i just get so wore out, last time i had sex about 45 minutes in i realized i was out of shape.

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Dano069

Since I've been taking Zoloft, it takes me longer to get off. In fact, most of the time I don't get off at all. Our sessions average 45 minutes. I guess the meds take the edge off, although, if I get the right fantasy going, I have no problem getting off. Thank you Zoloft, you've made me a sexual dynamo!

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oscar0308

depended on the woman too. one g/f i had i could have lasted literally days.. it just wasnt doing it for me. my ex-wife ended up being kinda the same way... kinda made me want to smack myself and say 'duh! what was i thinking.' it was a sign of the overall health of our marriage. my wife now.. ugh.. there are times i cant control myself at all.. and there are times that i can me fine until she does something.. just a subtle movement and then <BANG> i have no control. so, bottom line is.. i last as long as the wife wants.

erion

It all depends on the overall level of arousal (and not just mine). There have been times where we were having "conversational sex" where the session lasted a couple of hours but it wasn't intense activity.

There are also times where we're so horny that we both come in 5 or 10 minutes and are soon ready for a second round.

Variety is the spice of life!

taliendo

I agree totally. It all depends on the night, and the mood, and the person. If I want to get off quickly I can. If I we want it to last, then I can hold out. Take a break, and continue on.

I think its important that there are no definitions on sex. Its better when every time is a new adventure.

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sailor

Quit bragging.

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theinfamous

15 mins for me....i'm really sensitive to penetration but anything else doesn't do it for me

World's King

Way too long.

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Stargazer01

Between 10mins (self stimulation) and roughly 45-60minutes with a partner

omega2K4

Anywhere between 1 and a half hours to 2 hours. If I were to finish too quick, I'd go down on her until I was hard again and go at it s'more.

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Wingless

Haha, sorry dude... If it's any consolation, it was the first time in a month... Maybe that's why it took me an hour and a half

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teshadoh

Sometimes I can go as far as 5 minutes!

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Apologies to the thread starter, but I have to remove my comment, as it was posted by someone else under my name.

Evil Milkman

This one time I held it purposely for more than two hours before I exploded. Man, was I in pain after that... But it was well worth the effort!

uv7piy

Depend on how long until SportCenter comes on.

Zorvox

It's taken me less than 30 seconds before, but It depends where we are, I found that on the couch i could last like 10-15 minutes in bed like 6 minutes, I get way too excited.. I use to prefer not to look at my ex's face because it was just so beautiful heh made it sort of hard to control yourself

But bleh

jefferson6599

Some of you lasting 2 hours?, I want to know if the girl is still enjoying that. If I focus I can be a marathon man, but most of the women I have been with stated to get uncomfortable after a while. I found with proper foreplay, 20 minutes or so of penetration is usually enough to get her off, and then I usually let go myself.

hellasnow

probably a good half hour, but if i try and make it last i can go a solid hour.

but i aswell like to try and wait or hurry to cum when the wife cums.......sooooooooooooo much better that way

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tikki

totally a mood and mindset thing.

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ariekitten

i can't seem to get off during sex. it tends to discourage guys. i take awhile when it comes to masturbating. used to, it took no time at all, but the last couple years or so it seems like it gradually takes longer and longer for me to get off. sex is enjoyable for me, but i just wish i could get off.

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Tophat665

Usually, by the time foreplay is done, it takes me less than a minute or two. Fortunately, she's still happy with it. I just go lick my eyebrows clean afterwards .

That's sober. Stoned, as little as 5 minutes, as much as 4 hours, and multiple orgasms are occasianlly possible.

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visotech

It usualy has never happend, we just keep going at it till we get wayy to tired to do any more. Usualy she comes, but usualy i dont. Until this week we did it in the car 2 times and both times i was a quickie!! wtf, im scared, have a lost my touch? or was it just the car..lol...today ill find out eek wish me luck

Chord

Kinda what I was thinking.

wry1

For me, the single greatest determining factor is how it's effecting the girl I'm with. I've had partners who looked as if they're reading the Yellow Pages, and that'll just take me forever to come; on the other hand, I've also had girls who have gone off like 4th of July fireworks and I've lasted only about a half an hour.

Of course, "Round Two" usually comes into play on those occasions..... Otherwise, I'd say that the average for me is usually a couple of hours.

GNiz

sorry i can't relate to all this - i've a hair trigger despite being fairly experienced... sometimes with heated foreplay, i take less than 2 minutes after penetration!

just count your blessings guys....

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tisonlyi

Anything from 5 minutes to over 4 hours...

Thats not counting the times I give up.

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JohnS72

I think it's all about focus. Good sex I think, is about finding the balance between concentrating your mind on other things, and concentrating it on your sensory pleasures. If I want to last longer, I just think about something else or (As bad as this sounds) start singing a song to myself. I think it should be different for every person though.

tenchi069

Never really timed it, but my SO doesn't like to stop after just once and neither do I. Usually after 3 hours or so we've both came half a dozen times or so and are completely exhausted.

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yankeefatboy

There's been times when "a dip and a quiver" was all I had, and then there were times when it took 15-20 minutes. As long as the gal was taken care of it didn't matter.

bofh86

3 seconds for the first. 10-15 minutes for the second. Longer still for the third.

I use to get uptight about coming too fast on the first go a round but I compensated by puting a new condom on and going again. I can swap out condoms faster than any man alive now.

Before that I use to jerk off while I was eating her out (something I do before the main course). Then I'm on my second and so is she.