It all depends on the local laws, the club's policy, the dancer, and how strictly the policies are enforced.

Not in Toronto boy.

If you don't have her nipples in your mouth and your hands all over her ass by the middle of the first song, you have a dud. Tell her thanks and find another.

Lap dances here are all nude and full contact. The dancers tend to draw the line at you shoving your fingers inside her, but a little light kitty play is not out of the question.

Especially at the Locomotion. There, just about anything goes. I have been offered full service, but declined (believe it or not) because the idea of screwing a dancer in such a public place just doesn't do it for me.

That's not entirely true. Yes, it is full nudity in Toronto but due to Canadian laws, sexual touching by customers is strictly forbidden.

Some girls do break the rules and let you have some breast play, but unless you go to the really skanky places (very dirty), you can't really get more than that--which begs the question, why not just get a ho.

Rule of thumb is to ask what you CAN'T do and let the girl be your guide.