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kmac26 · 11-28-2003, 12:45 PM

there is this girl i have been trying to get for a month but she likes some older guy that has a girlfriend. what should i do to get wit her?

Halx · 11-28-2003, 12:46 PM

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everyone, listen up, this has been said MANY times before
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YOU AINT GETTIN SHIT IF SHE AINT INTO YOU!

thanks for your time.

Sho Nuff · 11-28-2003, 12:49 PM

how much cash you got saved up?

sillygirl · 11-28-2003, 01:08 PM

Look, if she doesn't like, you, leave her alone. There's nothing I find more irritating as a woman than to have some guy that I don't even like trying to get with me.

anti fishstick · 11-28-2003, 01:20 PM

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Originally posted by sillygirl
Look, if she doesn't like, you, leave her alone. There's nothing I find more irritating as a woman than to have some guy that I don't even like trying to get with me.

i concur.
sometimes they just need to get a clue.

Tecelote · 11-28-2003, 01:51 PM

Like Hal said...you ain't gettin' shit unless she's into you.

Gotta get that base covered before anything else can happen.

Falcon Inc · 11-28-2003, 05:22 PM

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Originally posted by kmac26
what should i do to get wit her?

Dear Sir,
I do not blame you for you disillusion. Stupid girly movies involving Hugh Grant and other such ass crack actors rescuing some helpless heroine who is mysteriously good looking and single (read: psycho?) feed your notion.

There is nothing you can do. There is nothing more self abasing than chasing a piece of ass that wants nothing to do with you.

Sapper · 11-28-2003, 05:28 PM

Lol. I love how quickly people give up! Is it really .. and I mean _really_ worth it if you don't have to work for it?

She may not want you _NOW_ .. but you can change that ...

Too often people are so willing to just roll over ... be different - make a difference .. hell, just try !!

... you can do it !!

... all night long ...

good luck !

wry1 · 11-28-2003, 09:16 PM

I'm agreeing with Halx, sillygirl and anti-fishstick: if she's not interested, you're not going anywhere where she's concerned.....

While I'm not as jaded and disillusioned as Falcon Inc, neither am I as optimistic as Sapper. The fact is, it takes two people (at a minimum) to have a relationship; if she's not into you, then you really aren't even someone she's going to pay that kind of attention to.

You need to take a good long look and ask yourself just what it is about this girl that you find so attractive.....then go out and find another one with the same qualities who likes you in that "potential boyfriend" way.

Now get going!

Zorvox · 11-28-2003, 09:42 PM

Just be there as a friend, show that you care and that you can be there for her etc..

Just play it cool, things may happen, things may not..

analog · 11-29-2003, 12:53 AM

You can't have her as a lover, so be her friend for that .001% chance, or be her nothing.

empu · 11-29-2003, 01:00 AM

You need to get older and get a girlfriend. Then she'll dig you.

Sapper · 11-29-2003, 06:40 AM

Lol - playing the jealousy card works less than half the time ... but it ONLY works _if_ she really does have an interest in you.

Raises a moral dilemna .. well, it would for _me_ anyways ..

raeanna74 · 11-29-2003, 01:37 PM

Yes - Be her friend. I was friends with hubby for about 2 years while he was enthralled with other girls. Once he realized those two weren't available anymore he opened his eyes and there I stood. We had the friendship to build on and it helped our relationship along. Don't give up but also DON"T put your life on hold JUST in case.

11-28-2003, 12:45 PM	#1 (permalink)
kmac26 Upright	she likes him? there is this girl i have been trying to get for a month but she likes some older guy that has a girlfriend. what should i do to get wit her?

11-28-2003, 12:46 PM	#2 (permalink)
Halx Please touch this. Owner/Admin Location: Manhattan	.... everyone, listen up, this has been said MANY times before .... YOU AINT GETTIN SHIT IF SHE AINT INTO YOU! thanks for your time. __________________ You have found this post informative. -The Administrator [Don't Feed The Animals]

11-28-2003, 12:49 PM	#3 (permalink)
Sho Nuff Addict Location: Harlem	how much cash you got saved up? __________________ I know Nietzsche doesnt rhyme with peachy, but you sound like a pretentious prick when you correct me.

11-28-2003, 01:08 PM	#4 (permalink)
sillygirl Newlywed Location: at home	Look, if she doesn't like, you, leave her alone. There's nothing I find more irritating as a woman than to have some guy that I don't even like trying to get with me. __________________ Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly-Rose Franken ....absence makes me miss him more...

11-28-2003, 01:51 PM	#6 (permalink)
Tecelote Crazy Location: Tacoma, WA	Like Hal said...you ain't gettin' shit unless she's into you. Gotta get that base covered before anything else can happen. __________________ Tecelote ~ Look at what you have; Look at what you want. Fix what you have in such a way as to get what you want. ~

11-28-2003, 05:28 PM	#8 (permalink)
Sapper Insane Location: The Internet	Lol. I love how quickly people give up! Is it really .. and I mean _really_ worth it if you don't have to work for it? She may not want you _NOW_ .. but you can change that ... Too often people are so willing to just roll over ... be different - make a difference .. hell, just try !! ... you can do it !! ... all night long ... good luck ! __________________ rm -f /bin/laden Last edited by Sapper; 11-28-2003 at 05:31 PM..

11-28-2003, 09:16 PM	#9 (permalink)
wry1 Loser Location: Far too far from my Angel....	I'm agreeing with Halx, sillygirl and anti-fishstick: if she's not interested, you're not going anywhere where she's concerned..... While I'm not as jaded and disillusioned as Falcon Inc, neither am I as optimistic as Sapper. The fact is, it takes two people (at a minimum) to have a relationship; if she's not into you, then you really aren't even someone she's going to pay that kind of attention to. You need to take a good long look and ask yourself just what it is about this girl that you find so attractive.....then go out and find another one with the same qualities who likes you in that "potential boyfriend" way. Now get going!

11-28-2003, 09:42 PM	#10 (permalink)
Zorvox Crazy Location: Sydney, Australia	Just be there as a friend, show that you care and that you can be there for her etc.. Just play it cool, things may happen, things may not..

11-29-2003, 12:53 AM	#11 (permalink)
analog Banned	You can't have her as a lover, so be her friend for that .001% chance, or be her nothing.

11-29-2003, 01:00 AM	#12 (permalink)
empu Crazy	You need to get older and get a girlfriend. Then she'll dig you.

11-29-2003, 06:40 AM	#13 (permalink)
Sapper Insane Location: The Internet	Lol - playing the jealousy card works less than half the time ... but it ONLY works _if_ she really does have an interest in you. Raises a moral dilemna .. well, it would for _me_ anyways .. __________________ rm -f /bin/laden

11-29-2003, 01:37 PM	#14 (permalink)
raeanna74 I'm not a blonde! I'm knot! I'm knot! I'm knot! Location: Upper Michigan	Yes - Be her friend. I was friends with hubby for about 2 years while he was enthralled with other girls. Once he realized those two weren't available anymore he opened his eyes and there I stood. We had the friendship to build on and it helped our relationship along. Don't give up but also DON"T put your life on hold JUST in case. __________________ "Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama My Karma just ran over your Dogma.