amen, brother. amen.

Anywhere on (or in ) my fiance' is fair game until she tells me otherwise.

As many before me (as opposed to behind me) have said, the shower is the best place to start it off. Not only does it get everyone warmed up and ready for the more intimate stuff, it has a way of relaxing people to the point where the slightest touch can set you aflame. Definitely fun stuff, nothing like it in the world. It's something that can be so exhilarating if both parties are on-board.

First time Lebell did this to me, I thought he was crazy, for about 1/2 a second -- then I went crazy! I love giving and receiving. For those of you who said no way, but haven't tried it -- don't knock it until you try it. You never know.

wash before hand

Really interesting comments. I'd love to lick my wife all over (after a shower of course), she's just delicious. It's like she should taste like chocolate or something. BUT she's not really into it. I have to sneak my flicks.

She and I both love it.

We're both pretty adventurous as far as doing things other people might consider "kinky", because we both get kicks out of that sort of thing and find that it makes us feel that much closer to each other. :)

don't think my fiance would want to

Can you say E- Coli. ? Seriously, butt love is the ultimate taboo, and can be extremely pleasurable and exciting, but be very carefull if you decide to indulge. Bad stuff can happen if you aren't.

I don't see myself ever tossing the salad, and I don't like the idea of getting my salad tossed either.

I lick my girl in that area every time we have sex. She has done it to me several times, but not recently as for some reason it makes me feel uncomfortable, not because of cleaness or what not, just because it makes me feel 'less manly' i guess is the only way i can put it. I dunno, either way I dont want her to do it to me anymore.

I agree, you gotta at least try it!
It sounds gross, but it's not as bad as it sounds...and we're talking about a very intense pleasure center here...

i could never give ... and would feel uncomfortbale revieving ... any tounge in a bumbum

i am a stong advocate for licking ass, and i tell everyone i know to try it. the best is doing it to a girl that hasn't had it before, she will love you forever.

I had a lover do it to me years ago. I wasn't expecting it so was startled at first, but it didn't take long to turn me into a convert. :crazy:
Haven't had it happen since though and have been with four men since then. I think they're afraid... :eek:

so i'm dying to try it, never given nor received. I figure the best way would be to try it on my girlfriend first. any tips/suggestions on how to "warm her up" to it?

Amano, give extended sloppy oral to her so _everything_ is nice and super slippery. then start circling her anus with your finger while you are continuing to pleasure her vaginally with your mouth and other hand ( i try to use my left for the backdoor and keep my right hand for the front... you want to have a designated booty finger because those bacteria are wicked if they get into the vaginal tract) if there are no objections as you move closer to the bulls-eye, you can try working your tounge down to the "taint" (the stretch of skin between the anus and the vagina... 'tain't or the other), which itself is very sensitive. then you just do with your tounge what you did with your finger. work from the outside in, gently circling. she'll stop you if it becomes weird for her, but there is plenty of sensation in the suburbs to enjoy if you don't ever make it all the way down town. and as everyone else says, shower or take a bath first. keep it clean.

Yeah I was going to say a surprise attack would work. It feels so good that I don't think she will refuse.

I would be careful too about how much salad you want to toss. I would not recommend too much tongue in the star fish. E-coli bacteria can really do a number on you.

We have both agree to stay on the out side star fish with the tongue. With the fingers, gibingus is right. Use the left for the backdoor, and right for the front door.

I have a friend that is totally into it, swears by it even. The next time the opportunity rises I'm up for it again for sure. There are just so many blood vessles around the ass hole that the sensitivity is over the top, that I know. If you're squemish about it, just try it once, you'll be surprised. It's like the first time you went down on someone...you can't tell me it wasn't awkward that first time.

I'm new to this site, but I have to agree with the others on this board. Give it a try. My wife was a bit squeemish at first, but now she's generally cool with it, depending, I think, on how clean she feels. It's not an every time thing for us, and the more often we have sex then the more often I get to give to her (she rarely gives back to me, butI'm working on her). There are some times whne I'm going down on her and she just won't seem to come until I stick a finger in her back door.

Yup, it is a very pleasurable experience. I dated a girl that really loved licking my bum. We talked about it beforehand and I was a little weary, but now I would want any future partners to want to do it.

Having your partner take a shower beforehand is a must however.

I'm still very confused about it all. Doesn't it _taste_...unpleasant? How do you get over that?

I'm not judging, I'm trying to understand the appeal and how it works.

You know, I'd never stopped to think about it, now that you mention. After a long shower, and plenty of fun there, there really isn't any thought of whether it tastes okay or not, I'm more in tune with her reaction then anything and vice versa.

But, if you are concerned about the taste, grab some whipped cream or some caramel or something. I'd suggest chocolate, but you know ...

Never tasted a thing. Also, if you're worried, work on the vagina for a bit to get things wet. That's all you'll taste from then on. I have no complaints about my girlfriends tastes though ;)

LOL. Took me a moment to get that.

Nice ideas, thank you... Is it really that phenomenal?

if things are clean, it doesnt taste like anything except skin.

I agree with the method of going down on her untill shes nice and wet. By that time, her ass will probably be nice and wet already.

Usually we try not to explore too deep into the star fish with the tongue.

"Not only is it good, but it's good for you!!!"

-some quote by some idiot!