Sex: How many times a week?
 

Ive been married for less than a year, once a week is the norm.

Just curious how much eveyone else is getting down.

Least once a day. Sometimes when theres not much else to do it can be 3 or 4.

Also, im 20, in my prime, and my gf loves it.

I hope it will stay like this, but, i doubt it.

unfortunatley, it wont

The first time I was married I was 26 and working at a store with a lot of retired people doing part time. Several of the old men shared the "bean theory" with me before I was married and it is too true.

Place a bean in a jar every time you have sex with her before you are married. After you marry, take one out every time you have sex with her. You will never empty the jar. :(

once a week if i am lucky but that is cause my girlfriend lives on the other side if the city. Seeing her is not as often as i would like

I'm going to go slice my wrists now. :(

about once every 3 months.. but when I get to see the girl for that week we try to make up for it as best we can :D

She's moving up here soon so the frequency should increase then :cool:

in my first sexual relationship it was prolly 1 or 2 times a week...

in most recent it was prolly like 5-7 times a week....

First Marriage- in the beginning at least once, up to three times daily. Twoards the end, I damn near had to beg!

Second Marriage– maybe not everyday- but 4-8 times a week. Some days none, others lots!

you have to count?
you can remember how many?
Wow never heard of that.... heheheheh yeah that would just not do

Before I got married, it was around 6-7 times a week, sometimes more. By the end, it was 1-2 times a year.

With the new gf, it started with 10-15 times a week. It went down to 3 times a week, and now its around 1 a week.

This sucks.

I think I should get a new gf everytime the frequency drops below once a day ;)

i'd say about 2 or 3 times a week....maybe 4

Lurkette and I have been averaging probably 1.6 a day or so for the last couple weeks. I think we missed one day, maybe like Monday of this week. But apart from that it's been once-to-twice daily for us.

This IS a hot streak, mind you. But I don't see it ending anytime soon...

That bean theory won't work for me. She was a virgin prior to marriage. The first 5 years of marriage it was about 2 or 3 times a week. After 13 years, it is 3-5 times a week.

me and my g/f average about 4 times a week although we both wish there was time for more...

I go in spurts. Might not get it for six months but the next six, I get so much it bores me. Hence the six month thing.

zero

I dunno...Ask Nwlinkvxd [that's his sn here].

It's probably like every two weeks...sometimes every month. It depends. I only get to see him every other weekend, and sometimes we can't do anything. . .

...sniffle.

every other day or so... we're both stressed and busy... we don't as much as he would like, I think, hell, I know ;)

Wow. You guys are all over the place. I think he was looking for results from married couples. Also, it would be interesting to know how old responders are and how long they are married.
1. I am 39 she is 37
2. I have been married for 14 years
3. The first year we were married it probably averaged out to be about once a day, possible more.
4. Now it is probably around 4 to 5 times a week. Sometimes less, sometimes more.
5. We have to small children, both under 7 years old, so you can't use kids as an excuse for not having a good sex life.

In my case we do it several times a week even though we've been together for 1½ and live together.... :D

My sweetie and I have also been living together for 1 & 1/2 years and have sex about 6 times a week. Since I work 4 days a week out of town that 6 times is spread over 3 days. :lol:
I'm 47 and she's 45. We have 2 kids living with us (9 and 13).
Last week it was once friday night, once sat morning, twice sunday morning, once sunday night and once monday morning before I left for Toronto. This week is looking good. Three times since last night! :)

Well, if you exclude the last 3 months, then 3 - 5 times a week. In the last 3 months, she's been "too tired" or what ever her excuse is, then 1/2 per month. Untill Tuesday, then it's been every day this week. I can't figure it out, but oh well, take it as you get it.

P.S. The frequency has actually increased the longer we've been married. 8 years now.

You might want to have that looked at.

Ba-dum-bump. Thank you, thank you. I'm here all week.

Just to address the Beans absurdity: lurkette and I put a LARGE number of beans in the jar. And we've taken them out FAST. I don't know whether we've emptied the jar or not, but it sure seems likely.

We've been married for 8 years, together for 4 before that.

At the moment...not too often, considering my relationship was (is?) on the rocks. And it's a long-distance relationship, blah. But when we did see each other regularly, it was two or three times every time we saw each other, which was usually once a week or once every two weeks. So...yeah. Sadly, this is probably the more active of my two sexual relationships. Which is my own damn fault for not discovering, "Hey, I *do* like sex" until I had already broken up with number one.

BAH,

In January it will be 2 years since me and my wife have had sex... that was the night my son was concieved...

This shit sucks....

My wife didn't have much interest in sex before my son was born but now its nill....

well we did have sex once about 3 months ago but she made me stop before i could climaxe so I don't count that...

blah... now masterbation is even getting boring....

sigh... guess i'll just go watch TV

DB

*cries one tear*

Right now I feel like I'm lucky if I get sex even just once a week. I'm very busy as a full-time graduate student and Teaching Assistant, and my girlfriend is a middle-school science teacher and just finished working on her second master's degree while working full time.

I understand that we've both been very busy this past academic year, but still... I often feel as though sex is something reserved for others but not me because I want it 24/7 and she's just not in the mood most of the time. She says that she feels pressured because she knows I want sex 24/7 and that it makes her feel like she's expected to give it to me all the time and therefore doesn't get the chance to want it enough to jump my bones.

Am I the only guy in here who wants it 24/7 and is feeling super-frustrated?

when i was in a relationship it was like everyday....sometimes twice a day
but when the relationshi got sour and we were on the verve of breakin up it was like twice a month

I'm 23, he's 29, and we've been married 2 years next Sunday. We "get down" once or twice a week. It used to be almost every day, but it's tough with a new baby. My libido is still recovering, but the sex is becoming more and more frequent as the weeks go by. I hope to get back to "normal," or close to it, relatively soon :)

Honestly, he could have sex 2-3 times a day and be happy as a clam. I'm about ready to clone myself just to get him off my back! :lol:

Unwillingly celibate brothers holla. I'm in the same category. I imagine that things will pick up eventually...we'll see.

With my exwife

Year 1, about 10 times a week
Year 2, about 6 times a week
Year 3-6, about 3-4 times a week
Year 7, about once a week
Year 8, about once a month
Year 9, three times.

You need some spice if you are only getting once a week, during your first year.

Almost a ditto here too. I forget the last time I had sex. Married 3 years. Wife is pregnant with #2.

Wow, thats very tough what ysome of you married guys are going through. I cant imagine that for myself. I hope to god when I get married that doesnt happen to me. Right now I'm 24 and my fiance is 22, We probably do it about 3 times a week, It would definitly be more but I go to school full time and work full time, likewise for her; so I dont get to have her over my place that often.... I will strive to make sex as common as breathing air while we are married.

Another super-old post revived?

Well, anyway...oddly enough, my average is still about once every 2 weeks to once a month, like La Petite Moi mentioned, though we live together now.

I'm curious how you have a 0.6 sexual encounter. Must be something new and kinky. ;) lol

We average about 3x a week. When I wasn't working full-time, it was usually 2x a day. Now it's harder because our schedules don't always match up, and we don't always feel like it at the same times. And some weeks are definitely hotter than others, that's for sure!

depends on schedules for the most part. :)

We average once a day. :) On a really busy week... maybe 5 times a week. (and we've been married 4 years...) I think we have sex more now than when we first got married... in my opinion, if you explore and learn new tricks... the sex will just keep getting better and better :D

sweetpea

married 13 years, 36 / 37 and we do it between 4 and 7 times a week. would prolly do it more but kids are nosey and good listeners.... The bean theory won't work here either. We've had occasional dry spells (2 kids will do that) but we do it as often now as when we were dating as time permits.

In previous long term relationships (ie. 1 year or longer) it was like, twice a month maybe (even in the beginning)? Even when I didn't have the parent factor to contend with.

Now it's like 4 times a night, 2 nights a week or whenever we sleepover (though we're only 1 month official, I've known him for 4 years). I've found my spark. :)