abaya

Are there many people who refrain from sex during a woman's period?... we've always been rather enthusiastic about it (with proper precautions... watch the cervix!!)

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Plan9

Surprisingly... a lot of my wussy friends won't do any bloodsport poking.

It might be an old wives' tale or science fact, but I recall reading somewhere many moons ago that regular intercourse during the menstrual cycle helps ease things along, prevents cramps, is-real-good-keep-doing-it, etc.

True or not, it was a good excuse for me to have more hot-hot sex.

Just put the bleedin' towel down and get it on!

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noodle

No, I mean he gets horny as hell. Like some primeval lust to procreate.

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Plan9

Well, I could never tell if they were "fertile" or not. Not an issue for my wang, apparently.

My girlfriend / exwife always smelled like they wanted a hot meat injection 24/7.

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abaya

Right on, man.

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bloody_rose20

Once a WEEK?! I think I would burst if I only got it once a week Me and my man have sex at least once a day or if not then we don't at least 2 days out of the week becuase we are too tired but even then we do oral.

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Jenna

My period never stops us from having sex, or doing anything else sexually for that matter.

bloody_rose20

I would like to say, me and my man never haev sex while I am on my period becuase thats messy and just not good lol. Now oral, that never stops on him haha

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BenChuy

looking at a little less than 1 time a month...

God, this sucks.

RenaissanceII

Would not stop me.....The SO on the other hand.... That of course is the why of communications.

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kramus

I shut down during the monthly flow. That is, Mr. Happy goes limp. Doesn't matter how thoroughly I've been attended to pre-insertion, within a minute of intromission I tend to slip out due to the loss of my erection. The mental aspect of sex comes into play, and I am unable to complete the act. That being said, I once had an orgasm with period sex. Which is why my SO has tried to get me going for it the number of times she has.
Bedamned rubbers. I only ever came once with those, either. I tended to lose the erection with them on as well. Being rubber-coated becomes purely a bout of exercise with lovely visuals and some nice tactile sensation for places other than my genitals. Being an older fellow, I need more than that to keep the motor revving. The genital sensation is virtually nil no matter what brand of rubber I tried. My lady tells me I've been spoiled Thank heavens I finally got the old snip-snip.
How often do I have sex? Every day or 2. Slipping in for some hot contact without my cumming doesn't count - otherwise it would be pretty well daily, and often 2-3 times a day.
I'll be 50 in October, and we've been together for 2 years, living together since last fall.

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Racnad

Twice since last April

We've been together 12 years and my wife currently has no libido. About once every month or two she'll decide that it's not fair to me to be completely celebate, so she'll give me oral until I'm hard and asking to put it in, and finish quickly, please.

Unfortunately, the knowledge that your partner isn't into it at all is not good for the erection or the climax, so I have to have a porn-inspired fantasy in my head to finish. If I can't come or I lose my erection, she takes it as sign that she's too fat & ugly (she is overweight, but can still turn me on a lot when she's turned on), or that I'm old and no longer functional (no problem functioning with porn though), so I have to do what I have to do to finish.

Strange Famous

I'm kinda single - so whenever I can.

But my ideal is probably 3 times a day - once before breakfast, once before supper, and once after bed... Im not into any of the kinky stuff that a lot of people here are into though!

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tbellows

My girlfriend and have sex at least once a day, more often than not twice a day during the week. And on weekends we often have sex 3 or 4 times a day. We've been together for 4 months now. I'm sure we'll slow down eventually, but for now, it's been wonderful.

moch

The wife and I are both 31, been married ten years and have two boys 7 and 9. I think if you averaged it out, it would probably be 6 times a week for us. The only time it really slowed was after each boys birth for about a year, but that was understandable and we were both tired.

blahblah454

When I first started fooling around with the lady we had sex about 1-4 times a day. Then after 6 months of dating it was like once every day or two. Then after a year of dating it was like once every week. Then it was like twice a month. Then about 2 months ago we broke up, and we have had sex twice since we broke up. But I am pretty sure the sex part of our relationship is over for good now.

So.... 0 times a week.

Kpax

Once a week is better than nothing. Now, you could be unmarried and a playa and get down once a night, or have a girlfriend out of marriage that might be in the mood more than once a day, or single like me and not get any for the last 3 months and counting.

I want to be married but I'm too "nerdy" for the world, and I've made too many mistakes for the girls at church to even look at me, so I'm kind of an outcast.

Shaindra

Depends on where I am in my cycle. Mid-cycle, I could go 2-3 times a day. PMS time...more like 1x a day. Any other time? A few times a week.

squeeeb

with myself - once a day
with my wife - anywhere from 2-3 times a week to 0 times a week, depending.

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skada

made me laugh .. i am also perceived as "nerdy"

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Reddogg

*sigh* I think I remember sex ......barely

Kpax

Yeah, the memory is fading fast for me, too. At the end of this year it will have been 4 full months.

Ugh... I encourage anyone getting into it casually to have it all mapped out for the next few months and have a plan, because a sudden stop to it is no good at all.

Trance

Usually I have sex about daily. The only time we don't is when we don't have time to hang out.

Usually if she has her period well do it in the shower or ill just get a blowjob so I don't mind anyway.

creepysusie

Me and my boyfriend live pretty far from one another and we still both live at home. Hence, "whenever we can get it" is really the philosophy here.
it maybe a couple of days or weeks. Really varies on our crazy schedules and work stuffs.

DonnieBoy

Well things have been better in this department lately. We started picking up the pace while trying for a second baby and now a year and a half after my second child was born we are averaging about 2-3 times a week or so... sometimes less, sometimes more. Although we never have it on her period... Don't know if i would like that so much.

Another point too is that after the 2nd child and a recovery period of about 3months my wifes libido has picked up a bit (much to my delight) has anyone else noticed something like this. Granted most of our sexual encounters now happen after both kids are asleep and sometimes rushed because of being tired or worried one or the other kids will wake up...

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Kaimi

Heh, not to be an oddball but the "nerdiest" guys I have been with have always been the absolute best in bed. It is finding them and dragging them in there that is the toughest part.

I have a very good appetite for sex. Give it to me a few times every day... even in longterm relationships the hunger never ceased/slowed.

IBIllusional

Can you explain this thing called sex? It seems interesting. And, yes, I'm married.

anel_ns

Can I just calm everyone down? And Im not trying to step on anyones toes. But in a 8-year relationship, my average was 1-2 a day. And with my current boyfriend (going on a year) its like 3 a day. So there is hope... Seriously. Give the wife one of those new articles saying how life is all preety and pink when you have sex, and how the man is happy and in a good mood. Or just buy her a cosmo... that allways gets my mind spinning with ideas

Baraka_Guru

I feel like such a monk compared to some of you....

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SwingGirl

Maybe hubby and I are the exception but we've been married 15 years and find we do it more now than ever. Usually once a day and sometimes multiple times on the weekend

Needless to say I am a happy girl!

Cernunnos

Due to my single status, a big, fat zero. I have no time or drive to maintain a romantic relationship, which is another mark against my favor.

Ideally, several raunchy fuck sessions per week, maybe a few morning quickies, and one or two slow, tender bodily explorations.

Wes Mantooth

I'm not married so how much I get per week depends on who I'm seeing I guess. Some girlfriends I've had it was almost a nightly affair, others I was lucky to get it once a week....those relationships didn't work out to well...

Right now I'm single so the single sex is really all I get, needless to say right now its pretty haphazard.

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