My girlfriend and I have been together around a year and we probably started having sex about 5 months ago (she was a virgin before that). Fortunately for me I seem to have unleashed the beast.

When we first starting having the privacy to have sex as often as we liked, it was up to 4 or 5 times a day till we figured out that we were doing too much and were giving her UTI's. I understand completely (which is rare) what a UTI feels like since I'm one of the few guys that I know thats had one. So now we cut it down to about 1 or 2 times a day. We almost always have it daily unless she's on the rag.

(Though if she's on the rag and I beg and wimper a little she'll usually taunt me for a while then give me a blowjob.)

We manage about 2-3 times per week now... hmm, about the same as when we were long-distance.

However, I could have it every day and be happy as a (stuffed) clam. :lol:

Um... what's a UTI?

God, we used to have G R E A T and plentiful sex, 4~5 times (sessions) a week. Saturday night was "our" night, and Sunday morning always included a slow, lazy session. It really tapered off a couple years ago when she hit menopause early and her libido dropped. Then she had back troubles, and now most recently major surgery. So lately, it's been about zero. Thankfully she realizes I have needs and doesn't shut me out, so every so often, if I whine/beg just right, she provides me with some much needed stimulation of various sorts.

She has agreed to discuss with her doctor different treatments/therapies once her back is healed enough. (Push-Pull keeps fingers crossed and prays for a restored libido.)

lol... Most of us come in spurts....


before we got married, it seemed like we were trying it everytime we saw each other. I say trying, because there was never any privacy. 26 years (21 yrs of marriage) later it's still very healthy with the typical peaks and valleys. Yes there is hope after marriage.

There seems to be a rythm developed over the years which is very directly tied to the female hormonal cycle. We can go for 10 days with out sex, yet when she is ovulating, it can happen several times a night for a week. One thing I've found to be interesting though, is that it seems to be tied to her hormonal cycle. I have very little say in the matter.

When I was having it... it was twice or three times a day.

The joys of being young. The joys of a girlfriend with more sex drive than a teenage boy.

urinary tract infection... means her pee-hole gets cheesy

Umm, do you mean a yeast infection? The "cheesy" thing (if you are talking about when discharge looks like cottage cheese) happens when there's a yeast infection in the vagina.

A UTI happens when bacteria gets into the urinary tract and, well, infects it... most often happens when women don't get up and pee immediately after sex (to wash out any bacteria that got pushed into the urethra during intercourse), but sometimes it just happens for no reason, too. But there isn't usually any "cottage cheese" going on with the UTI... just painful, bloody, and frequent urination. Oh, ain't it fun to be a woman...

:) Ya but you don't get boners all the time. Try living with that!

been years since I was married, but dating thru marriage would average 2-3 times a day, aunt flo visiting or not. work didnt matter, stress didnt matter, fighting didnt matter, kids didnt matter. I was very fortunate that that was one thing we NEVER fought about. *grin* we both enjoyed sex to much to NOT be constantly messing around.

Well since the LD thing started...none :(

3-12 times a week.

I start getting antsy on less then 2 - 3 times a week though ofcourse my toys do help with that some.

Unfortunately with my last relationship that was the major issue, he just didn't seem interested in sex. Nothing more depressing then practically begging a guy in his mid 20's for sex, talk about role reversal. Think we had sex 4 times in the year and 1/2 we were together.

0.

Though, I'm not really complaining. Oddly enough, I'm much happier nowadays :D

After nearly 12 years together...hubby and I average once a week. With our conflicting schedules, we rarely see each other M-F. Toss an inquisitive 5 year old into the mix...and time alone is very limited. I can't wait until school is over.

0-128...depending....

Married for 6 years, together for 15, no kids; averaging 1-2 times a week these days, except on vacations when it goes up to 1-2 times a day (at least early in the vacation -- then my old man self gets tired).

I've been with my guy for nearly 3 years, just dating.

It kind of depends. When life's not hectic, once to twice a day.

When we're stressed and really busy with life, it tends to be around 4 - 5 times a week. Maybe a little less. I don't think we've ever gone a week without sex though.

No, but do I mean that taking me seriously on this board causes cancer.

Of course I know the difference between a yeast infection and a UTI... I have cats AND I was married to a hippie-type who insisted on sharing all her anatomy with me by essentially sitting on my face and going, "Ooh, look!" whenever something weird came up... and sometimes even without anything remarkable going on in her girl-hole.

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(tries to imagine people from the TFP having sex like 3 times a day)

Sex takes a lot of time out of your day. Between foreplay, oral, pumping action, bondage knots, hot wax, and recovery... easily an hour. I used to kill the weekends with neverending sexfests before I was 20... then I got all wise and decided that I wanted to do other things on the weekends than try to burnout my urethra like a M60 barrel in a Vietnam firefight by using it as a pump action yogurt slinger in a hungry vagina that was tight enough to bend a fork in...

But I digress.

Between 2 and 10 times a week. Depending on our work schedules, which new video games are out, etc.
It's funny though, the week before my period its at leat once a day if not three. Tell me men can't sense those things.... :lol:

The decaying wetworks don't stop real men.

Are there many people who refrain from sex during a woman's period?... we've always been rather enthusiastic about it (with proper precautions... watch the cervix!!) :)

Surprisingly... a lot of my wussy friends won't do any bloodsport poking.

It might be an old wives' tale or science fact, but I recall reading somewhere many moons ago that regular intercourse during the menstrual cycle helps ease things along, prevents cramps, is-real-good-keep-doing-it, etc.

True or not, it was a good excuse for me to have more hot-hot sex.

Just put the bleedin' towel down and get it on!

:)

No, I mean he gets horny as hell. Like some primeval lust to procreate.

Well, I could never tell if they were "fertile" or not. Not an issue for my wang, apparently.

My girlfriend / exwife always smelled like they wanted a hot meat injection 24/7.

Right on, man. :thumbsup:

Once a WEEK?! I think I would burst if I only got it once a week :) Me and my man have sex at least once a day or if not then we don't at least 2 days out of the week becuase we are too tired but even then we do oral.

My period never stops us from having sex, or doing anything else sexually for that matter.

I would like to say, me and my man never haev sex while I am on my period becuase thats messy and just not good lol. Now oral, that never stops on him haha

looking at a little less than 1 time a month...

God, this sucks.

Would not stop me.....The SO on the other hand.... That of course is the why of communications.

I shut down during the monthly flow. That is, Mr. Happy goes limp. Doesn't matter how thoroughly I've been attended to pre-insertion, within a minute of intromission I tend to slip out due to the loss of my erection. The mental aspect of sex comes into play, and I am unable to complete the act. That being said, I once had an orgasm with period sex. Which is why my SO has tried to get me going for it the number of times she has.
Bedamned rubbers. I only ever came once with those, either. I tended to lose the erection with them on as well. Being rubber-coated becomes purely a bout of exercise with lovely visuals and some nice tactile sensation for places other than my genitals. Being an older fellow, I need more than that to keep the motor revving. The genital sensation is virtually nil no matter what brand of rubber I tried. My lady tells me I've been spoiled :) Thank heavens I finally got the old snip-snip.
How often do I have sex? Every day or 2. Slipping in for some hot contact without my cumming doesn't count - otherwise it would be pretty well daily, and often 2-3 times a day.
I'll be 50 in October, and we've been together for 2 years, living together since last fall.

Twice since last April :(

We've been together 12 years and my wife currently has no libido. About once every month or two she'll decide that it's not fair to me to be completely celebate, so she'll give me oral until I'm hard and asking to put it in, and finish quickly, please.

Unfortunately, the knowledge that your partner isn't into it at all is not good for the erection or the climax, so I have to have a porn-inspired fantasy in my head to finish. If I can't come or I lose my erection, she takes it as sign that she's too fat & ugly (she is overweight, but can still turn me on a lot when she's turned on), or that I'm old and no longer functional (no problem functioning with porn though), so I have to do what I have to do to finish. :(

I'm kinda single - so whenever I can.

But my ideal is probably 3 times a day - once before breakfast, once before supper, and once after bed... Im not into any of the kinky stuff that a lot of people here are into though!

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My girlfriend and have sex at least once a day, more often than not twice a day during the week. And on weekends we often have sex 3 or 4 times a day. We've been together for 4 months now. I'm sure we'll slow down eventually, but for now, it's been wonderful.

The wife and I are both 31, been married ten years and have two boys 7 and 9. I think if you averaged it out, it would probably be 6 times a week for us. The only time it really slowed was after each boys birth for about a year, but that was understandable and we were both tired.

When I first started fooling around with the lady we had sex about 1-4 times a day. Then after 6 months of dating it was like once every day or two. Then after a year of dating it was like once every week. Then it was like twice a month. Then about 2 months ago we broke up, and we have had sex twice since we broke up. But I am pretty sure the sex part of our relationship is over for good now.

So.... 0 times a week.

Once a week is better than nothing. Now, you could be unmarried and a playa and get down once a night, or have a girlfriend out of marriage that might be in the mood more than once a day, or single like me and not get any for the last 3 months and counting.

I want to be married but I'm too "nerdy" for the world, and I've made too many mistakes for the girls at church to even look at me, so I'm kind of an outcast.

Depends on where I am in my cycle. Mid-cycle, I could go 2-3 times a day. PMS time...more like 1x a day. Any other time? A few times a week.

with myself - once a day
with my wife - anywhere from 2-3 times a week to 0 times a week, depending.

made me laugh .. i am also perceived as "nerdy"

*sigh* I think I remember sex ......barely

Yeah, the memory is fading fast for me, too. At the end of this year it will have been 4 full months.

Ugh... I encourage anyone getting into it casually to have it all mapped out for the next few months and have a plan, because a sudden stop to it is no good at all.

Usually I have sex about daily. The only time we don't is when we don't have time to hang out.

Usually if she has her period well do it in the shower or ill just get a blowjob so I don't mind anyway.

Me and my boyfriend live pretty far from one another and we still both live at home. Hence, "whenever we can get it" is really the philosophy here.
it maybe a couple of days or weeks. Really varies on our crazy schedules and work stuffs.

Well things have been better in this department lately. We started picking up the pace while trying for a second baby and now a year and a half after my second child was born we are averaging about 2-3 times a week or so... sometimes less, sometimes more. Although we never have it on her period... Don't know if i would like that so much.

Another point too is that after the 2nd child and a recovery period of about 3months my wifes libido has picked up a bit (much to my delight) has anyone else noticed something like this. Granted most of our sexual encounters now happen after both kids are asleep and sometimes rushed because of being tired or worried one or the other kids will wake up...

DB

Heh, not to be an oddball but the "nerdiest" guys I have been with have always been the absolute best in bed. It is finding them and dragging them in there that is the toughest part.

I have a very good appetite for sex. Give it to me a few times every day... even in longterm relationships the hunger never ceased/slowed.

Can you explain this thing called sex? It seems interesting. And, yes, I'm married. :(

Can I just calm everyone down? And Im not trying to step on anyones toes. But in a 8-year relationship, my average was 1-2 a day. And with my current boyfriend (going on a year) its like 3 a day. So there is hope... Seriously. Give the wife one of those new articles saying how life is all preety and pink when you have sex, and how the man is happy and in a good mood. Or just buy her a cosmo... that allways gets my mind spinning with ideas :)

I feel like such a monk compared to some of you....

Maybe hubby and I are the exception but we've been married 15 years and find we do it more now than ever. Usually once a day and sometimes multiple times on the weekend;)

Needless to say I am a happy girl!

Due to my single status, a big, fat zero. I have no time or drive to maintain a romantic relationship, which is another mark against my favor.

Ideally, several raunchy fuck sessions per week, maybe a few morning quickies, and one or two slow, tender bodily explorations.

I'm not married so how much I get per week depends on who I'm seeing I guess. Some girlfriends I've had it was almost a nightly affair, others I was lucky to get it once a week....those relationships didn't work out to well...

Right now I'm single so the single sex is really all I get, needless to say right now its pretty haphazard.