limited

This is for both guys and girls(that give guys handjobs). When you're beating off, do you usually take a tighter grip on the shaft and move the skin up and down, or do you have a loose grip and move your hand up and down allowing your bare palm to rub against the head? I try it both ways sometimes, but I'm curious to hear your opinions on each.

superbunny6

When I've given guys a handjob, they have preferred the tighter grip. One of them told me that it chafes when my grip is looser. It probably depends on your mood too.

JStrider

*shrug* its prolly a combo of both... more the later... im cut so theres not a ton of extra skin to move up and down...



i knew a guy who said he grabs the head and moves it in a circle (think stirring a pot)... we like to poke fun at him for it...

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limited

yeah js- im cut too, but i still find theres enough to just make it over the border of the shaft and head, which is pretty much the only area that matters.

skysooner

It all depends on how I am feeling. Sometimes I don't even touch the head or just the bottom of it, sometimes it is the head exclusively with a little shaft. I pretty much know right away what is going to feel good that particular night.

emphant

Loose grip all the way. I have big hands so I like it better

hu-man

That depends if I use lube or not. Lube, loose grip. No lube, tight grip.

Evil Milkman

Too much loose rubbing can be painful, but a little is ok for me.

vonstalhein

Two handed. Much more exciting, but it pays to experiment i find...i wish i had a girlfriend...

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Nancy

A firm grip works everytime for me

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Firm grip all the way...

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Jizz-Fritter

I think it might be of upmost importance to separate masterbators into circumcised and uncirmcised camps. I would think running the hand along the length is best for cut, and moving the skin up and down is best for uncut. </me>

razavi

I am with hu-man

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Firm

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firm too

iHawk

yep, the firm grip it is

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slimshaydee

same
I don't usually use lube much though because I can come alot faster without it, and I mean alot faster

pocon1

Lube, loose or tight, dry, little loose mostly tight.

Arrion

Loose

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juanvaldes

I don't know I just kinda jerk it up and down where it feels good. And spit is a must!

Stargazer01

Firm....

em1014

My b/f likes a really tight grip on the top and bottom (not sides). At first I felt like I was hurting him, now I just hurt my hands trying to squeeze hard enough .

Kinda off subject but anyway, we have a running joke that his excessive experience masturbating is the reason he is the only one that can open the maynoaise jar (even though we don't eat mayonaise b/c he is vegatarian!)!!

Dilbert1234567

mix it up, switch off

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m0ntyblack

I have to agree with loose if lubed, tight if not.


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hellasnow

ya i'm cut so not much extra skin to stretch around. so kinda just loose i guess

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Peryn

never really thought about it. I am cut and i dont have a whole lot of skin to move around.... guess i go pretty loose w/o lube. Actually, it is reasonably tight, but enough that the hand is sliding on the skin....not grabbbing and moving it. With lube it gets much tighter usually.

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uv7piy

Varies based on the lube.

RemyLebeau97

Im all about different techniques, my fav. is when my girl friend lubs it then grips it tight and rolls her wrist from behind the head all the way down the shaft, while cuffing the balls might I add


Also while were on the subject, do you all make ur partner remove rings before they give u a hand job?? just wondering.

passthru

Variety is the spice of life.

mattevil

right hand on shaft, left palm on head, stoke, repeat till deflation.

Jedbeck

So many ways to reach the same goal. LOL

jbail

I like a woman with a firm hand.

TheFirstDuffMan

I don't see how good it could be using the "firm" technique, but I'm cut. One thing that is cool is to use your hand upside-down. Your (bf's) dick feels a lot different and it feels a lot different.

lisa

I switch around a bit, when i want him to come i go quicker and my grip becomes firmer.

But a tip or a suggestion i want to give to all of you is the screwdriver. I know it sounds painfull, but to my guy it's as closest to heaven as he gets!

I use both hands and place them firmly around his shaft (with the one hand) and the other above it. Then i gently (otherwise it can be too painful...) move them both in opposite directions (as if you would squish out a wet towel or something!)

I only use it now and then but he is always very pleasantly surprised when 'screw' him!

strcrssd

I'm cut and I would have to say that going with the loose grip is the best way for me...

It works well when very dry, also when lubed.

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I'm not cut and I think that if you naturally produce alot of lubrication..the best thing is to move the foreskin over it. Just make sure to stop and not try to finish so quickly.

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impulse03

i agree with hu-man on the lube- loose, no lube- tight.

and yea always get the girl to remove rings. they hurt.

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Horehay1080

Im cut but i seem to have enough skin to do it firm, I think this is also why i last so long during sex, because I got used to the firm and dry, and when I have sex the wet and soft is different, It feels great obviously, but it takes longer, which is good for all parties anyway!!

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duncan

you all should try the "stranger".
what you do is sit on your left hand until it is numb and then use it for the ob. That way you can't you hand doing it. Thus it feeling like someone else. Hence the name.