you people's take on my sit.
 

alright, first post and i figured to ask you all's take on my current situation since you seem to be rather knowledgable on this board. anyway, so recently ive been trying to start a relationship with this girl that ive been friends with for about a year. we've hung out a couple times and she came to watch me and my buddies play beach volleyball. now i just cant tell if shes interested or not. at times she seems to be and other times not. what is everyones take on this?

I would ask her out to dinner or a movie, something that could be a date or just a couple of friends hanging out. Once you guys are out alone just start talking and it should come clear what her intentions are. I hope that helps you out.

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thanks for the reply. any advice helps. i took her out to a movie but a bunch of our friends were along with us so we didnt get a chance to talk to her alone. i figure tomorrow i should have time to talk with her and maybe find out her intentions

im hoping the whole nice guys finish last thing doesnt happen here. thats happened one too many times in my life time.

Nice guys finish last because it takes time to get the best!

I like Scorpio's advice....get her out (no buddies along for the ride) but someplace really casual so she doesn't feel as if it's a "date". If she is interested then she will give you signs and you can go from there.
Best of luck to you.

I absolutely concur...