How do you tell if a girl likes you... - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

hobo · 11-23-2003, 09:16 PM

without asking her. I can't tell, I can't read sublety. So like, what are signs?

nanofever · 11-23-2003, 09:25 PM

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Originally posted by hobo
without asking her. I can't tell, I can't read sublety. So like, what are signs?

I'm probaly wrong but if you can't tell she likes you than she doesn't like you.

Oopsfix · 11-23-2003, 09:34 PM

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Originally posted by nanofever
I'm probaly wrong but if you can't tell she likes you than she doesn't like you.

ahahahaha

hobo, here's a good website for reading body language: http://www.pickupguide.com/layguide/bodylanguage.htm

Pragma · 11-23-2003, 10:10 PM

My own helpful signs to figure out if a girl likes you (note: use at your own risk)

She smacks you when you leer hello.
She's assisted you in developing an immunity to mace, you get sprayed so frequently.
She sticks her hand down your pants and yells at you to quit toying with her and have sex already.

I'm sure there's many more I'm forgetting, but it's a quick list to get you started.

Seriously, though: Ask her on a date, flirt a bunch, and observe her reaction. If she's not interested, it'll be pretty obvious.

empu · 11-23-2003, 10:19 PM

Who cares if she likes you? She may think she likes you now and change her mind later. She may think she doesn't like you now and change her mind later. Same goes for you! Interact.

sillygirl · 11-23-2003, 10:39 PM

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Originally posted by Oopsfix
ahahahaha

hobo, here's a good website for reading body language: http://www.pickupguide.com/layguide/bodylanguage.htm

That site is actually quite accurate, IMO. When I was reading it, I noticed that it's things I do, though it's on a subconscious level.

numist · 11-23-2003, 10:47 PM

I am bad at this as well... I had to be pretty direct with my current g/f...

I put my arm on her waist (took some balls on my part too...)
She snuggled in to fit under my shoulder.

Thats how to tell

lafemmefatale · 11-23-2003, 11:00 PM

A past biology teacher once said, if you're in a bar or a club or something, a trick is to yawn, and if the girl yawns too, it means she was looking at you...which might mean she likes you...

oooooooooooooo

apparently it never worked for him

go figure.

SparklingDot · 11-23-2003, 11:20 PM

Talk to her. Spend time with her. Be friendly, but not creepy. Smile. Remember, we all enjoy our personal space... Offer your company if she's alone. Pay attention to her moods, always have something nice to say. Get her talking to you on a regular basis. She might like you already. Be nice, not lewd. Settle for friendship if you must, it can always grow later.

Oopsfix · 11-24-2003, 12:43 PM

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Originally posted by sillygirl
That site is actually quite accurate, IMO. When I was reading it, I noticed that it's things I do, though it's on a subconscious level.

yup, that site has the best girl advice you can get anywhere on anything and its very accurate..works alot of the times and for friends too

shileno · 11-24-2003, 01:09 PM

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Originally posted by Oopsfix
ahahahaha

hobo, here's a good website for reading body language: http://www.pickupguide.com/layguide/bodylanguage.htm

interesting site oopsfix..thanks

Rubyee · 11-24-2003, 01:10 PM

Guys never have this problem with me as I always make the first move- if I like a guy, and it feels right, we make out. I love being the first one to do everything! Unfair? NAH!

Averett · 11-24-2003, 01:12 PM

That website has been blocked here at work.

Whoops!!

air45 · 11-24-2003, 01:58 PM

this website is good news for me! i print the copy for bring to the disco with me! it is road map for sex!

thanks to you!

Oopsfix · 11-24-2003, 05:59 PM

Hahaha yeah it's excelent..You're welcome

SabrinaFair · 11-24-2003, 06:04 PM

I just had a conversation with my roomie's bf about this...he said the best way to tell if a girl likes you is to bring a guy friend, because he'll probably be able to tell better than you can. He said that guys can't tell when a girl likes them, but they can tell when a girl likes someone else.

bermuDa · 11-24-2003, 06:18 PM

rubyee is my type of gal! I'm too shy to make the first move most of the time

Jesus Malverde · 11-24-2003, 06:37 PM

Youre right, SabrinaFair. Thats worked with my group of friends so many times its ridiculous. I had no idea this girl liked me, and all my friends thought I was a fool because I had no idea. She ended up going out with me over the summer. I've also seen girls drop hints to some of my friends that they never pick up.

hobo · 11-24-2003, 07:59 PM

Ya, its true how we notice who other people are interested in, but are blind when it comes to ourselves. I guess its a competitiveness built into us.

Rubyee · 11-24-2003, 08:34 PM

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Originally posted by bermuDa
rubyee is my type of gal! I'm too shy to make the first move most of the time

Yay for me!

OFKU0 · 11-24-2003, 09:05 PM

How do you tell if a girl likes you...

She laughs even though she knows she has been ridiculed or insulted.

Pragma · 11-25-2003, 08:36 AM

In my case, I didn't notice any signals my girlfriend was sending, or else ignored them thinking I was imagining them. It finally took my friends and her friends to hammer sense into me and go "hey look, dumbass, she likes you. NOTICE."

However, I always end up being the guy who everyone else turns to for "hey, does she like me?" because I'm good at noticing that for other people.

Ah, sweet sweet irony.

baudot · 11-25-2003, 09:41 AM

If she rips your pants off, it's a fair sign that she probably likes you.

Hard to be certain, though.

Oopsfix · 11-25-2003, 01:05 PM

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Originally posted by baudot
If she rips your pants off, it's a fair sign that she probably likes you.

Hard to be certain, though.

hmm, i'm not too sure about that one...:P

TheFirstDuffMan · 11-25-2003, 09:10 PM

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Originally posted by Oopsfix
http://www.pickupguide.com/layguide/bodylanguage.htm

Nice link, thanks

CamaroRS1967 · 11-26-2003, 06:31 AM

Great site!

hobo · 11-27-2003, 06:04 PM

ya, thx for the link. it is pretty informative.

RemyLebeau97 · 12-04-2003, 03:03 PM

Most of the time I think you can tell if someone likes you just in the body language and the things they do when around you. I know when me and my girlfriend had our first date we made alot of eye contact and there was tons of unnessary smiling and laughing. No uncomfortable silences at all. Just try to read that person and it shouldn't be hard to tell, since then we have been together 2 years strong

Good Luck !!

World's King · 12-04-2003, 03:42 PM

If her hands are in your pants... that's a good sign she likes you.

Anyway. I'm just as clueless as you. I'm trying to read a girl right now... it's a strange situation so it's making it harder but even so. I'm fucking stupid. Unless she comes right and blows me in the bathroom of a Dennys at four in the morning... I have no idea.

BooRadley · 12-04-2003, 03:49 PM

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Originally posted by SparklingDot
Talk to her. Spend time with her. Be friendly, but not creepy. Smile. Remember, we all enjoy our personal space... Offer your company if she's alone. Pay attention to her moods, always have something nice to say. Get her talking to you on a regular basis. She might like you already. Be nice, not lewd. Settle for friendship if you must, it can always grow later.

Everyone take note : That is a good way to become a intellectual whore. Friendship does not "grow" into relationships. Since you are a female, have you ever had a relationship suddenly form with one of your female friends?

If you have no idea what that is , go here
Ladder Theory

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Originally posted by SabrinaFair I just had a conversation with my roomie's bf about this...he said the best way to tell if a girl likes you is to bring a guy friend, because he'll probably be able to tell better than you can. He said that guys can't tell when a girl likes them, but they can tell when a girl likes someone else. I just had a conversation with my roomie's bf about this...he said the best way to tell if a girl likes you is to bring a guy friend, because he'll probably be able to tell better than you can. He said that guys can't tell when a girl likes them, but they can tell when a girl likes someone else.

You are absolutely correct. That is a good method. Thanks for sharing.

insidious_machinae · 12-04-2003, 04:08 PM

BooRadley, I would say that the Ladder Theory is intended as a joke and isn't supposed to be taken seriously....except

it's so fucking true.

BooRadley · 12-04-2003, 04:17 PM

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Originally posted by nwlinkvxd
BooRadley, I would say that the Ladder Theory is intended as a joke and isn't supposed to be taken seriously....except

it's so fucking true.

It is sarcastic and cynical as hell, but holds true for 99% of cases. And I would rather make assumptions based on 99% of cases than hoping that 1% girl will show up in my life.

monkeysugar · 12-06-2003, 02:39 PM

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Originally posted by SabrinaFair
I just had a conversation with my roomie's bf about this...he said the best way to tell if a girl likes you is to bring a guy friend, because he'll probably be able to tell better than you can. He said that guys can't tell when a girl likes them, but they can tell when a girl likes someone else.

When in doubt, bring a certified wingman.

11-23-2003, 09:16 PM	#1 (permalink)
hobo Archangel of Change	How do you tell if a girl likes you... without asking her. I can't tell, I can't read sublety. So like, what are signs?

11-23-2003, 10:10 PM	#4 (permalink)
Pragma I am Winter Born Location: Alexandria, VA	My own helpful signs to figure out if a girl likes you (note: use at your own risk) She smacks you when you leer hello. She's assisted you in developing an immunity to mace, you get sprayed so frequently. She sticks her hand down your pants and yells at you to quit toying with her and have sex already. I'm sure there's many more I'm forgetting, but it's a quick list to get you started. Seriously, though: Ask her on a date, flirt a bunch, and observe her reaction. If she's not interested, it'll be pretty obvious. __________________ Eat antimatter, Posleen-boy!

11-23-2003, 11:00 PM	#8 (permalink)
lafemmefatale Insane Location: Vancouver	A past biology teacher once said, if you're in a bar or a club or something, a trick is to yawn, and if the girl yawns too, it means she was looking at you...which might mean she likes you... oooooooooooooo apparently it never worked for him go figure. __________________ -poor is the man whose pleasure depends on the permission of another-

11-23-2003, 11:20 PM	#9 (permalink)
SparklingDot Insane	Talk to her. Spend time with her. Be friendly, but not creepy. Smile. Remember, we all enjoy our personal space... Offer your company if she's alone. Pay attention to her moods, always have something nice to say. Get her talking to you on a regular basis. She might like you already. Be nice, not lewd. Settle for friendship if you must, it can always grow later. __________________ 17 seconds is all you really need - Smashing Pumpkins

11-24-2003, 01:10 PM	#12 (permalink)
Rubyee I'm baaaaack!	Guys never have this problem with me as I always make the first move- if I like a guy, and it feels right, we make out. I love being the first one to do everything! Unfair? NAH! __________________ You don't know from fun.

11-23-2003, 10:19 PM	#5 (permalink)
empu Crazy	Who cares if she likes you? She may think she likes you now and change her mind later. She may think she doesn't like you now and change her mind later. Same goes for you! Interact.

11-23-2003, 10:47 PM	#7 (permalink)
numist Banned Location: UCSD, 510.49 miles from my love	I am bad at this as well... I had to be pretty direct with my current g/f... I put my arm on her waist (took some balls on my part too...) She snuggled in to fit under my shoulder. Thats how to tell

11-24-2003, 01:12 PM	#13 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	That website has been blocked here at work. Whoops!! __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

11-24-2003, 01:58 PM	#14 (permalink)
air45 Loser Location: Midwest	this website is good news for me! i print the copy for bring to the disco with me! it is road map for sex! thanks to you!

11-24-2003, 05:59 PM	#15 (permalink)
Oopsfix Banned	Hahaha yeah it's excelent..You're welcome

11-24-2003, 06:04 PM	#16 (permalink)
SabrinaFair Junkie Location: Louisville, KY	I just had a conversation with my roomie's bf about this...he said the best way to tell if a girl likes you is to bring a guy friend, because he'll probably be able to tell better than you can. He said that guys can't tell when a girl likes them, but they can tell when a girl likes someone else. __________________ "With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy." -Desiderata

11-24-2003, 06:18 PM	#17 (permalink)
bermuDa don't ignore this--> Location: CA	rubyee is my type of gal! I'm too shy to make the first move most of the time __________________ I am the very model of a moderator gentleman.

11-24-2003, 06:37 PM	#18 (permalink)
Jesus Malverde Psycho Location: Sinaloa, Mexico	Youre right, SabrinaFair. Thats worked with my group of friends so many times its ridiculous. I had no idea this girl liked me, and all my friends thought I was a fool because I had no idea. She ended up going out with me over the summer. I've also seen girls drop hints to some of my friends that they never pick up. __________________ ...I'm that cat by the bar toasting to the good life...

11-24-2003, 07:59 PM	#19 (permalink)
hobo Archangel of Change	Ya, its true how we notice who other people are interested in, but are blind when it comes to ourselves. I guess its a competitiveness built into us.

11-24-2003, 09:05 PM	#21 (permalink)
OFKU0 Junk	How do you tell if a girl likes you... She laughs even though she knows she has been ridiculed or insulted. __________________ " In Canada, you can tell the most blatant lie in a calm voice, and people will believe you over someone who's a little passionate about the truth." David Warren, Western Standard.

11-25-2003, 08:36 AM	#22 (permalink)
Pragma I am Winter Born Location: Alexandria, VA	In my case, I didn't notice any signals my girlfriend was sending, or else ignored them thinking I was imagining them. It finally took my friends and her friends to hammer sense into me and go "hey look, dumbass, she likes you. NOTICE." However, I always end up being the guy who everyone else turns to for "hey, does she like me?" because I'm good at noticing that for other people. Ah, sweet sweet irony. __________________ Eat antimatter, Posleen-boy!

11-25-2003, 09:41 AM	#23 (permalink)
baudot Tilted Location: Today: St. Louis.	If she rips your pants off, it's a fair sign that she probably likes you. Hard to be certain, though.

11-26-2003, 06:31 AM	#26 (permalink)
CamaroRS1967 Insane	Great site!

11-27-2003, 06:04 PM	#27 (permalink)
hobo Archangel of Change	ya, thx for the link. it is pretty informative.

12-04-2003, 03:03 PM	#28 (permalink)
RemyLebeau97 I stole my boyfriends TFP, hehe !! Location: Galveston, TX	Most of the time I think you can tell if someone likes you just in the body language and the things they do when around you. I know when me and my girlfriend had our first date we made alot of eye contact and there was tons of unnessary smiling and laughing. No uncomfortable silences at all. Just try to read that person and it shouldn't be hard to tell, since then we have been together 2 years strong Good Luck !!

12-04-2003, 03:42 PM	#29 (permalink)
World's King Here Location: Denver City Denver	If her hands are in your pants... that's a good sign she likes you. Anyway. I'm just as clueless as you. I'm trying to read a girl right now... it's a strange situation so it's making it harder but even so. I'm fucking stupid. Unless she comes right and blows me in the bathroom of a Dennys at four in the morning... I have no idea. __________________ heavy is the head that wears the crown

12-04-2003, 04:08 PM	#31 (permalink)
insidious_machinae Psycho	BooRadley, I would say that the Ladder Theory is intended as a joke and isn't supposed to be taken seriously....except it's so fucking true.