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Woody182 · 11-19-2003, 11:58 AM

I was having a conversation with some friends and wanted to ask all of the guys here as well.
How often do guys masturbate when they have a girlfriend?

I suppose I'll ask this also, what do you girls think as far as your boyfriend masturbating?

ShaniFaye · 11-19-2003, 12:07 PM

female response---I have no problem with my guy doing it at all....and sometimes I even like to watch

lurkette · 11-19-2003, 12:16 PM

I have no problem as long as it doesn't interfere with him paying attention to me later

Sometimes you just gotta have it, and the other person's not around, or sleeping soundly and you don't want to wake them up. Heh.

I've never understood the taboo about masturbation, and I don't understand why some people have a problem with their partner masturbating, as long as it isn't otherwise interfering with their sex life.

twotimesadingo · 11-19-2003, 12:25 PM

I'll have to echo the women; there's nothing wrong with masturbation. It is, in fact, the only safe sex to be had in this day and age.

When I was with my girlfriend, I honestly didn't have to masturbate much, as she was very accommodating in that respect. But that's not to say I never did; it merely wasn't as common a thing as it is now, when I'm single.

Partners should be happy if their significant others relieve sexual tension in a solo manner; it removes the "gotta cum, gotta cum" paradigm from a love-making session (at least, it always did for me), and makes everything else so much more enjoyable.

Darkeryet · 11-19-2003, 12:29 PM

I am married and I do it between 3 and 7 times a week. My wife also likes to watch.

monkeysugar · 11-19-2003, 01:01 PM

Strangely enough, I masturbate a lot more when I am in a sexual relationship with someone than when I'm not in a sexual relationship with anyone.

My girlfriend loves to watch me masturbate, which was a little wierd for me the first time she asked me to do it in front of her, but now I have no qualms about it.

As far as frequency goes, I really couldn't say. It all depends on the week, the mood, and the time of the month. For about one week a month...sheesh....a lot.

perth1 · 11-19-2003, 01:55 PM

mmm i must say mutual masturbation is so much fun!!!

it always ends up in us having sex though... LOL

absorbentishe · 11-19-2003, 02:26 PM

A lot! Well, not a lot but often, 2 - 5 times a week. It's alright, I've tried to get my wife to enjoy herself, but she won't even touch herself while we're having sex. Her loss I guess.

jamesgurl · 11-19-2003, 03:49 PM

i like to let my man watch me .........and i like to watch him we add that to our love making so i guess every so often but when we first got together i was doing just about every other day lol now its still that way.............i just like him to see me wet and getting pleasure

visotech · 11-19-2003, 03:59 PM

Before i got in a relationship it was probably 3-4 times a week, now that im in a long distance relationship we usualy have phonesex that involves masterbation every other day...It helps when you dont see eachother every day, and its nice rite before you go to sleep cause it calms you down and puts you in this relaxed state.

Loup · 11-19-2003, 04:15 PM

I masterbate 4 - 7 times a week alone plus a couple of times with her watching.

Lunchbox7 · 11-19-2003, 04:39 PM

when Im not in a relation ship I average 3 times a day. When I am in a relationship it drops to 1-2 times a day. I have no probs with my partner masturbating. I like to watch. If my partner has a problem with me masturbating then too bad. Im doing it no matter what. Still Most of my girlfirends love watching me. I think masturbation is essential to a healthy sex life.

annie1 · 11-19-2003, 05:30 PM

well i love to watch, probably the biggest turn on for me, and its definately not something i mind when im not around often, but usually there isnt much need when i am around a lot.

Woody182 · 11-19-2003, 07:47 PM

I feel really weird about masturbating while in a relatonship. I've been with my girlfriend for about 10 months. Her sex drive isn't real high (twice a week, sometimes 3-4) so I find myself masturbating on days we don't mess around. I just feel weird about it and don't know whether to tell her or something like that b/c I don't know how she'll react.

analog · 11-19-2003, 09:39 PM

pretty much the same whether i'm getting regular sex or not, 1-2 times a day.

guthmund · 11-19-2003, 10:46 PM

I think the answer to both questions of how much a guy masturbates with or without a girlfriend can be summed up in this simple phrase: There aren't enough hours in the day, my friend.

Masturbating is quick, painless (if you're doing it right) and always satisfies, while relations with a gal pal is certainly more entertaining, more worthwhile and a helluva lot of fun, it is sometimes comparable to squeezing water from a rock.

Sometimes it's just quicker to pull up to the self-serve pump and do it yourself.

vveronica · 11-20-2003, 09:29 AM

hmmm I love to see my SO and his big old cock masturbating

Bloodslick · 11-20-2003, 09:43 AM

I'm in a relationship, and I masturbate 1-3 times daily. Sometimes more. I'm still having regular sex, but she's not around during the day and I'm here at home. Diablo 2 just isn't that entertaining, you know?

em1014 · 11-20-2003, 11:28 AM

I love when my boyfriend mastubates! It is definatly a turn on for me. As far as how often he does it... I'd say it averages out to once a day to once every other day depending on the time of month. I can't complain b/c our sex life is great and it's something both he and I enjoy.

slimshaydee · 11-20-2003, 04:34 PM

I masurbate every day i dont get sex, which is on average 3 times a week, but on those 3 or so days, i go at it like rabbit.

Rubyee · 11-20-2003, 04:44 PM

I don't mind if my live-in boyfriend mastrubates. Sometimes, you just want the end, without taking time to include the means. Also, I think it enhances sex, not only because guys can supposedly last longer, but it makes you realize what you like.

11-19-2003, 11:58 AM	#1 (permalink)
Woody182 Crazy Location: Near Chicago, IL	Masturbation I was having a conversation with some friends and wanted to ask all of the guys here as well. How often do guys masturbate when they have a girlfriend? I suppose I'll ask this also, what do you girls think as far as your boyfriend masturbating? __________________ If I fall in love, will you forgive me? If I lose my way, will you choose me? If I change my mind, will you change me? -Smashing Pumpkins

11-19-2003, 12:07 PM	#2 (permalink)
ShaniFaye Submit to me, you know you want to Location: Lilburn, Ga	female response---I have no problem with my guy doing it at all....and sometimes I even like to watch __________________ *I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!*

11-19-2003, 12:16 PM	#3 (permalink)
lurkette My future is coming on Moderator Emeritus Location: east of the sun and west of the moon	I have no problem as long as it doesn't interfere with him paying attention to me later Sometimes you just gotta have it, and the other person's not around, or sleeping soundly and you don't want to wake them up. Heh. I've never understood the taboo about masturbation, and I don't understand why some people have a problem with their partner masturbating, as long as it isn't otherwise interfering with their sex life. __________________ "If ten million people believe a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing." - Anatole France

11-19-2003, 12:25 PM	#4 (permalink)
twotimesadingo Psycho Location: that place with the thing	I'll have to echo the women; there's nothing wrong with masturbation. It is, in fact, the only safe sex to be had in this day and age. When I was with my girlfriend, I honestly didn't have to masturbate much, as she was very accommodating in that respect. But that's not to say I never did; it merely wasn't as common a thing as it is now, when I'm single. Partners should be happy if their significant others relieve sexual tension in a solo manner; it removes the "gotta cum, gotta cum" paradigm from a love-making session (at least, it always did for me), and makes everything else so much more enjoyable. __________________ I'll be the one to protect you from your enemies and all your demons. I'll be the one to protect you from a will to survive and voice of reason. I'll be the one to protect you from your enemies and your choices, son. They're one and the same I must isolate you, isolate and save you from yourself." - A Perfect Circle

11-19-2003, 12:29 PM	#5 (permalink)
Darkeryet Upright	I am married and I do it between 3 and 7 times a week. My wife also likes to watch. __________________ Darkeryet

11-19-2003, 01:01 PM	#6 (permalink)
monkeysugar I'll be on the veranda, since you're on the cross. Location: Rand McNally's friendliest small town in America. They must have strayed from the dodgy parts...	Strangely enough, I masturbate a lot more when I am in a sexual relationship with someone than when I'm not in a sexual relationship with anyone. My girlfriend loves to watch me masturbate, which was a little wierd for me the first time she asked me to do it in front of her, but now I have no qualms about it. As far as frequency goes, I really couldn't say. It all depends on the week, the mood, and the time of the month. For about one week a month...sheesh....a lot. __________________ I've got the love of my life and a job that I enjoy most of the time. Life is good.

11-19-2003, 01:55 PM	#7 (permalink)
perth1 Crazy	mmm i must say mutual masturbation is so much fun!!! it always ends up in us having sex though... LOL

11-19-2003, 02:26 PM	#8 (permalink)
absorbentishe Boy am I horny today Location: T O L E D O, Toledo!!	A lot! Well, not a lot but often, 2 - 5 times a week. It's alright, I've tried to get my wife to enjoy herself, but she won't even touch herself while we're having sex. Her loss I guess.

11-19-2003, 03:49 PM	#9 (permalink)
jamesgurl Upright Location: dc	i like to let my man watch me .........and i like to watch him we add that to our love making so i guess every so often but when we first got together i was doing just about every other day lol now its still that way.............i just like him to see me wet and getting pleasure __________________ life is all good, just cruise thru !!!!

11-19-2003, 03:59 PM	#10 (permalink)
visotech Insane Location: San Diego, CA	Before i got in a relationship it was probably 3-4 times a week, now that im in a long distance relationship we usualy have phonesex that involves masterbation every other day...It helps when you dont see eachother every day, and its nice rite before you go to sleep cause it calms you down and puts you in this relaxed state.

11-19-2003, 04:15 PM	#11 (permalink)
Loup Pup no More Location: Voted the Best	I masterbate 4 - 7 times a week alone plus a couple of times with her watching. __________________ "If you cannot lift the load off another's back, do not walk away. Try to lighten it." ~ Frank Tyger

11-19-2003, 04:39 PM	#12 (permalink)
Lunchbox7 Addict	when Im not in a relation ship I average 3 times a day. When I am in a relationship it drops to 1-2 times a day. I have no probs with my partner masturbating. I like to watch. If my partner has a problem with me masturbating then too bad. Im doing it no matter what. Still Most of my girlfirends love watching me. I think masturbation is essential to a healthy sex life.

11-19-2003, 05:30 PM	#13 (permalink)
annie1 Insane	well i love to watch, probably the biggest turn on for me, and its definately not something i mind when im not around often, but usually there isnt much need when i am around a lot.

11-19-2003, 07:47 PM	#14 (permalink)
Woody182 Crazy Location: Near Chicago, IL	I feel really weird about masturbating while in a relatonship. I've been with my girlfriend for about 10 months. Her sex drive isn't real high (twice a week, sometimes 3-4) so I find myself masturbating on days we don't mess around. I just feel weird about it and don't know whether to tell her or something like that b/c I don't know how she'll react. __________________ If I fall in love, will you forgive me? If I lose my way, will you choose me? If I change my mind, will you change me? -Smashing Pumpkins

11-19-2003, 09:39 PM	#15 (permalink)
analog Banned	pretty much the same whether i'm getting regular sex or not, 1-2 times a day.

11-19-2003, 10:46 PM	#16 (permalink)
guthmund big damn hero	I think the answer to both questions of how much a guy masturbates with or without a girlfriend can be summed up in this simple phrase: There aren't enough hours in the day, my friend. Masturbating is quick, painless (if you're doing it right) and always satisfies, while relations with a gal pal is certainly more entertaining, more worthwhile and a helluva lot of fun, it is sometimes comparable to squeezing water from a rock. Sometimes it's just quicker to pull up to the self-serve pump and do it yourself. __________________ No signature. None. Seriously.

11-20-2003, 09:29 AM	#17 (permalink)
vveronica Psycho Location: northern california	hmmm I love to see my SO and his big old cock masturbating __________________ ...We find ourselves in a struggle for our very right to exsist... We will not go quietly into the night... We will not give up without a fight...

11-20-2003, 09:43 AM	#18 (permalink)
Bloodslick Loser Location: a darkened back alley	I'm in a relationship, and I masturbate 1-3 times daily. Sometimes more. I'm still having regular sex, but she's not around during the day and I'm here at home. Diablo 2 just isn't that entertaining, you know?

11-20-2003, 11:28 AM	#19 (permalink)
em1014 Crazy	I love when my boyfriend mastubates! It is definatly a turn on for me. As far as how often he does it... I'd say it averages out to once a day to once every other day depending on the time of month. I can't complain b/c our sex life is great and it's something both he and I enjoy.

11-20-2003, 04:34 PM	#20 (permalink)
slimshaydee If you've read this, PM me and say so Location: Sitting on my ass, and you?	I masurbate every day i dont get sex, which is on average 3 times a week, but on those 3 or so days, i go at it like rabbit.

11-20-2003, 04:44 PM	#21 (permalink)
Rubyee I'm baaaaack!	I don't mind if my live-in boyfriend mastrubates. Sometimes, you just want the end, without taking time to include the means. Also, I think it enhances sex, not only because guys can supposedly last longer, but it makes you realize what you like. __________________ You don't know from fun.