Breastular Stimulation
 

A friend asked me for some advice, as the resident pervert-in-chief that he knows, on the subject of the title. Now, Over and above talking to the lady and finding out exactly what she likes - without going into too much new stuff - it strikes me that this could very well be a gaping hole in my sexual reportoire.

EPID of course, I've been with lasses where anything over a light nuzzle or sucking would have them whacking my head to get me off em - and then theres situations like my current lady who LOVES to be biten and sucked hard on her not-so-sensitive lady bumps...

A minefield indeed.

So, lads:

Any special tricks?

...and Ladies:

Any particular likes, dislikes, loves, hates and adores?

Sorry dude, but I'm afraid you're going to have to learn through experience. (But what experience!!!)

Not only are women's individual preferences widely different, but I'm guessing many women are like me - what feels great one day (yeah baby, more of that!) might just be hohum some other time. Sometimes I like having my nipples pinched really hard; other times they're more sensitive and pinching hurts and is a real mood-breaker, but light brushing is more er...effective. I ALWAYS like having the undersides of my breast played with. IMHO, and according to most women I know, that area is a much-neglected erogenous zone. But other than that, I think you're going to have to find out what your lady friend likes by asking her or experimenting. Get to work! ;)

Like I said, i'm not inexperienced in matters milky...

The underboobular region has, for many years, been known to me as a gravely understimulated area of the greater and lesser spotted booby. As is the gentle stroking of the entire region - paying particular attention to the underboob and sideboob regions.

Asking what the lady loves is always the best route to making her happy in any boudior adventure, I'm looking for the little hints and tips that perhaps even the lady in question may be unaware of.

For example, my new ladyfriend has just discovered a rich seam of 'oh god's from her cervix... She knew not that she enjoyed that before - and many ladies do not.

I'm just wondering what's out there from our merry band of sexual fortune-hunters.

;)

ASK! all women are different on this I have friends who are at both ends of the scale... I guess im somewhere in the middle.
as what works best.. your tongue, carressing, and ohhh yeahhhh about a two day old beard softly on my breastttt ahhh sigh... Day where is that mand when i need him....

heheheheeh

Like the ladies have pointed out, every woman is different. And not only that, what works sometimes won't work other times, y'know, monthly cycles, breast sensitivity, and so on. I try to keep it gentle at first, no pinching, biting, etc. until I know she's enjoying herself.
I like licking the nipple, getting it a little wet (not drowning in slobber!) and then blowing cold air on it to make it erect, from there you can nibble, pinch, pull, suck, whatever she enjoys. Something about seeing the nipple perk up gets me going. Just have fun with them.

I also like how you use the terms 'breastular' and 'boobular'. I thought I was the only one.

Don't concentrate 100% on the nipple/areola. Spend time everywhere on the breast.

Personally, what I like varies. There is usually a small amount of gentle touching, and he wonders why nothing spectacular happens.

The reason nothing spectacular happens is first of all, he doesn't get the reaction he was looking for and moves on before there is a chance for anything to happen. Honestly, how sensitive can you expect a woman's breasts to be, knowing that they are confined all day long?

I guarantee that if you are willing to spend the necessary time, you can get those oohs and aaahs. And even cooler, she just might just take your hand and show you what she wants.

some women like having their breasts played with... but too much can overdo it... dont concentrate on the breast... like it.. suck it.. twist it.. pinch it.. do whatever they like.. but dont spend the whole time there... then.. its a complete let down for the lady!

*takes notes*
Never even considered the lower boobal region! Fascinating...

While on the subject, does any other guys like to have their nipples played with? My previous gf was a real racer on teasing my nipples, I swear she could've made me come with that tongue of hers if she wanted to ;)