You're probably going to break up one way or another. If you drag it out, you may just end up hating each other -- end it now on as good a note as you possibly can. At least this way you'll be able to have the good memories.

In the end you need to follow your heart.

Give her time and a little space... If you do, do anything sexual, go slow and make sure she's into it... Hopefully she's still into you. If not, I know its hard, but you gotta move on. And as for the lust stage... Everyone has that really horny time in a relationship... Guys normaly grow out of it WAY after the girl does LOL. She might just wanna settle down, and snuggle...

sounds to me like she's a little bit of a manic-depressive. she needs counseling. wondering what happened in her past to screw her up like that. anyways, she's chaotic, let her go.

Is it possible that she is simply not interested as much in men anymore? Maybe she grabs your package to try to reassure herself that she is straight? :o