jerseyboy

A friend was telling me about exchanging dirty text messages to his girlfriend, when they got bored. I dunno but this just seems weird to me, I think a voice would turn me on much more than just a few words on a mobile screen. Does anyone do this?

WarWagon

Sounds pretty lame to me, even worse than cybersex in that it takes a LOT longer to type on a cell phone.

spived2

Worded the right way I'm sure it could turn many people on.

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analog

Boredom can make something normally banal- but LESS boring than what you're currently doing- seem like gold.

Also, teasing is fun. Just have some fun, people!

shakran

I've heard of netsex, but how the hell do you txtsex?

lessee:

wht r u wrng?
vnck swtr
i tk ur clths off
i strk ur ck
tht fls gd!


sheesh. What kids won't do these days

bundy

text message technology is tailor-made for flirting.

but i think the time delay puts a bit of a dampener on things if you go any further.

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numist

my g/f visits in less than a week..

any text message she sent me could get me anticipating...

otherwise, I dont see it...

MSD

It has the advantage over cybersex of requiring only one hand ...

Jonsgirl

I could see it. Getting a little dirty message during your day from your S.O. It'd sure as hell make me want to get home sooner!!!

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tikki

I spell out I Love You in ketchup and MMS it. :-D

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numist

dirty little message limited to 256 characters mind you... only so much you can do with that....

Although MrSelfDestruct has a point.

But the way sprints txt message system has been treating me, Id be soft before the next page loaded :P

tikki: you didnt just see that commercial too! I have no problems saying the dreaded words in front of my buddies

strcrssd

I think it could be interesting if you were going to see the person in the near future, more teasing than cybersex.

Otherwise, 256 characters....makes for cruddy cybersex. I don't even enjoy flash stories, much less 256 characters...

I'll keep it in mind if I ever manage to find a girlfriend...

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motdakasha

MMS? pls explain.

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-Anders

Oh i've done it lots and lots of times, and no-one erally shortens the words anymore, not after cellphones got the dictionary option, it's _nearly_ as fast as typing on a keyboard

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Shadowman

Did it last nite with a female friend of mine, just for fun I guess. I wasn't doing anything, but Im sure she was, since she started it. Kinda weird, and difficult...like your message goes "blah blah.....and im just about to cum in your...." and youve got no space left for text....ye.....that'd be awkward. So, Im guilty of techno-sex (sex by any method other than physical togetherness). Make me think if they ever had sex over CB radio ;-)

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perth1

160 Chars!

text flirting is awesome!! i was out with the boys one night when the girl sent me a dirty text. i swear to god it made the hairs on the back of my neck stand up!

plus she lives in another country, so texting/email is how we communicate (oh, and i call her for hours form work, fuck i hope they dont catch me! )

perth1

multimedia messaging service...

its essentially just a normal text message, but you can add pictures and sounds.

-Anders

Well with never phones (basicly anyone younger than 3 years or something) you link together the sms'es so they appear as one I have a dirty little story on my phone, it's about 1000 words. It's quite popular with some of my female friends

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takrupp

Hey this reminds my of this cab driver once,
So I was drunk and coming home on this free cab service the Unviersity offers and this guy gets a little buzz from his phone. He chuckled, and I was like what and he showed me something like 6 text messages from the last hour of what his wife was going to do to him after his shift....hmm, that was a little more personal than I usually like to get with the cabbies.

H12

The idea of that actually worries me, heh.

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raeanna74

Dirty little messages now and then throughout the day makes meeting that evening so much more exciting. When you are together for a while and especially when you have kids you really have to make every moment count. A little message like that lets the other person know that you are thinking about them and wanting/needing their closeness. It does a lot for a relationship. You wouldn't think that a couple words on the computer (Like hubby and I do on chat) or text messages would do for your honey. Hubby sends me quick 1 sentence sometimes notes from work often and I love it. It tells me he thinks about me even at work while he's around other people and working with women co-workers and customers. It's a good thing.

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losthellhound

With my BlackBerry I can pretty much send as much as I want and I can type just as quickly on it as I can on a keyboard.. SO the dirty messages could get pretty long I can see the appeal for anticipation.. but not for the end all

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Candy Kane.... Candy Kane...

NeverBorn

STEXTING WHOSE STEXTING?!..

Lunchbox7

Ive done it heaps of times. I dont think it is sad. Just fun. SMSing is awsome to flirt with a girl you are not sure about the prospects of a relationship or not. People are more relaxed when they dont have you watching or listening to them. Its good mate