on orgasming!!
 

I have seen many posts on here about men getting off but none(so Far) about women! yes guys I know we have a whole section devoted to our bitching but i actually wanted to hear your take on this too!! so here it is ....
1.) Girls do you have a problem orgasming during oral?
I do and would appreciate advice!! and NO it has nothing to do with my partner not doing it right!!
2.) Girls I know this is gonna come out stupid but I am curious how many have only one orgasm compared to multiples and which do you prefer? I am a multiple person & prefer it that way but it doesnt always happen!!
3rd and last is really am I the only one type of question. I gush when I orgasm. and I don't mean lightly! I mean puddles (shudders)! My bf loves it but, I think it is absolutely embarresing and gross!! am I normal or not? For all you guys no its not a bladders mishap!!

you shouldn't be embarrassed. the best sex is messy sex :)

Sex is no fun without fluids spewing, or being exchanged.
From what I've heard, you are not normal, but not not normal either. Some can spray like old faithful, some can't. But it's definetly nothing you should be embarrassed about. In fact, I think I love you just because you can.:lol:

your in the minority... i know tons of guys that have only dreamed of a girl who squirts as they call it.

nothing is better than multiples ohhhh orgasms oh them too by far...

orgasming from oral, sometimes,,, i far prefer coming as i feel the guy squirting in my pussy

Wheee.. Shyla is a squirter too, and I love it :D

My ex would gush if orgasming by her g spot, but not when clitoral, though she said she preferred clitoral.

A female ejaculator! Crayzeeredhead I love you! Yummmmm. :O)
YOu will find lots of guys are very turned on by it and you have nothing to be ashamed of or grossed out about. You are uniquely sexy.
So you don't cum from getting licked? What gets you off then?

you should read the flood from the vagina monologues. as you've heard here, it's not normal or abnormal. it happens to some though. i hear it happens to a lot of women at some time, just maybe not as frequently or maybe only with certain types of stimulation. as far as the having trouble orgasming with oral, would it be possible that you feel self concious, even on a subliminal level, and so you are holding back? just one possibility.

female ejaculation is not uncommon. learn to love it... guys do!

That.. We do ;)

okay i mean i have trouble whne a guy preforms oral i however am fine in the self gratification department!!
Althoguh shannon is probably rihg tin my self conciousness and problem how do i fix it?

I have a problem like yours crayzeeredhaead, I cannot get off from oral sex...To be totally honest, I can only get off when i am on top in missionary position.

I wish i could get off from a BJ or handjob...Or even being in a different position while having sex...It just doesn't happen.

And about you being embarassed about your Ejaculating when orgasming...It's not something to be embarrased about. I wish I have had that expierence with a girl. Maybe someday.

IC3, consider yourself lucky! I wish I had that sort of stamina!

i'm like the opposite of crayzeeredhead and IC3. it's easier for me (depending on the performer, obviously) to orgasm during foreplay than during sex. usually the kind of stimulus i need to get off is different from what the guy needs to uh last long enough... if that makes any sense at all.