Holding yourself back....
 

I don't know if this has been done before or not, but here goes.

I was wondering if anyone else liked to hold back, or just lay there and let there partner have fun trying to get you to respond. I've tried the not responding thing once or twice and will admit I don't last long because I can't stand it and I have to join in! ;)

Yep, I think everyone does that. Especially guys, even if they don't know they are doing it.

It seems like if I try holding back I cum quicker. I find that if i quit worrying about how long I am going to last, I last longer and it is a more enjoyable sexual experience.

Me and Spinach did that one time. We took turns and it was so hottt. We kept our clothes on too. Whoever was trying to not react sat in a cross legged position on his bed and the other could move around freely. There was a lot of thigh rubbing and breathing in ears etc etc. I won, by the way, no contest. But it was still one of the hottest things we have ever done (not the kinkiest though!)

That's why being tied up / tying people up is so much fun. ;)

A good friend of mine and I used to do something similar. She worked as the manager for an appt. complex, and we could easily see out the front door toward approaching customers.

When no one was coming, and she was on the phone, I had the pleasure of teasing her mercilessly....one time I was on the phone with a friend of mine and she did the same....I must say, those were good times.

Like a hungry dog resisting a nice juicy steak, it's almost impossible!

hmmm, bad analogy

mmmm steak
now im hungry
:mad:

mmmmm I like analogs idea. TIE ME UP!!!!!!!!!
That is incredible. I think it is funny that guys think they should hold back.... like they can... and By the way, what we call it when a guy holds back,, foreplay!

you do have to let her get off... besides half the fun is watch her get off. either by you or when she rides ya!

my g/f does that to me everyonce awhile....its worse when im on the phone with my dad or mom...luckily because of the awkwardness i usually laugh and it sounds like shes tickling me instead.

I try to hold back.....rather, I don't think about it. I think of all the sexual things I want to try while in the moment so it keeps my mind (and body) busy for longer.

this in particular is something that i do enjoy from time to time.

basically take turns playing with eachother, unable to excersize your ability to move.

i guess kinda like being tied up. just no strings except in your head. I love it, especially when i see that devilish "im up to something" look flash across her face.

ya i have to agree it is a fun game....but i still like being tied up better =)

I can't hold back. If my woman even looks at my penis I start to get a stiffy. This can be good but can also be bad, like when we have an argument and she wants to "FUCK IT OUT" and I'd rather just be left alone.....at first, until she is nekkid.

edit: Damn, I'm weak.

Its a very fun game to try and do.... But, although I might say "no, no, no" parts of me say "yes, yes, yes" I think thats the part my wife listens to.

For guys: Spooning, get her really going and then when she pushes back you pull back.

Mind you, in my case it got me a slap.

Yep, great game.

"Let's see if you can make me move"

It's a fun challenge for them, it's a fun challenge for you. :)

ummm, tekaweni, BAD idea! Great if you don't pull back just not let her push back. Really Really bad if you pull away. Makes a woman feel undesirable like you just "got tired of it". Not a good thing to do, especially if you want some later.

control- a word or thing I am learning, but not succeeding well with, not that my b/f minds much!