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yes, I meant any *anal* although I havent had any sex at all for quite a while now, I would definitely like some more.
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It gets much worse... follow the link for more information. /end threadjack |
Probably quoted some other time before... but here it is just in case.
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but I am crazy about bum sex too, I LOVE being taken! Drives me crazy. :love: |
I definitely agree it has to do with domination/submission. Thats why giving and receiving get me equally hot.
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It's the forbidden fruit on the vine, the place you're not supposed to be, going where no man has gone before. That's my take on it.
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Um... for my $0.02, I'd only add that if you've already been having sex for a long time... what else is left (in THEIR minds)?
Plus then there's the tightness, of course, and I think on some level many guys like seeing that look on her face- not pain, mind you, but just.... "heyyyyyyyyyyyyyy", "that's a lot in there" which can be restorative for a smaller or thinner guy (penis-wise). It's just something else to try and conquer, plus IMO the feeling is way different. I hope the next mainstream sexual taboo will be more bondage. Mmmmmm... :) |
It's dirty, and guys are dirty.
Perfect for each other. |
Never really had any interest in it myself...
Sticking something in a hole designed soley for the purpose of exiting waste is not my idea of a fun time... To each their own though |
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tighter and feels different more personal/intimate kinky dominance/submission thing I want to be buried with my cack in a girl's ass |
Hmmm, maybe mine's a little different point of view. I'm married, and if she did give me a chance, it would mean that there was no more of her physical self to give. She'd be given me everything she could. That being said, if we did, and she was sure she couldn't ever like it, that would definitely be the end of it. I mean really , she gives me the most incredible blow jobs, 98% of the time we have sex. Could I ask for much more? Yeah, I love'er a lot.
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Ya know I find it unappealing. Have any of you had a Lower GI? Do any of you know what that is? Well I have had one, it's not fun. It's similar to the hole anal-sex issue and I found that it was far from fun.
Ok, don't tell me TMI cuz I know... A lower GI involves having the doctore put a small tube with a ballooning end up your ass. Then they slowly fill you up with barrium so they came take x-ray pics of your inards... It was kinda cold actually. It wasn't a very big tue either and it hurt, WITH the lube stuff. Look it was not fun and I don't intend on repeating it for any reason, medical of intimate. |
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I'm NOT into it at all. I've done it once with an ex when I was in the shower...felt like I had to take a huge shit the whole time. My current boyfriend is REALLY into it and keeps throwing out the idea...Remember to "just say no" I'm a pretty modest person, I haven't gotten to the stage in our relationship where I can take a shit in front of him yet...so him tooling around down there doesn't sit right.
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OK, the first time for me was an accidental. She had her legs over my shoulders, which rotated her hips quite a bit. We came apart a few times, and then one time I lined up wrong to re-enter. I thought the tightness as her kegel contractions from coming. She also was gasping, like having a good hard cum, which we'd been working on for some time. So I came. But then she asked me to pull out right away. Only after that did she tell me I'd been there.
She let me try it again later, but we didn't know about using lube, etc. and it wasn't good for her. Now I fantasize about anal a lot, but I don't ask me wife to let me. It really doesn't feel much different. It is the naughtiness and the receiver's submission that are hot about it. |
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From the women that I have been with it, it is like a second "G" spot. Their orgasms are harder and longer, and they are usually more "wore out" afterwards.
For me, I like the idea of her being aroused enough to "WANT" me to play with her and get "more" intimate with her. That means I am doing enough to please her enough for her to want me to go further. Done right it should NEVER hurt. I have NEVER had a women hurt during anal sex or play. But I have also read alot, learned alot, and most of all asked a lot while playing with her ass to know whether it is hurting or whether she is enjoying it and wants me to go further, deeper, harder, faster, ect. Talking during ass play is a MUST. You have got to know where she is at to know what is going on. I have had a women tell me she wanted it harder and deeper, AFTER lots of finger play and lube. LUBE and SLOW is the key. The same as the first time the same girl went down on me and stuck a finger in me while going down on me, I was a little tripped out, but she went slow and asked, and I had one of the biggest orgasms of my life. Together we had a blast. But we both went SLOW, talked and used lots of lube. After that she wanted it a lot. While she played with herself, during sex, ect. The key is to talk to your partner, go slow, and use lots of lube. Also doing it AFTER she is already turned on is a key. DrChezman |
I personally like it, but only with someone I love. I think the sexiness is in that it is giving up a whole new part of her, that she rarely has shared with anyone else.
Plus, it is tight and nice. :) |
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It seems to have been covered before, but since it's a question that is requiring a response.
I love anal, I love taking it (so far only self imposed). I have bought a strap on, but the wife is still hesitant. Slowly she is realizing how much I like it, but she is still very hesitant. She doesn't even like rimming. Some woman love it (like it) some are just so damn hesitant. I think the perfect woman is open to all kinds of sexual practice (that and intelligence) |
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ive done it a couple few times when girls wanted to or on like 2 occasions I got some urge to do it, my girlfriend is open to it but doesnt *prefer* it by any means and really neither do I.
Sure it feels good and is supposed to be against the norm or whatever but I would much rather have vaginal sex. feels better, less hassle, and many more options when it comes to positions. |
I absolutely love anal sex. Giving it, that is. It is so tight, and the woman can tighten and relax and control and it is like being milked. Sliding in slowly and out slowly , my gosh! Every single woman I have ever done anally has been an absolute orgasmic basket case afterward!
A man can't be greedy, though. There has to be foreplay and kissing and loving and lots and lots of warm up, and you have to let the lady push herself onto you as she is ready. Then, depending on the mood, it's either slow and steady, or gangbusters, and there is nothing in the world like that wonderful little brown hole! And women's hips make such great handles! Women are wonderful! Wonderful!:) |
Not for me.
Shit = nasty. Shit comes from the asshole. The asshole = nasty. That pretty much sums it up for me. Doggy style however... that's good stuff. |
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The look on her face >:@
hehe. and the fact that its taboo :D |
Maybe it has to do with a feeling of dominance.
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its really hot to think that two people can share every part of themselves....including their bodies.....
my only experience with anal i would hafta say was sexy, but only bordering on "good vibrations". we went slow and ended up stopping since it felt super weird.... i imagine once my body gets used to it...i will really like it and i think the taboo aspect of it comes into play alot, plus yes it is super tight. im not a "loose" person, but anuses arent meant to squeeze out babies, whereas vaginas are....so naturally its tighter....can be nice :) |
Guys are subconsciously bi-sexual.
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S'fun.
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If you are single and dating, I think it is easy to keep sex interesting.
But once married (at least for me) and the years roll on, sex tended to get a little monotonous. Anal sex gives you more variety and opens up your imagination to what can be pleasurable. I think my DH and I started having anal 3 years into our marriage. I was and am absolutely amazed with the added intimacy in our relationship. I truly believe that because we do the "naughty" it has made for an even greater emotional bond between us. 10 years later..... yay! |
we don't do it often but under the right conditions it can be great
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I'm sort of with Sparhawk on this one. You know the Greeks used to be into this a bit, from what I've heard, and it was all about one word : DOMINATION. You could take anyone in the a$$ you wanted to, but it was humiliating to give up your a$$ to someone else. I think it's mostly related to this issue, and if there's a little pain or discomfort, all the better, or a little taboo and naughtiness, it just makes the act of submission more satisfying.
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when all is clean (well scrubbed, showered and licked) anal is alot of fun. my husband tells me he likes the tightness...i like it because i am truly in control (hubby is terrified of hurting me in any way...he's so sweet!). clit must be included for me to cum. i think the original appeal must be the naughty, forbidden aspect.
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I used to date a girl that would put a vibrater in her ass when we had sex and it was great feeling her vibrate.
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Ok, I tried it for the first time two days ago. I got fully in one time before deciding that its not for me. I just didn't like it. Mainly, it fucking HURT me. I realize you generally view it as painful for the girl, but in my case it was pretty damn bad when I got in there. Just too restrictive I guess. I felt like my dick was suffocating.
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hmm to me its kinda like golf... you cant just play the first 17 holes (or 2 in this case) and quit...
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