Orgasm from intercourse alone/multiples
 

From reading some threads on this board you'd think most women out there are able to orgasm from intercourse alone, and that most women are multiorgasmic. Yet, when I hear "experts" talk, and read sex polls, it appears that most women can't cum from intercourse alone and can't have multiple orgasms.

So boys and girls, tell us about your experiences.

Girls, are you multiorgasmic? Boys (or girls), have you experienced a girl that is?

Girls, can you cum from intercourse alone? Boys (or girls), have you had sex with a girl that can?

Please describe your experiences.

My experience is mostly with women who didn't cum from intercourse alone and who were not multiorgasmic. The exception was this one girlfriend who had no limit to the number of times she could cum-- in fact she said she had 12 from one ongoing session of masturbation! Most of my lovers could cum from oral and from rubbing their clit during sex, but few could cum more than once. I had one lover who couldn't cum no matter what, but she had been raped and that's a totally different subject. My wife of 15 years only cums from rubbing her clit during sex and from oral (which I love to give). Her orgasms are very short (but sweet) and then she is done. Once she cums she cannot stand to have any pressure whatsoever on her clit as it is very sensitive. She has never had multiples. After reading about all the easy-cuming, multiorgasmic women who post on these boards, I must say I feel like I've missed out on a lot. :confused:

No. I don't have clitoral orgasms, which are the ones that can be multiorgasmic.

Yes, but not lately. Yes.

Motdakasha, I'm not sure which of my questions you are answering. Do you mean you only cum from penetration? When you masturbate do you not touch your clit or ??? Please clarify, and thank you!

I would really like to hear more girlies (and boys for that matter) talk about this. It's really bugging me.

Aladdin, every woman is different! I'm lucky, I cum mulitiple times during intercourse (that's the best for me actually). However, I only cum multiply times if the foreplay was wonderful! My clit, on the other hand, can get very sensitive and only enjoys so much stimulation before it begins to hurt. What matters most is having a lover that takes the time to know my body and "work it" well. I'd encourage you to enjoy your wife's body and not worry about what other woman are experiencing.

This is an exact quote from my post in the Ladies Lounge on the same subject.

No orgasms during sex, ever. It makes me so sad. I can almost always get myself off, but never in the presence of my man (unless he's asleep). Its totally a psychological thing, but it always gets the better of me. I think that the cause is an unpleasant experience with an ex. I'm not sure that I'm very comfortable talking about that in particular, but I know that whenever I have sex, and often when I begin to masturbate, I am completely in a void. Its still pleasurable, but the pleasure seems so distance and orgasm is totally out of reach. When I masturbate, I have to concentrate really hard, usually fantasize about specific things, and then I can make it. Even when I masturbate, if I am close, but then get distracted, I have to start all over again. I wish there was some way to fix me.

I've only dated one girlie who couldn't cum. She was an uptight christian and throughout her entire life she was taught that sex was nasty and dirty so she'll never be comfortable with her sexuality. The funny thing is her parents were weed smoking acid tripping hippies back in the day and they taught their kids to hate sex. Meanwhile they were getting high and fucked everything that moved. Fucking idiots! I swear the only time that bitch got a wet spot between her legs was when she pissed, was ragging it, or was taking a shower.

Until I dated that chic I never dated anyone who had trouble getting off, but I know many people who have girlfriends or whatever and their chics just can't get off. It's really pathetic to know how many girls are like that. If I ever meet another chic that can't cum I'm gone. I'm too horny and can't deal with having a girl that has no sex drive or doesn't enjoy it.

Siryn, first I want to thank you for being honest. I think this must be a very painful situation for you and not easy to discuss. My wife is like you in many ways. She can easily lose her concentration, and when she does she must start all over again. Often she can't get back to the excited state she was in and it's useless to continue. Just yesterday, we were having sex and suddenly I could tell that something was wrong. She said she was thinking about my love of porn (which she doesn't like, to say the least), and was now out of the mood. So this kind of thing happens with some regularity. I like to approach orgasm, then back away, over and over again, until the pleasure is too much to stop. My wife cannot back away because if she does she will never get back the feeling again. All of this is frustrating to me.

Siryn, I think your problem is purely psychological, as you said. If you've had some kind of trama in the past that can stick with you. Have you ever been able to orgasm with a man, or did the problem start after the bad ex? Perhaps you should seek help from a psychologist? It could help you. Do you ever listen to Loveline on the radio? I've learned lots from that program and Adam Corolla is a riot besides. You should tune it in and see if it gives you any ideas. Good luck.

The ex mentioned = first man I'd been with, so no I've never cum with a guy. I'm pretty sure I will bring it up with a psychologist the next time i can afford the time and money. Also, yes, I listen to loveline regularly - it rules.

My wife can come from penetration, oral stimulation or from clitoral stimulation. She always has multiple orgasms. I must be DAMN good, huh? :suave: :rolleyes: More likely, she's fantasizing about some stud. :p

My Ex could orgasm from sex but only once, it was in fact painful for her to have sex after she got off, My current girlfriend there is no end, both of us could go all day. But it is very hard for me to get her off orally, it takes along time, Im good at it, it just takes longer than sex does. I think it has a lot to do with you mindset and attitude toward sex. My ex was very worried about have an accedent and hetting pregnant, my gf now is a very sexualy person who tries to just enjoy it, with no external distractions. I think being in love helps too

This is difficult for me to answer
because from personal experience I have never been with a lady who has not cum with intercourse.
That is...if we have been able to complete the act. (there have been times where we have been interupted)

And most have been able to cum multiple time over a session.

I personally believe this has to do with the comfort level of the woman,
and the skill of the male, as well as his attention to her pleasure.

Since I tend to focus on her, rather than myself
and I have taken the time to make her feel comfortable,
maybe this is why I haven't experienced this issue during normal encounters.

However, I won't say that all encounters have been wonderful,
there have been difficulties & awkwardness in specific sessions.
But if given the chance to continue our intimacies,
then soon everything works out and we are able to give each other mutual pleasure to completion,
and multiple times.

Again, I believe it's attention to the pleasure,
and the comfort and sharing of the partners that allow BOTH to climax as many times as they would like.
Practice also helps too.

Don't expect first-time encounters to be the best,
if anything, they will be the worst,
as each person learns how to be comfortable around the other,
and learn each others' desires and rhythms.
I would expect more out of 2nd or 3rd time sessions.

Unfortunately, since people have a tendency to make a mountain out of a molehill,
and place certain expectations on encounters,
especially when it comes to sexual intercourse
2nd and further sessions are not given a chance.

People need to understand that it just doesn't happen always on the first time with a new partner.
Women are especially sensitive to this issue.

Expectations need to be realistic
Comfort levels need to be raised
Pleasures need to be explored
Attention & empathy needs to be applied

If this was allowed more often, and partners less selfish,
Then I think your stats and experiences would be more favorable.

All or nothing, is not a philosophy to be applied to sex.
It is not a sport.
The goal of sex is that BOTH sides win.

I personally find that given enough foreplay I can come from any or all stimulation. If my partner takes his time i can reach a point so when i feel him begin pumping in his orgasm it sends me into a multiorgasmic flutter. They do come in waves one after another... it is incredible....
The problem is most guys dont last long enough to get me to such a level or once there long enough to keep me there.. sigh... Well luckily my long term lover is one of the few that can. wooohhhooo.
I have never come from anal penatration alone but in a sandwich oh that can be the best...

Out of seven partners, 5 were able to orgasm from penetration , but only 2 were capable of multiple orgasms. One had a limit of 2-3 and the other could go for as long as you had energy to stimulate her. Of the two that couldn't one just couldn't orgasm unless she did it herself, and the other just didn't feel anything vaginally.

I've been able to give every one of my 7 or so serious girlfriend relations (over the years) multiple orgasms from internal intercourse stimulation only. What's the big deal? There are many kinds of O's. - DUH! I can give them with tounge on outside clit - or with hands or having reg. sex. No rocket science here.

This man is a genius! :) Can we clone you Rogue? :lol:
Okay...to answer the original question....
I am lucky enough to experience multiple orgasms with the right guy and sometimes from just intercourse but of course, it is very very much enhanced with a little bit of clit action (from either him or myself). The main thing is do whatever feels good, is right for both people and god damn it - have fun.....that's what it's all about! :D

I've only had sex with one guy (my current SO) so my experience might be somewhat limited. But I like what I have because I have never had a problem cumming more than once or with having multiple orgasms. It normally depends on how much foreplay there is and/or what he does.

I've been with both. One gf could only have one orgasm and usually during intercourse. After wards I couldn't touch her anywhere, everything from her nipples to her clit was to sensitive.
Several others were multiorgasmic. One gf had 9 orgasms the first time she really let me go down on her, wouldn't let me up for air. Another gf had multiple orgasms with oral, finger stimulation and during intercourse. I enjoy my gf orgasm most with oral stimulation.

Hmm, the almighty O.

I can have many, or I can have none.

My bf can do the exact same thing to me three nights in a row, and on the first night, I may have three. On the second night, none, and one on the thrid night.

Why? It depends on so many factors for me- my day, mood, time of day, temperature, how long foreplay was, how long it was since my last O was.

I basically call it my clit mood. If my clit is in a good mood, expect more than one.

I think that the biggest thing guys need to understand is that sex is fun with or without an orgasm. I enjoy the heat and the passion and the face my bf gets when he gets off. But mostly, I enjoy the fact that it is me with him. So even if I don't get off, I still had a damn good time.

I can have a orgasm through anything. Foreplay, masturbation, or intercourse. I don't really get the chance to be multiorgasmic because once I have mine and soak the entire bed (seriously its no little wet spot, it's like it just flies everywhere.) I get the feeling that I have to pee, and once that feeling is there I can't really enjoy myself after that. Having to get up and go piss and come back, it just kills my mood:( Even if I do only have one each time, its all good because it kicks ass:D

clitoral orgasms are great! i like em both. both clitoral and penetration. mmmmm. you know you've done a good job when i have to pee afterwards ;) i could probably go forever but my clit is so sensitive that i almost can't stand it when it's given direct stimulation for long periods of time. it feels damn good at the times i can stand it though.

Mrs. Creosote can have multiples from intercourse or clitoral stimulation. But never from a combination! If she cums from oral, she can't come from penetration, and vice versa! It's strange, but we make it work. :)

My SO has had multiple a few times with me, once during a 3 hour session, and once seemingly randomly. It seems that as we get better with each other, the more it happens. Then again, sometimes she can't at all, for the life of her, which is ok, because she enjoys it and I'll be trying just as hard the next time to please her.

Its fun, nothing gets me going like seeing her go through one of those multiples, makes me orgasm every time, hard.

:D

Girls, are you multiorgasmic?
No. I don't have clitoral orgasms, which are the ones that can be multiorgasmic.

Girls, can you cum from intercourse alone? Boys (or girls), have you had sex with a girl that can?
Yes, but not lately. Yes.

And motdakasha why not lately? Is it the guys you've been with or is it your own psychological state or something else altogether?