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Ok so for guys and girls-

For all the girls on birth control- do you allow a guy to finish inside you (nevermind how close you are, you do or you do not), and have you had any problems (pregnancies) because of it?

For guys, have you finished inside girls on the pill and ever had a problem?

I think my biggest target audience is couples here... they might know better from having done it a while.

Just a curiosity. And i DO mean actual ejaculation INTO the vagina, not a condom.

Dunta

Back when my wife was on the pill I always ejaculated inside her. Due to complications with the pill she had to go off of them. Now we pretty much use a condom which I still go inside her but the condom keeps it in control. Every now & then we will not use a condom and I usually pull out, but there are those times when I don't and I release it all up in her. It just feels too good to pass up, but we always have that risk that she will get pregnant. Been lucky so far I guess. Heck I even have a fantasy to eat my own cum from her cream pied pussy to help clean her up. lol

Thraeryn

I've always been a bareback kinda guy. I've used condoms in the past when asked, but nobody prefers the way a condom feels, so if the relationship is monogamous nobody asks. The only time I've worried about pregnancy was with my high school girlfriend. Between birth control and my tight-jeaned days in the 80s, nothing has ever happened.

iamjero

My current G/F was on the pill, but we decided it was best to be safe beacuse she is for abortion and I am not, so we decided it was best to avoid that conflict all togeather. The last girl I dated for about two years, she was on the pill, and I came inside her about once a day. No problems, but the cost if something would have happened would have been HUGE!

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rogue49

No problems here.
In the long-term relationships I've had, we were able to enjoy our times at full blast.

Sapper

Looks like quite a few of us rely on BCPs

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Charlatan

When my wife was on the pill (oh so long ago) I never pulled out. When she found that she felt better off the pill we moved to the condom and/or withdraw method (we were more or less trying to have another kid so pregnancy wasn't an issue per se).

Now that our second child has been born I've gone back to condoms and have just embarked on the ultimate in birth control... vasectomy.

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jimk

i ran pretty wild (condomless) for almost all of the '80s, and if a girl said she was on the pill, i'd shoot inside. i feel extremely fortunate because:

a) i didn't come down with the hiv

b) i didn't knock anyone up. i actually began to think that i was sterile, because i had heard of girls getting pregnant even when on the pill. but the wife & i just had our 2nd boy, so i guess my guys can swim after all.


the pill seemed very effective to me, and it's hard to beat coming inside!

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Sparhawk

Condoms are definitely the biggest drag to being single. They're enough by themselves to make me want to get into a committed relationship.

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Redlemon

Nice thread title: "...I didn't know she had the GI Joe Kung Fu grip!"

Anyway, we used condoms until marriage, which is when she went on the pill, and internal ejaculation was the norm. We waited until marriage for the pill, just in case of accident.

Went off the pill (with a condom-using transition as the chemicals left her body), and we had a child. Back on condoms for now.

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SiN

<-- on the pill, taken properly.

and we're both 'clean'. so, no condoms

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blackdas

how does one clean up after not using a condom? some girls i know didn't like having it dripping out for the next 30 mins X_X

Jim Kata

Squating over the toilet seems to help.

My better half is on the pill but I rarely finish inside her. I just pull out and try and draw a map of hawaii on her body.
I don't think we will ever use a condom again. They just stink and there is no fun going down on her after pumping her vajayjay for x amount of minutes. And she doesn't like the taste of the latex on my cockler once a condom is on. Stinky stinky rubbers.

vveronica

My kinda guy!!!!!!! Wooohoooo....
Been on the pill for years. Never a problem and I would hate to not be able to feel the sensation of that erection flooding in on me. It is SO stimulating... there is nothing like it...

Sapper

Just need something to remove the threat of STDs now !!

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wry1

I've been pretty lucky so far in the "condom/no-condom" respect....the last 3 women I dated all were unable to bear children so wearing one wasn't an issue - and since I always make sure both my partner and I are disease-free before taking her to bed, it was fun for everyone concerned.

However, I've used condoms in the past - and still do if I haven't had the "disease" discussion with a woman or discussed birth control. Once they come out with the male birth-control pill, I'll take it.....and someday I'll just get a vasectomy - but for now I want to be able to have the possibility of having kids at a later point in time.

raeanna74

I let a guy cum inside. I'm on the pill AND I'm nursing. Haven't even had a full fledged cycle even with the pills since my daughter was born. I'm on a high dose of estrogen because otherwise I can't control my headaches and some other things. Also (sorry if this is graphic) having had a C-section and knowing that the Dr actually pulled my uterus out of my belly and turned it over makes me suspect possible scarring and tissue damage of the fallopian tubes. I've known more than one woman in my family who had that sort of thing and was unable to get pregnant again even when they tried. So the combination of things makes me confident enough not to worry about it. NOW if there is any suspicion of disease then I may ask the guy to wear a condom but that's another story - not related to risk of pregnancy.

Oh and also I'm allergic to latex so it's only poly for me anyway. Kinda sucks

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JStrider

well arie just got on the pill... we havnt gotten to take advantage of it...(Grumble grumble... long distance blows grumble grumble...)

but before that we would occasionally not use em... it was nice but i was alway terrified till she had her period even tho i pulled out...

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siryn

I am on the pill, and yes, he always cums inside. Unless he cums *cough* elsewhere.

Harshaw

I'm thinking about asking my girlfriend about the pill when she comes back. I'm not really afraid of picking anything up from her. I HATE condoms, but currently they are the best choice.

How hard is it to go on the pill? What is involved? What are the costs?

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MSD

Sorry to go off topic, but I seem to remember hearing that it's not a good idea to be nursing while on the pill due to hormones being transferred to breast milk. Can someone clarify that for me?

Redlemon

I think it is in the "not proven to be safe" category, as opposed to "proven to be dangerous". Don't quote me on that, however.

World's King

It gets all sticky and drippy.


I like coming inside.

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em1014

I trust my bc pills so yes he comes inside of me. I mean nothing's ever 100% effective so 99.9% is about as close as I'm gonna get.

viejo gringo

A bilateral vasectomy will give you 30 years of no harm
just charm...and besides 6 kids is enough.

meff

Shyla is on Depo-Provera, I cum inside 2-3 times a day normally. No problems yet

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ismark

my wife is on the pill and we frequently have mutual orgasms so pulling out is not part of teh occasion if you know what I mean.

The only time she was off the pill was after the birth of my daughter, someone told me that breast feeding prevented ovulation, needless to say we now have two children 11 months apart (you do the math)

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Sparhawk

A girl might be better suited to answer this question, but what the hey...

The most important part about the pill is you have to take it. EVERY SINGLE DAY. If she is forgetful and misses days, that severely reduces that 99.9% effectivity. Check out <a href="http://www.plannedparenthood.org/bc/">planned parenthood</a>

From their website:

The cost of an examination by a private doctor may range from $50 to $125. Pills vary in price depending on the type and brand. A prescription can cost about $20 - $35 a month. Pills and the exams usually cost less in a family planning clinic. The pills are covered by Medicaid.

A bargain, considering the cost of raising a kid in the US nowadays.

sigma1042

i used to like cumming in my chick when she was on the pill,
now shes off it, so really not much of that going on anymore
she didn't like me cumming up there though because it took way too long to drain for her liking,
so normally i would finish more porno style :-)
kinda like the old map of hawaii, nice jay mohr reference jim kata

one of my friends has never used a rubber more than once and refuses to, makes all his gf's go on the pill, he's kind of a dick about it, he doesn't trim at all either, he's quite a catch...

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Hard8s

The wife had her tubes tied after the birth of our son, however she is back on Depo to help control her cycle. No worries about pregnancy here. So I fire away those little swimmers! They aren't going to find anything to impregnate anyway!

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quantumburnz

My girls on the pill, but we still use condoms, so double safe I guess you could say. It's much more fun without the condom though.... Maybe soon....

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TheOne

My gf is on the pill and we have had a scares but that is cause everyonce and a while she has forgotten to take it. But on the whole if the pill is taken correctly then there is almost no chance of pregnancy

numist_net

my g/f was on the pill, and it seemed to work pretty well on the off chance that I did finish inside her.

Unfortunately, it royally screwed with her health, so we decided to get rid of it.

So even if it is effective, some of those side effects can be limiting if they occur.

motdakasha

Some birth control affects breast milk, some don't, and some we're not sure of, yet.

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steve143

I didn't know she had the GI Joe Kung Fu grip.

daydream

I'd like to try letting my SO cum inside of me... just to see what it feels like (altough I've heard it can be messy and a lil uncomfortable afterwards) I'm on the pill and have been for a few months now... and I'm verry good about taking it at the same time every day... I'm still just too paranoid to try it...
However being on the pill stops ovulation, right? So maybe I shouldn't really be freaked out right... I mean if there's no egg there for the sperm to come in contact with...there shouldn't be a problem... right?

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prince_albert

voted: Don't want to / don't care to / other.*

to be honest, iv never try, sex that is!

Sensei

The gf I had who took the pill wanted to do so herself. I didn't complain and blasting inside feels so great!! *reminices*

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KingBastard

My answer was kinda short-sighted of "cumming inside is not a concern, nothing happens, birth control handles it."

It's really depends on the girl.
If we're together it's different than if I just met her.
Also, modern pharmacology rawks!

analog

We already have it- it's called a condom. Be responsible.