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[Jim morrison]I'm a back door man[/jm]

What the ladies of tfp like or don't like is not really the issue here. Your relationship with your wife is what matters. I suggest talking to her while you are not having sex. Maybe ask if she will be more open to using a toy, rather than her finger. And, just because you enjoy anal on you doesn't mean she will on herself.

Im not a lady , I like doing it to girls, some girls ive been with love it, My new Gf doesnt but i dont care , i love her.

Dude.. get yourself a butt plug and save yourself the worries.. as for her.. if she don't want it.. she doesn't want it...

the last answer is probably the right one, I am in a similar situation and have now accepted that is not part of what would otherwise a totally complete sex life.

like MoNoXiDe_XXX, i love my wife so it doesn't matter...

I've never tried it. I'm sure it would be a lot of fun but I've kind of got a mental block about it. After changing peoples' diapers, giving suppositories and enemas the idea of it kind of grosses me out. I'm sure this association could be unlearned in the right context though.

Sorry I can't be of more help. Have you asked your wife exactly what it is about anal play that she doesn't like? Maybe it's the idea that it's taboo or gross or dirty that she doesn't like....

Well, spontaneously no. If I know we are going there or there is a possiblity I will enema and then I feel clean and comfortable. As For enjoying it. It is okay. I mean it can be pleasureable but I never find myself in orgasm from it... Now a good sandwiching That can put me waaaaay over the edge. I'm small and my main partner is large. I usually take him in anally first and then if he is holding me, I am open and helpless for the other partner to enter my pussy. That is wild.... It is the feeling of both pressed so deep in me Ohhhh god!!!
With respect to your situation. Dont push her to try, it will only push her away. Best to find someone who does like it... If that is not the option and you want to try, the idea of having her do it to you might stimulate the thought in her. Good luck, it is not an easy thing to convince if her mind is made up.