<b>Harshaw</b>,
Judging by your last post, you're making plans for the rest of your life based on her , what she wants, and what she does. What about you? Don't you think you deserve to be at the center of your life's plans?

She's dancing around on you like this because you let her, and she knows you'll let her - that's why she threw you a bone in her last e-mail. She knows it will keep you in line until the next one.

Sorry to sound harsh here - you sound like a nice guy and I wish you the best - but it's time to grow a set, put your foot down, and stop being her doormat. As I said previously - You deserve better treatment than she's giving you. Whether she's being unfaithful or just inconsiderate - she obviously does not feel the same way about you that you feel about her. She's taking advantage of you, and you're allowing her to do it.

IMO - she's not a keeper. Move on - and good luck.

Reply to the email, and see if you can't ask her directly when she is planning on being back, and that you would like a concrete date that she will be back before.

My g/f and I talk on the phone more than 3 times a day, we are on the phone now. (I go to college in San Diego, and she is in high school in Marin county, basically 510.36 mile separation)

Keep at it, but get an answer to your question. This dancing around is obviously gone too far.

That's definitely a bummer bro, hope everything works out for you in the end.