I think I've had this problem also. As far as I'm concerned, if it makes her feel good she can soak me or my bed any time she wants. When it happened, I tried to let her know that, but I don't think the message got across.

Try requesting it before you get into foreplay. If she goes into the foreplay knowing you want her to do it and knowing you like it and are okay with it, that might change her tune. It's all about knowing when to bring it up. For instance, asking her to come on your face just before she's about to orgasm, when you haven't established already that it's okay, would probably be inappropriate and uncomfortable for her. Try asking her or talking about it when you're not about to fool around, too. Warm her up to the idea slowly. I'd suggest researching it and educating her: that it isn't pee and that you can't pee when you're having sex.

patience... no pressure...

sounds like MALE BUKKAKE!!!!! w00t!

I'm fairly certain I've seen this prostate fluid come out of my wife, but not in a large gush, just a big clear sticky drip.

Hmmm. Something to work towards. . .

I didn't even know women had prostates. Ya learn something new everyday.

so if its not pee what is it? I mean the real name for it and not a milky fluid or prostatic fluid.

Jim Kata - Women don't have prostate glands. From what I understand, they have a prostatic equivalent called the urethral sponge that surrounds the urethra along the ventral wall of the vagina.

B21 - I think it's just called female ejaculate...

Yes! From experience, the whole "gotta pee" feeling is probably the biggest problem to get around. Maybe talk about doing it (I think she'd like to know that you intend to get her to squirt) and if she's up to it, she should pee beforehand. So, when she feels like peeing a while later, she'll know that more than likely it is NOT pee, and it will make it easier.

Don't forget the towels (note plurality).

Haven't had this happen with any woman I've been with. Maybe in the future ....

It's called ejaculate. Chemically, it has a very similar makeup to the semen produced by men, just without the sperm.

Ahhhh, a goal.

ok I am definetly trying this out. This weekend if I see her. So the milky white secretion is not female ejaculation...? She always gets that when she has had a powerful orgasm.

If it oozes out, then it's either a) the vaginal equivalent of lube or b) yeast infection. Female ejaculate is often like a jet powered squirt and much more watery. I've read that it also has its own distinct flavor.

They don't.
Un-learn it.

/wonders if he had the sarcasm filter set too high?

Been there, done that. Sure is fun watching her get off like that.

Okay, I highly doubt it's a yeast infection. It's happened for quite some time now and it only happens when she has a powerful orgasm or many of them.

Well it would seem that some people here have trouble clicking on suggested links so I'll quote it here

I hope this clears some things up. If you need more information, go to femalesquirt.com and to the "Facts" pages.

I once had a girlfriend who was a gusher.


To this day I hope and pray that I can meet up with another woman who can do that, and do it regularly.

I absolutely love to get wet from her. There is something, well, liberating about it, you know? I just love it!

yes I'm dating a gusher now. Not just occasionally, almost every time.

Same here, my wife gushes just about every time we have sex. Pretty messy, but awesome when she does it.

"Same here, my wife gushes just about every time we have sex. Pretty messy, but awesome when she does it."


Guys, are these women the first you've ever been with that squirt? Did they discuss it with you the first time it happened or did they tell you it could happen before you had sex? I can imagine that some women might feel embarrassed about it (even though most guys find it extremely sexy).

I wonder what percentage of women ejaculate regularly? I'm 45 years old, I've had 30 or so lovers over the course of 30 years, and not one has ever ejaculated, as far as I know. I feel deprived. :>(

My girlfriend of two years is a gusher. First time she squirted, we had done a bunch of MDMA. She knew from the day she met me, that I was in to anything, very open sexually. All I know is the first time I think it shocked both of us. I learned the next day it was the first orgasm she had ever had. Now when we are having sex, she can orgasm tons, and gushes 10 or 15 times in one session. Because of the extra lubrication provided by the ejaculation, we can have sex for hours. I really think it is all about getting the girl to relax, making her feel truely comfortable with her body. I just hope the squirting never ends.

Add me to the list of gushers.

My wife does it so much during sex that we usually end up sleeping on towels on the bed afterward....

anybody know why this happens? can some women do this while others can't or is it solely a stimulation issue?

My ex-girlfriend used to ejaculate at times... It was fun.

did you go to the site MrFlux quoted before you asked these questions?

here are more googled sites:
http://www.very-koi.net/tutor/female/female.htm
http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm

oops sorry

i always try, but she always stops me if she thinks its going to happen... she closes her legs and is like NO MORE with a smile

It isn't pee.

If you think it is pee - you are incorrect.

That is all...

One reason I feel shy about ejaculating- and stop my boyfriend from taking me all the way- is that i think it's going to be a mess that will gross him out. If you want your woman to feel comfortable with it, assure her that you don't care about a mess. Tell her you hope it happens...

Never had it happen.. I knew it could happen, but I always thought it was a "this section of the population could do it"

i had an ex who did this once, she said sorry and was kinda embarased about the whole thing while i was asuring her that it was AWESOME!

my wife and i were actually just talking about this yesterday. i asked her if she ever felt like she had to pee while we were having sex and she said yes most of the time. so were going to try and see if we can get it to happen......ohhhhhhhhhhhh boy...lol

I make my wife gush all of the time. It is quite simple to do. I start by licking her for awhile until she is asking me to stick my fingers inside. At that point I take two fingers and start hitting her g-spot. Within a few minutes she is going carzy a drenching my face and the bed.

just so you all know, females don't cum like males do. when a female has an orgasm, she just gets really wet and the lube from inside her eventually drips out. in pornos, when girls cum, it's just piss. just so you all know

Umm, no, it is definitely possible for girls to "squirt" with no urine involved. I suggest you do a search on this subject.

wait... you're a guy, right? enough said

Biffy, I hate to break this to you, but I'm afraid you are.... wait for it... WRONG

a) Please read over the thread for the link I've posted, which happens to be written by *surprise surprise* a woman.
b) There are several women in this thread who have said that they can ejaculate, and it is not urine.

Please, only act like a know-it-all if you actually know it all :p

So let me get this straight. It's not pee?

JEEBUS FUCKIN CRIKE PEOPLE!! HOW MANY TIMES??

isn't it just lube being excreted in vast quantities and projected by vaginal contractions?

sorry to make it sound like a steam engine, ladies, I'm an engineer, not a poet, my words just come out like that

it's not ejaculations, once again
it's just lube. girls and guys orgasms are different