09-14-2003, 07:56 PM | #42 (permalink) | |
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09-15-2003, 06:51 AM | #43 (permalink) | |
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09-15-2003, 03:52 PM | #45 (permalink) |
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Um yeah, wow. I won't touch a girl that can't at least buy herself a drink.
Call me new-fashioned, but people are such an emotional crapshoot anyways, and it only gets worse as one goes farther down in age. I have trouble even with women my age (24) who have no idea what it means to function as an adult. Yeah I know, and I agree; men can be just as bad. I have no gender bias.
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09-15-2003, 05:19 PM | #46 (permalink) | |
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09-15-2003, 05:25 PM | #47 (permalink) |
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decided not to wade through all these posts, so forgive me if i'm repeating anything...
i think there's a distinct difference between ocularity and sexuality. i know i enjoy looking at women, and that given the current fashion trends and maturity-rate, it sometimes goes down to 16 or 17 years old 'fore i realize that i'm casing some prime jail material. that said, i think it's a huge risk to engage in sexual activity with anyone younger than a college student. having noted the huge difference in maturity and philosophical outlook in me when i got through my first year in college, i would assume the same change of personality in anyone else. therefore, anything below a college student i think is too large a gap.
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09-15-2003, 05:27 PM | #48 (permalink) |
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a good portion (10-25%) of my college are students who are under 18 and as young as 15. i recently went on a camping trip with a club at my college and more than half weren't of drinking/gambling age. where am i going with all this nitpicking?
my point is that when it comes to age, it's very unsafe to assume you're safe based on general observations (like college students are older than 16 or 17). if you happen to meet that needle-in-a-haystack-minor and assume she's older just because she's in college, you can get yourself into a lot of trouble (here, at least). you're better off asking instead of assuming. as for the guy above, thinking it's all cool if a girl can buy alcohol may work in this country, but be warned if she got it via fake ID or if you ever visit outside of the US. things are very different elsewhere. the average drinking age is 18, but can go even lower and is not as enforced as it is here. be careful.
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09-15-2003, 11:13 PM | #51 (permalink) | |
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09-16-2003, 05:24 AM | #53 (permalink) | |
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09-16-2003, 06:52 AM | #55 (permalink) |
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Well in your mind I suppose there is no too young. It doens't hurt to think about it. I'm not suggesting or condoning anyone's thoughts about 6 year olds but if it stays a thought no one's the wiser and it can't hurt. I think in reality 18 should be it. A lot of kids nowadays are having sex way to young and I really think it's messing a lot of people up.
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09-17-2003, 12:10 AM | #56 (permalink) | |
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09-17-2003, 12:44 AM | #57 (permalink) | |
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International comparisons don't make much sense here I guess. This is more a question of what each one of us thinks should be a legal or reasonable age. I know quite a lot of teenagers since I teach. Most of them, even when they are close to 18, don't know anything about life, family, politics, society and so on. To think that they could be fucking around and starting to get pregnant at this age or even below makes me loose my breakfast to the great white god. Yes, even some really young girls look hot but I think they don't know what they are doing. Me personally, I would not go near somebody below 18. Most probably I would be careful under 21. Even if the legal age would be between 16 and 18 I seriously doubt whether it would be clever to have sex with someone that young if you are older.
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09-17-2003, 02:58 PM | #58 (permalink) |
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Well answering this one from a girls perspective is a tough one... I was too you when I started, but I was stupid plus in a situation where there was not alot of options... But I can say by 14 I was personally mature enough to know what I was doing and especially to really really like it... Now I do know girls whos heads are not at that point at 14. But hey for me it was great.
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09-17-2003, 03:21 PM | #60 (permalink) |
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I would say in terms of my own daughter. I think 18 should be the limit of course that will depend on her maturity. BUT if she's determined and I feel she's mature enough then I think 16 would be the lowest limit. No matter what birth control choice that a girl makes there is still a small risk of pregnancy. For a girl under 16 to get pregnant is a big risk for her, disrupts her still maturing body, and under 16 she is not even able to support herself financially with a job without her parents consent. If you aren't mature and old enough to raise kids I don't think you should be fooling around. That said I was 24 before having sex and hubby was 21.
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09-18-2003, 04:36 AM | #62 (permalink) |
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what i dont get is...when i was 14 to 15 and up i never was thinking about sex and now im a month away from being 20 all i see around me is girls from the ages of 14 to 16 looking like they are 18 to 20 years old. what happened here? i never remember girls looking that way when i was that young and also whats going on where girls and boys are expermenting with sexual stuff right out of 5th grade!?!?! i mean damn what happened to our country?
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09-18-2003, 04:40 AM | #63 (permalink) |
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I am 26 and I don't think I have anything to gain mentally or physically from a young girl. Some are great to look at, but they do not have enough experience with life, sex, or the ways of the world to promote a mutually benefitical relationship.
I do understand the reason to have a legal age limit to concentual sex, but I can also see where a younger person, male or female, could learn a lot from dating someone older. IF the older person has a truly altruistic motive.
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09-23-2003, 01:49 PM | #64 (permalink) | |
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09-25-2003, 12:31 PM | #66 (permalink) |
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It totally depends on the age level of the participants. IMO, if the girl is under age 18, the guy better not be much older than 19. There is just too much of a difference in maturity at that age. When I was 18, I met 3 girls at a mall (13, barely 15 and 16). I ended up sleeping with one of the girls (the 15 year old who said she was 16) a few weeks later on. When I found out she was 15, it really bothered me at the time as it felt like she was just too young for me. Her friend (the 13 year old) asked to lose her virginity to me. I said absolutely no. As I got older, the range expanded. My wife is about 3 years younger than me, and I have slept with women 7 years younger and up to 13 years older than me. As were consenting adults at the time, it didn't bother me. However it was strange to think that when I was 18, these same women were 11 and 31.
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09-25-2003, 11:46 PM | #67 (permalink) | |
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There are certainly a lot of 14-16 year olds that are "hot". I know of a couple daughters of friends that look much older than their 14 years. One has fake ID that says she's 20! |
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09-25-2003, 11:59 PM | #68 (permalink) |
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Of course by "looking older" i mean they have some pretty sizable boobs. Back when i was that age girls were flatter than a prairie freeway. I've seen many 13 year olds with D cups spilling half out of their low cut tops.
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09-27-2003, 07:43 AM | #70 (permalink) | |
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09-29-2003, 04:21 AM | #71 (permalink) |
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Have you ever heard the song by custom called "Hey Mister" Well, it's a classic and i am sure that every guy out there can relate and every father of a teenage girl will cringe. (It's the old double standard isn't it. Boys are encouraged to chase girls to their heart's content, girls are kept a close eye on.) Here's the lyrics...... Hey Mister I really like your daughter, I'd like to eat her like ice cream maybe dip her in chocolate Hey Mister on your way over in your Volvo, suit, and tie Well, be crawling in your bed soon messing around, maybe getting high It's not what ya did, It's not what ya didn't God gave her a perfect body and now I'm all up in it. It's not she's a tramp. It's not she's not pure. She just likes getting her fuck on, and its good for that I'm sure Hey Mister I really like your daughter. When I'm horny like thirsty She's a bottle of water. Hey Mister how'd it get so bad You raised her so well and now she's calling me dad in the back seat naked of a new Volkswagen the perfect little gift for high school graduation. It's not what ya did, It's not what ya didn't God gave her a perfect body and now I'm all up in it. It's not she's a tramp. It's not she's not pure. She just likes getting her fuck on, and its good for that I'm sure Nana na nana na, Nana na nana na, Nana na nana na, ha hahaha ha ha haha I eat all the food in your fridge Call my friends around the world Rack up your long distance do Breakstands neutral drops Wreck all your cars Drink all the booze in your cheezy ass wet bar Order stuff on your credit cards Leave boogers in the skippy jar Smoke your cigars Answer the phone tell your boss you moved to mars When you call in late from work tell your wife You're at the titty bars It's not what ya did, It's not what ya didn't God gave her a perfect body and now I'm all up in it. It's not she's a tramp. It's not she's not pure. She just likes getting her fuck on, and its good for that I'm sure I can't lie I have to tell the truth My commandments says I'm a total spoof Your daughter's a freak Your daughter's a pro When i'm done with her She'll do one of your bros I hope I'll never have a daughter I hope I'll never have a daughter I hope I'll never have a daughter I hope I'll never have a daughter Nana na nana na, Nana na nana na, Nana na nana na, Nana na nana naaaaaa Last edited by james t kirk; 09-29-2003 at 04:25 AM.. |
09-29-2003, 03:39 PM | #73 (permalink) |
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Well, sorry to go against the flow here.... but I just got out of a relationship with a 16 yr. old. And she just turned 16 too. Both her and my parents were ok with it, so we saw no reason to hold ourselves back from being together. She was much more mature at 15 and 16 then most 30 yr olds can even dream of.
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09-30-2003, 09:47 AM | #75 (permalink) |
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i did a lot of water quality studies when i was in high school with the state and we found that when water was purified, estrogen wasnt filtered out... so basically on top of what a young girl's body produces theyre getting even more out of tap water. and theyre starting to believe that is another reason for girls maturing so fast. kinda scary if they dont figure out something to do about that.
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10-03-2003, 03:33 PM | #77 (permalink) |
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already been said, but its really the maturity of the person. My g/f's first was when she was 15, with me. I think that, for the most part, 14 is too young, but if you are able to truly think responsibly about it, then you are old enough, I think. (then again, that excludes a lot of my friends here in college, whose mental age is in the single digits :P )
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10-05-2003, 03:59 PM | #79 (permalink) |
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Im in my late 30's and I find womyn near to my age, and 10 years either side my age sttractive. I can't imagine being with anyone younger than 26.
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10-05-2003, 04:03 PM | #80 (permalink) |
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I think 18 is as young as it should go--anything below that and it starts making people think it's ok to go for girls younger than that when they're too old. girls younger than that may be mature, but for the sake of society it's much better if we don't go lower.
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