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SabrinaFair · 09-09-2003, 12:09 PM

Hey all...

I think we would all agree that sex rocks. Having said that, I was wondering if anyone here ever likes to take a night and just make out. That's all--just lots and lots of kissing. That was basically my expierence this weekend, and it was so much FUN. Granted, it had a lot to do with the person I was with, but some of it was just because I wasn't worried about being a good lay or getting off. We just made out like freshman. So anyways--what do you all think? Can you go sans orgasm/sex/petting/whatever and just make out? Or will you do this for your partner although its not your thing? Thank y'all, and have a lovely day.

Averett · 09-09-2003, 12:14 PM

Yes yes yes! Theres nothing wrong with a good make-out session. This is one thing I miss alot since I've been single. Which has been too damn long..

livingitup101 · 09-09-2003, 12:21 PM

I would do it for my partner if it were...her thing. As much as we both enjoy kissing, we'd rather the kissing end with something more physical. I would definitely give up a night of sex, petting, etc. if she were up for it. I just don't think she'd be up for just that.

Silvy · 09-09-2003, 12:26 PM

A good make-out session never hurt!

Though I find it hard to control myself and not go further... But: kissing is good!

firebirdta · 09-09-2003, 12:27 PM

I think that sometimes making out can be far more sensual than actually having sex. It's all about the mood and how it's done.

anti fishstick · 09-09-2003, 12:32 PM

yes. i have made out for hours. it's quite fun. i'm a makeout whore.

Dano069 · 09-09-2003, 12:36 PM

Yes, the wife and I love makeout sessions! She kisses so well and I love kissing her lips and face and neck. Getting hard just thinking about it.

jimk · 09-09-2003, 12:59 PM

y'know, my wife & i just had one last weekend.......it's been a long time, with two small boys around, we usually just want to sleep (on a good day) or throw something at each other (bad day).

it was great. made me remember why married her.

aintyoboyfriend · 09-09-2003, 01:51 PM

this thread makes me sad. I miss sitting around my house all afternoon, just making out all day. Ahh, I am sure that those days will come with someone new, sometime soon!

aestivalis · 09-09-2003, 01:57 PM

There are times just making it out much more relaxing than going "all the way"...

But there are also times it seems easier to go "all the way" than just kissing! Ü

skysooner · 09-09-2003, 01:59 PM

When my wife was pregnant in the late stages and shortly after the birth we couldn't have sex. This was about the only thing to do, and it was still fun.

blade02 · 09-09-2003, 03:15 PM

my girl and I do that sometimes. I love it. Lately since we're in different cities now, We always try to take a day of just making out and getting to know eachother again. The rest of the time we get to business, but theres something about her, that just makes me love making out with her, sometimes more than having sex.

meff · 09-09-2003, 04:18 PM

I'm not a huge fan of kissing, for reasons I won't get into, but when I am open to it, me and my wife do this sometimes, but I dunno if I could hold back going further, we both start sneaking into each other's pants

SabrinaFair · 09-09-2003, 04:35 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by aintyoboyfriend
this thread makes me sad. I miss sitting around my house all afternoon, just making out all day. Ahh, I am sure that those days will come with someone new, sometime soon!

Aww...I didn't mean to make anyone sad. I'm sending good thoughts your way.

bermuDa · 09-09-2003, 04:55 PM

making out is too fun!!... I haven't had a chance to try out my tongue ring since I got it about 8 months ago =\

sigh... maybe someday soon

Realizm · 09-09-2003, 04:56 PM

I could kiss all day long. Kissing is fun.

bundy · 09-09-2003, 05:14 PM

i love kissing.
theres been many a time where i've had make-out sessions... and preferred it to some of the sex i've had.
but i haven't had this in ages.

Halx · 09-09-2003, 05:17 PM

You could have so much fun without taking off too much clothes. It's really great that people can appreciate this. The pressure when you're young is to have as much sex as possible... it could end up ruining the mindset of too many people. Sex is great, but it's magnificent if you have to wait for it.

kittenpie · 09-09-2003, 05:39 PM

Why is it that so many of us let go of the making out soon after the initial stages of a relationship? Kissing and groping and lusting and wanting and needing are what brought so many of us together in the first place. We should all treasure and relish those moments...and keep them alive! Kiss, touch, feel...do it every chance you can, people. It's the hottest thing going!!!

JStrider · 09-09-2003, 05:59 PM

hmmm now that i think about it... arie and i dont do enough making out... we usually advance to more pretty quick...

making out is a ton of fun... next time i think we'll do that more...

motdakasha · 09-09-2003, 07:17 PM

haven't found someone that i really enjoy making out with, but if i do, i'm sure i'll do it a lot.

sexymama · 09-09-2003, 07:25 PM

Absolutely on both accounts! It sounds like fun actually and something I haven't thought of doing exclusively for a long time -- hmmmm.

Battlefield · 09-09-2003, 07:55 PM

No I've never "taken a night out" to just make out. Sometimes that's all I get : ( My gf isn't what you call sexually aggressive. Also when shes having her period make out is pretty much all she wants to do...

siryn · 09-09-2003, 09:44 PM

YES! You're right sex rule and everything, but making out definately can be enjoyable by itself occassionally. A lot of the time, my bf and I start out with just kissing in mind an of course it leads elsewhere, but hey.

I once knew a girl who prefered kissing by far to sex, not because she was prude, but because she thought you could learn a lot more about a person from a kiss rather than fucking. She made out a lot!!!

GrayWolf · 09-09-2003, 10:35 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Averett
Yes yes yes! Theres nothing wrong with a good make-out session. This is one thing I miss alot since I've been single. Which has been too damn long..

*hug* I feel your pain :P.

Anyway, given the fact that I am relitivly inexperienced when it comes to sex, a night of kissing (WITH A GOOD KISSER!) can be just heavenly.

Note the good kisser part.

Sparhawk · 09-10-2003, 04:58 AM

There's something about being on a dancefloor, cradling a beauty in your arms, and just making out for song after song...

One of the reasons I'm one of the few straight men who enjoys dancing :-)

Averett · 09-10-2003, 05:03 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by GrayWolf
Anyway, given the fact that I am relitivly inexperienced when it comes to sex, a night of kissing (WITH A GOOD KISSER!) can be just heavenly.

Note the good kisser part.

Yup, a bad kisser is not a good thing. My ex-boyfriend... I realize now that he was a horrible kisser. I think he was trying to make a hole in the back of my throat or something.

I haven't kissed that many guys. 2 come to mind that I really really enjoyed. Hopefully I'll get the chance again soon with one of those guys

So.... wanna make out later GrayWolf?

GrayWolf · 09-10-2003, 05:36 AM

Ohhh baby.

World's King · 09-10-2003, 07:57 AM

Oh... I like the kissy-kissy.

Very nice for me.

oberon · 09-10-2003, 10:01 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Averett
Yes yes yes! Theres nothing wrong with a good make-out session. This is one thing I miss alot since I've been single. Which has been too damn long..

That can be easily solved.

Sleepyjack · 09-10-2003, 10:48 AM

Averett seems to be quite popular with the boys around here

@GrayWolf
Yah, i am a pretty good kisser (so i think?), so maybe we should get together. You didn't say anything about a guy or not

Back to the topic at hand. I haven't really made out like that since high school and nowadays seem more interested in sex and more physical stuff. Maybe should try changing that up next time. Although i join the rest of the singles to pine about redigest past regrets/thoughts

Averett · 09-10-2003, 10:55 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sleepyjack
Averett seems to be quite popular with the boys around here

I'm not complaining

Troublebot · 09-10-2003, 12:00 PM

Use to have a girlfriend that was great at making out. Good at all the rest of the stuff too, but GREAT at making out. Hours on hours of just kissing.

Too bad she started dating girls.

Making out with someone who's good at it can be just as good, if not better, than sex. (Can't believe I said it, but it's true.)

Captain Canada · 09-11-2003, 01:54 PM

Yeah, a good night of making out is amazing. I'll go for it any day. Its usually what my girlfriend and I end up doing. We dont put much importance on sex.

sailor · 09-11-2003, 02:22 PM

Yeah, its a lot of fun, as long as the person you are kissing is a good kisser. My last girlfriend was pretty good at it, but the last girl I made out with was horrendous. I dont know if it was the alcohol (I hope it was), but i thought she was going to swallow my face. It was a bad makeout session.

motdakasha · 09-11-2003, 03:44 PM

Hmm, this thread got me thinking in a roundabout way and I made a connection. Here is the conclusion I came to:
Kissing (mouth open, with tongue) reduces heartburn.

Here's my logic:
mouth open, with tongue == lots of saliva
sucking on hard candies == lots of saliva
lots of saliva == reduces level of acidity
reduced acidity == reduced heartburn

Reference: http://www.heartburnalliance.org/section3/1020.jsp

Can anyone *ahem* research this for me and tell me the results? ;D

sta500 · 09-11-2003, 03:49 PM

I'll have to try this sometime. Kissing is good and all, but a whole night of it? I tend to get bored after like 10 minutes. Hah, I'm pathetic.

meff · 09-11-2003, 04:01 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sta500
I'll have to try this sometime. Kissing is good and all, but a whole night of it? I tend to get bored after like 10 minutes. Hah, I'm pathetic.

Bored? More like, your tongue would be sore.. But I think I've mainly strengthend mine by doing various other activities

daydream · 09-11-2003, 05:30 PM

It's great just to be with someone and just kiss them... and It's fun to have a good old fashioned make-out session but at times kissing like can be such a turn on for me... that it can be hard to just keep it at that level

anti fishstick · 09-11-2003, 05:43 PM

my longest makeout session was close to 3 hours :-D :-D

09-09-2003, 12:09 PM	#1 (permalink)
SabrinaFair Junkie Location: Louisville, KY	Making out? Hey all... I think we would all agree that sex rocks. Having said that, I was wondering if anyone here ever likes to take a night and just make out. That's all--just lots and lots of kissing. That was basically my expierence this weekend, and it was so much FUN. Granted, it had a lot to do with the person I was with, but some of it was just because I wasn't worried about being a good lay or getting off. We just made out like freshman. So anyways--what do you all think? Can you go sans orgasm/sex/petting/whatever and just make out? Or will you do this for your partner although its not your thing? Thank y'all, and have a lovely day.

09-09-2003, 12:14 PM	#2 (permalink)
Averett Is In Love Location: I'm workin' on it	Yes yes yes! Theres nothing wrong with a good make-out session. This is one thing I miss alot since I've been single. Which has been too damn long.. __________________ Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.

09-09-2003, 12:26 PM	#4 (permalink)
Silvy paranoid Location: The Netherlands	A good make-out session never hurt! Though I find it hard to control myself and not go further... But: kissing is good! __________________ "Do not kill. Do not rape. Do not steal. These are principles which every man of every faith can embrace. " - Murphy MacManus (Boondock Saints)

09-09-2003, 12:27 PM	#5 (permalink)
firebirdta Crazy	I think that sometimes making out can be far more sensual than actually having sex. It's all about the mood and how it's done. __________________ "Even if you prove me wrong, I'm not going to believe you." - A. McGill

09-09-2003, 12:32 PM	#6 (permalink)
anti fishstick Post-modernism meets Individualism AKA the Clash Location: oregon	yes. i have made out for hours. it's quite fun. i'm a makeout whore. __________________ And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. ~Anais Nin

09-09-2003, 12:21 PM	#3 (permalink)
livingitup101 Crazy	I would do it for my partner if it were...her thing. As much as we both enjoy kissing, we'd rather the kissing end with something more physical. I would definitely give up a night of sex, petting, etc. if she were up for it. I just don't think she'd be up for just that.

09-09-2003, 12:36 PM	#7 (permalink)
Dano069 is Nucking Futs! Location: On the edge of sanity	Yes, the wife and I love makeout sessions! She kisses so well and I love kissing her lips and face and neck. Getting hard just thinking about it. __________________ I may look attentive, but I'm taking peeks down your blouse faster than the human eye can follow.

09-09-2003, 12:59 PM	#8 (permalink)
jimk Addict Location: Chicago	y'know, my wife & i just had one last weekend.......it's been a long time, with two small boys around, we usually just want to sleep (on a good day) or throw something at each other (bad day). it was great. made me remember why married her. __________________ raw power is a guaranteed o.d. raw power is a laughin' at you & me -iggy

09-09-2003, 01:51 PM	#9 (permalink)
aintyoboyfriend Insane Location: Arlington, VA	this thread makes me sad. I miss sitting around my house all afternoon, just making out all day. Ahh, I am sure that those days will come with someone new, sometime soon!

09-09-2003, 01:57 PM	#10 (permalink)
aestivalis Upright Location: Philippines	There are times just making it out much more relaxing than going "all the way"... But there are also times it seems easier to go "all the way" than just kissing! Ü

09-09-2003, 01:59 PM	#11 (permalink)
skysooner Registered User Location: Oklahoma	When my wife was pregnant in the late stages and shortly after the birth we couldn't have sex. This was about the only thing to do, and it was still fun.

09-09-2003, 03:15 PM	#12 (permalink)
blade02 Insane	my girl and I do that sometimes. I love it. Lately since we're in different cities now, We always try to take a day of just making out and getting to know eachother again. The rest of the time we get to business, but theres something about her, that just makes me love making out with her, sometimes more than having sex.

09-09-2003, 04:18 PM	#13 (permalink)
meff Vanishing, like I do.. Location: Austin, TX	I'm not a huge fan of kissing, for reasons I won't get into, but when I am open to it, me and my wife do this sometimes, but I dunno if I could hold back going further, we both start sneaking into each other's pants __________________ Toy-like people make me boy-like.

09-09-2003, 04:55 PM	#15 (permalink)
bermuDa don't ignore this--> Location: CA	making out is too fun!!... I haven't had a chance to try out my tongue ring since I got it about 8 months ago =\ sigh... maybe someday soon __________________ I am the very model of a moderator gentleman.

09-09-2003, 04:56 PM	#16 (permalink)
Realizm Insane Location: A fuzzy cloud.	I could kiss all day long. Kissing is fun.

09-10-2003, 05:36 AM	#28 (permalink)
GrayWolf Tilted	Ohhh baby. __________________ They are too young when you start worrying that they might be too young. 18 is my lowest limit. I'm going to be 25 next month.. No piece of ass is worth getting pounded in my own. - Johnny Rotten (I laughed for so long when I read this...)

09-09-2003, 05:14 PM	#17 (permalink)
bundy . Location: Tokyo	i love kissing. theres been many a time where i've had make-out sessions... and preferred it to some of the sex i've had. but i haven't had this in ages. __________________ Ohayo!!!

09-09-2003, 05:17 PM	#18 (permalink)
Halx Please touch this. Owner/Admin Location: Manhattan	You could have so much fun without taking off too much clothes. It's really great that people can appreciate this. The pressure when you're young is to have as much sex as possible... it could end up ruining the mindset of too many people. Sex is great, but it's magnificent if you have to wait for it. __________________ You have found this post informative. -The Administrator [Don't Feed The Animals]

09-09-2003, 05:39 PM	#19 (permalink)
kittenpie Upright	Why is it that so many of us let go of the making out soon after the initial stages of a relationship? Kissing and groping and lusting and wanting and needing are what brought so many of us together in the first place. We should all treasure and relish those moments...and keep them alive! Kiss, touch, feel...do it every chance you can, people. It's the hottest thing going!!! __________________ She had diamonds on the inside. ~Ben Harper

09-09-2003, 05:59 PM	#20 (permalink)
JStrider Poo-tee-weet? Location: The Woodlands, TX	hmmm now that i think about it... arie and i dont do enough making out... we usually advance to more pretty quick... making out is a ton of fun... next time i think we'll do that more... __________________ -=JStrider=- ~Clatto Verata Nicto

09-09-2003, 07:17 PM	#21 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	haven't found someone that i really enjoy making out with, but if i do, i'm sure i'll do it a lot. __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)

09-09-2003, 07:25 PM	#22 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	Absolutely on both accounts! It sounds like fun actually and something I haven't thought of doing exclusively for a long time -- hmmmm. __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.

09-09-2003, 07:55 PM	#23 (permalink)
Battlefield Crazy	No I've never "taken a night out" to just make out. Sometimes that's all I get : ( My gf isn't what you call sexually aggressive. Also when shes having her period make out is pretty much all she wants to do...

09-09-2003, 09:44 PM	#24 (permalink)
siryn Tilted Location: Long Beach CA	YES! You're right sex rule and everything, but making out definately can be enjoyable by itself occassionally. A lot of the time, my bf and I start out with just kissing in mind an of course it leads elsewhere, but hey. I once knew a girl who prefered kissing by far to sex, not because she was prude, but because she thought you could learn a lot more about a person from a kiss rather than fucking. She made out a lot!!!

09-10-2003, 04:58 AM	#26 (permalink)
Sparhawk Dubya Location: VA	There's something about being on a dancefloor, cradling a beauty in your arms, and just making out for song after song... One of the reasons I'm one of the few straight men who enjoys dancing :-) __________________ "In Iraq, no doubt about it, it's tough. It's hard work. It's incredibly hard. It's - and it's hard work. I understand how hard it is. I get the casualty reports every day. I see on the TV screens how hard it is. But it's necessary work. We're making progress. It is hard work."

09-10-2003, 07:57 AM	#29 (permalink)
World's King Here Location: Denver City Denver	Oh... I like the kissy-kissy. Very nice for me. __________________ heavy is the head that wears the crown

09-10-2003, 10:48 AM	#31 (permalink)
Sleepyjack Fast'n'Bulbous Location: Australia, Perth	Averett seems to be quite popular with the boys around here @GrayWolf Yah, i am a pretty good kisser (so i think?), so maybe we should get together. You didn't say anything about a guy or not Back to the topic at hand. I haven't really made out like that since high school and nowadays seem more interested in sex and more physical stuff. Maybe should try changing that up next time. Although i join the rest of the singles to pine about redigest past regrets/thoughts

09-10-2003, 12:00 PM	#33 (permalink)
Troublebot Intently Rocking Location: Davey's	Use to have a girlfriend that was great at making out. Good at all the rest of the stuff too, but GREAT at making out. Hours on hours of just kissing. Too bad she started dating girls. Making out with someone who's good at it can be just as good, if not better, than sex. (Can't believe I said it, but it's true.) __________________ Howard Moon: The wind is my only friend. Wind: [whistling] I hate you.

09-11-2003, 01:54 PM	#34 (permalink)
Captain Canada Addict Location: University of North Carolina at Greensboro	Yeah, a good night of making out is amazing. I'll go for it any day. Its usually what my girlfriend and I end up doing. We dont put much importance on sex.

09-11-2003, 02:22 PM	#35 (permalink)
sailor beauty in the breakdown Location: Chapel Hill, NC	Yeah, its a lot of fun, as long as the person you are kissing is a good kisser. My last girlfriend was pretty good at it, but the last girl I made out with was horrendous. I dont know if it was the alcohol (I hope it was), but i thought she was going to swallow my face. It was a bad makeout session. __________________ "Good people do not need laws to tell them to act responsibly, while bad people will find a way around the laws." --Plato

09-11-2003, 03:44 PM	#36 (permalink)
motdakasha Hiya Puddin'! Miss me? Location: Silicon Valley, CA	Hmm, this thread got me thinking in a roundabout way and I made a connection. Here is the conclusion I came to: Kissing (mouth open, with tongue) reduces heartburn. Here's my logic: mouth open, with tongue == lots of saliva sucking on hard candies == lots of saliva lots of saliva == reduces level of acidity reduced acidity == reduced heartburn Reference: http://www.heartburnalliance.org/section3/1020.jsp Can anyone ahem research this for me and tell me the results? ;D __________________ =^-^= motdakasha =^-^= Just Google It. BA Psychology & Photography (I'm not going psychoanalyze you nor will I let you cry on my shoulder. Have a nice day.)

09-11-2003, 03:49 PM	#37 (permalink)
sta500 Tilted	I'll have to try this sometime. Kissing is good and all, but a whole night of it? I tend to get bored after like 10 minutes. Hah, I'm pathetic.

09-11-2003, 05:30 PM	#39 (permalink)
daydream Crazy Location: Long Island, NY	It's great just to be with someone and just kiss them... and It's fun to have a good old fashioned make-out session but at times kissing like can be such a turn on for me... that it can be hard to just keep it at that level __________________ "Can't help it if I space in a daze, my eyes tune out the other way... I may switch off and go in a daydream... in this head my thoughts are deep, Sometimes I can't even speak, would someone be and not pretend, I'm off again in my world" Last edited by daydream; 09-11-2003 at 05:34 PM..

09-11-2003, 05:43 PM	#40 (permalink)
anti fishstick Post-modernism meets Individualism AKA the Clash Location: oregon	my longest makeout session was close to 3 hours :-D :-D __________________ And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. ~Anais Nin