My gf allways get an orgasm before i do...
 

this is a little funny.. because when i have sex with my gf she allways gets there before i do :( .. so she has to finish with a BJ
i thinks shes a little to sensetive ( ? ) dont you think?

any suggestions?

well, girls are biologically wired to go at the same time or before a guy. they're orgasms are partially supposed to help trigger the guy to come.

try asking her to give you more foreplay before having sex. both of you do more kegels, too.

you lucky barstard.. out of all the times that I've made love to my girl I've only had it happen a few times.. meh.. :(

And if that's true Motdakasha.. then what am I doin wrong O_o

Yeah dawg, consider it payback for all of those goofy broads that can never cum

She can only come once and she's finished? My current gf will have an orgasm and once she is done I'll just keep pounding away. She averages at least three or four during a session.

Is she objecting to you finishing with sex? Girls can have more than one if they are lucky :)

What, are you nuts? My wife always gets off before I do. I plan it that way. Count your lucky stars on this one boyo. I had a girlfriend I couldn't get off no matter HOW HARD I tried. You're one lucky SOB. Join the club.

The only thing she wants is for me to stop while she is having the orgasm. Which is good because I usually need a breather. :) Once she is done I'll start off slowly again and work towards her next. Sometimes I get jealous though because she'll have 3 or 4 and I'm still working on my first! I still consider myself very lucky because she is the only woman I have been with who can orgasm from intercourse and she can do it multiple times at that.

I don't see where the problem is ;)

You are the MAN!!! Pat yourself on the back and have a cigar. If I ever meet you, I want to shake your hand.

uh.... she says stop after one? Tell her to sit back and enjoy three more. I've never had my girlfriend complain about it being too long and I can last a pretty long time most of the time.

Usually a woman will tighten up and become more sensitive immediately after an orgasm. It sounds like you are doing the correct thing by stopping or slowing way down for a bit and then starting up again. You are a lucky man.

... And you're complaining because... ??

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my thoughts exactly

hmm....

Re: My gf allways get an orgasm before i do...
 

I always try to hold off till the girl comes first.
I have enough control that most of the time I suceed.

Then I slow down but keep the strokes coming and slowly speed up again. This brings the girl back into it and if you are lucky she has a second whilst you have your first. If she doesn't have a second she isn't likely to mind too much as she did have one and some more pleasure on top.

*hope this doesn't sound like bragging (false or otherwise)*

Re: Re: My gf allways get an orgasm before i do...
 

finally someone who gave me an answer... hehe thx :P

She must be very sensitive for long periods down there...my gf gets off a minimum of 6 times every time we have sex. I'm the one who hardly ever gets off. I've trained myself too well to hold off and now can't let go very easily since I get into watching her get off so many times and not trying to get mine. At least she finishes you and doesn't play Dr. Rolloff.

My only advice would be to have extended foreplay and have her really get you close before you get down to business.

What I don't get is why doesn't she still let you have sex with her after she came? My wife cums many times during sex and she just keeps going, she used to do alot of kegel exercizes but I told her to stop for awhile because she can squeeze me so hard I fly out and end up fucking her clit, which I guess isn't that bad after all ;)

My gf always brags about our sex...always make her cum during the act...before I do. I guess I should be proud? I really want to cum with her at the same time.... guess im harder to get off. dunno. confused. sleep. *rem*

What? What what what? Does she say "I'm done, so you pull out *now*" Man, that's selfish. I don't know how many times I orgasm before my hubby jizzes, we just keep going until he does. If I get too tired, or he does, we switch to alternatives, but I would *never* make him pull out cuz I was "done".
More orgasms= GOOD

Shit, man, ditch the girl and get a vibrator.

Hey, consider youself lucky - better than none at all!

it's a crazy world we live in...

Re: Re: My gf allways get an orgasm before i do...
 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Marius1
[B]I always try to hold off till the girl comes first.
I have enough control that most of the time I suceed.

The exact way to go!