dillPickle

how did you feel about losing your virginity?
If you could lose it again, would you? Or do you prefer sex as an an experienced person

Charlatan

Losing it was a big thing until I lost it... After losing it I realized that it wasn't all that big of a deal.

The one thing I would change was who I lost it to and how. It was all rather tawdry.

As for regaining my virginity. No thanks. I enjoy sex much more now that I know what I'm doing.

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Averett

I wouldn't take it back. I loved my boyfriend, and I'm glad it happened the way it did.

How did I know he was going to turn out to be such a jerk?

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tenchi069

I gave my virginity to the woman I love and am planning to marry. I don't regret it, and would make the same choice again and again if I had to go back in time to make it.

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dillPickle

a friend of mine ordered an escort the night after his birthday, and it got me thinking about what an awful way to lose your virginity.
I wouldnt need to lose it with another virgin per say, but i would have at least wanted it with someone i cared about.
I dont know, maybe im acting weird

Sleepyjack

Yeah, i don't know about an escort. Thats a little dodgy for a first time. Although i did get with some random chick whose name a can't fully remember, so i guess thats not much better. Definatly would've prefered to have done with someone i cared about, but i was too young at the time to think with anything esle other than my penis

meff

I lost mine 'the bad way' I guess.
Sexual abuse by, well, nevermind. Heh.

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jimk

i was very awkward & afraid of even talking to girls.........some girl at a kegger got me ripped playing quarters & boned me. i didn't remember a bit of it. she had to tell me we did it.

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tatertot

Lost it to another virgin.

We had been long time boyfriend/girlfriend. It happened one night after an exceptionally good time together. After that first time, we decided that sex wasn't all that it was cracked up to be and we wouldn't be doing it anymore; once was enough (no, really).

Yes, we were at it like bunnies every chance we got.

rosie21

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dannoxxxx

yeah, virginity was a big thing for me , in that i wanted to get rid of it. Once i did I was happy. I never wished it was more special or anything.....Im a guy and i didnt really care about the emotional side of it cause that wasnt what it was about. Later in life when i found girls that i cared about then the emotional aspect was a great and welcome addition to sex. The first time sucked when rated for quality and quantity but again, it was teh first time....for both of us.

Now sex is great and i would never want to go back to being inexperienced...are you kidding me!? I just look forward to getting better and better as I continue to live my life.

Hopefully be able to have sex into my 70s.

Ho-train

I lost mine in a drunken escapade.

If i had it my way i'd have lost it to someone i cared about...probably would've made it more enjoyable, and i wouldn't have that feeling of regret the next day.

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twotimesadingo

Had a bit of promiscuous sex in high school, but nothing that ever made me feel "guilty."

When it's with someone important, then the sex itself is important.
When it's with someone who's a casual acquaintance, then the sex is casual. I guess I really see no problem with that.

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Aladdin Sane

We were both 14, casual school friends, and virgins. It happened in the front seat of my mothers car. It was so quick. She cried, said "it hurts," and I came. She missed her period and we were scared out of our minds.

Not a great first time.

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i8one2

lost it to an older women(me 18-she 22/23) who was living with her BF at the time, we even took off to California via chicago area togther one night, driving!. Lasted about 4 months and she ended up back with him and I went to the military.

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anti fishstick

i lost mine to another virgin. we didn't know what the hell we were doing. but i don't regret it. just means it won't be as awkward next time

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quantumburnz

I lost mine freshman year of college, I don't regret it. It's been great ever since. (I love college!)

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CrazySaturn

*puts up virginity for sale sign*

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Rlyss

I had just turned eighteen a few months before and was in my first year of university/college. It was pouring down with rain and the curtains were open and the whole room was bathed in a blue-ish light from the storm outside, and I told her I was ready and things went from there I don't regret it, but I didn't particularly enjoy it sexually very much. It took me a few more times before I actually started to enjoy it at all.

daydream

My current b/f and I lost our virginity to each other and I don't regret it for one second. He's the love of my life and there's no one else I'd rather be with. If I had the chance to go back and lose it again... I wouldn't do it b/c it seems like everytime we have sex it just gets better and better. =)

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i had always thought losing it was a hug deal until it actually happened... then it was like 'oh... okay. what next?'

analog

If i could go back and redo it, I would have a small problem.

You see, I totally regret the relationship/losing my virginity to my first girlfriend. She mistreated me and was abusive and I hate that stupid bitch. (sorry.) The problem is, if I hadn't been with her, I'd never have been with my second girlfriend. My second girlfriend is the one who pushed me to get the job I have now, which is where I met my current girlfriend (after #2 and I broke up). I can't take it back, because i'd lose the one thing that matters most to me, my sweetheart.

vveronica

i dont remember if i ever was a virgin.... hehehe

seriously.... akward, weird, full of freaky thoughts..

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itchy93

(sigh)
I had taken a vow of celibacy a few years back, believing that the world puts too much emphasis on sex, and that it's too meaningful a thing to just <i>do</i>. Unfortunately, my ex-girlfriend and I got carried away one night, and I've regretted it every day since. What's really weird, though, is that since that happened, I've kinda started questioning why I thought it was such an important thing in the first place (no matter who you have sex with, be it a one-night hookup or a life partner, it is just about physical pleasure). I guess that's why I regret it, though: it was my loss of innocence; it made me a hippocrate, and it basically voided one of my biggest beliefs in life. (sigh)

Itchy93

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BigDonkey2

virginity didnt mean that much to me. i didnt care one way or the other. i just didnt want to lose it to some slut

juanvaldes

that about sums it up.

firebirdta

I thought it meant a lot to me, but afterward I really didn't feel different at all. Definitely no regrets and I wouldn't want to lose it again.

2001sc2

It was my first real girlfriend and I was her first real boyfriend. We were both virgins, and she actually never even let a guy up her shirt before me. And I'd never been past second base. So we were both very akward, but the good thing is that neither of us knew what we were doing so it wouldn't be wierd for either of us. Ahhh, what a 4th of July that was. Mad fireworks...
~Jim

legolas

I lost mine to the woman of my dreams who I deeply love. I wouldn't change anything.

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never

Dont regret anything about it. One of the best decisions ever.

KnifeMissile

(Not that anyone's reading this thread anymore but...) I lost my virginity during highschool, to my first girlfriend, who was also a virgin. We didn't know what we were doing but we were in love and wanted it so much with each other.
The sex wasn't exceptional but we loved each other and, so, we did it again and again. Eventually, the sex _did_ become amazing. It's hard to believe how good sex feels...

Shyla Loral

Well, it depends upon what you mean by virginity. Do you mean techincally, as in the hymen for girls or just having intercourse for the first time for guys? If you mean that (and I'm pretty sure you do) I lost mine in a not pleasant way through incest.
Now, if you mean when do I feel I lost my virginity? With my first *real* husband, meff. Because he cares and gentle and loving, and I consider that my first real sex=i.e. metaphorically losing my virginity to him.
Plus, I"m a tickle virgin with him. No one has ever been able to tickle me before him. I guess it leads back to trust. Now he tickles me all the time, heh.

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yoshi

I wouldn't change anything, except maybe the person I was with and no I don't want my virginity back, the experience has been great.

G_Whiz

I lost my virginity to the woman that I married. That was over 37 years ago and I wouldn't change a thing (even if she would let me ).

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RelaX

Still holding on to it... some days I just want to order an escort and get it over with, other times I'm almost glad I still have it.
Actually I'm half planning on losing it with my baby, also a virgin, but what with all the comments on here about the first time being awkward I'm starting to have doubts. Maybe I should have it with a more experianced woman first...

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oushi

That's pretty damned stupid if you ask me. Why would you want to lose it to some woman you have little to no feelings for when you've got a loving girlfriend you can give it to? The first time may be awkward, but at least you're experiencing it together... don't make a stupid move you might later regret.

spudman61

I lost mine when I was 16 with my g/f who was 15. Both fo us were virgins and clueless. I remember fumbling around down in her pants when I felt something wet and pulled my hand back quickly... lol it shocked me!

The sex wasn't the best but up until that poing in my life it was the best I had ever had!

wry1

The how and the when really aren't things that I find important in my life. As for Part II of your question: I much rather prefer sex with the experience I now have, since I find the sharing of pleasure - and the intimacy between two people who aren't always fumbling for something that feels good - to be terribly more erotic and arousing!

Good questions, though!

I would like to add one thing: a query, if I may....

Is there a particular reason why you are now questioning along these lines?

I thought about it, and can only come up with two reasons for this: you're either feeling regret or some other detrimental emotions regarding the loss of your virginity OR you're trying to decide if you should lose your virginity.

If the latter is the case, then you need to decide based upon what you feel and believe - not what other people tell you. All I can do is wish you well in whatever choice you make (assuming I'm right about this) and tell you not to regret whatever your choice may be.

arcane

i had a good experience the first time and would not take it back. she was more experienced than i which made the whole process easier seeing as how we both weren't fumbling about. afterwards i surprised her by telling her it was my first time. she got a little red in the face, but i didnt want to tell her beforehand because i thought that it might turn her off *shrug*

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sailor

Hahaha... Yeah... I didnt react quite so violently, but I do vividly remember being shocked by just *how* wet it was down there. I mean, subconsciously, you know it is, but I wasnt quite prepared for just how much so.

Ahh, inexperience.

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